For me, it's not really the cooking or even the clean up after. It's the having a plan, doing the shopping, using all the food in a timely fashion so it doesn't spoil, etc. that get's wearing. I've been sick and haven't gotten to the store this week so meals are getting a bit weird, but I'm definitely using up stuff!
Well stated. I love to cook, love to try new recipes, love to put an attractive and healthy meal on the table for my family ... but sometimes, sometimes I just can't. Yes, I agree it's not the time cooking ... it's the whole process.
But unlike most folks here, I'm fine with take-out ... and it's pretty economical for us because we usually split a big plate. A plate of Chinese take-out is enough for the two of us. The big BBQ plate (with an extra side salad) is a big meal for us. But I don't want it every day. Our most frequent "take out" meal is a rotisserie chicken from the grocery store accompanied by a can of baked beans or deli potato salad + a green salad.
I have seriously considered doing a meal plan where they send you the kit, but I know I can do it for less money myself. It just gets tiring! I get in a pretty good routine for a while, then I get bored or our schedules change and I have to create a new plan.
I have a problem with all the paper-and-plastic waste created by the meal kits. And, yes, absolutely we can do it for less money.
Things I like to keep in my freezer for quick-meals -- most of these are not "instant" meals, but they reduce prep time:
- Homemade spaghetti sauce ... I make this about twice a year and freeze it.
- Taco meat ... cooked up, frozen in small portions so we can just chop up lettuce, tomato, etc.
- Ground beef cooked up with a bit of onion and frozen in small portions. This can become Sloppy Joes or topping for Big Mac salad or any number of other things quickly. But it doesn't "stay good" as long as you might expect (I think it's the greater exposed surface area), so don't over-do.
- Shrimp taco in a bag ... I love this /my husband, not so much ... I put into a bag a small handful of (raw) medium-sized shrimp, bell pepper, black beans, and some spices. This defrosts super-fast, and I just fry the pieces in a pan ... and since I always have those small street-taco sized burrito shells, this is an easy quick meal.
- Pork Chop Casserole (one of my husband's ultra-faves) ... Mix up a box of cornbread stuffing with a bunch of onion and bell pepper (I usually use frozen, which is cheaper and easier) and press that cornbread into a medium casserole dish. Lay thin pork chops over the stuffing. Mix and pour over the top 1/4 cup BBQ sauce and 1/4 cup plum sauce. To prepare: Defrost completely, bake at 375 for 1 hour. Seriously, this is an excellent frozen casserole.
- Soup is a great thing to freeze ... I place mine in individual bags /lay them on a cookie sheet so they freeze in flat, quick-to-defrost portions. But all soup isn't freezer-friendly; for example, our favorite beef stew is downright BAD when frozen.
- When I find a bunch of chicken thighs on sale, I like to boil up a bunch /pull the meat off the bone and freeze them in larger portions along with a bit of chicken boullion and uncooked onion, carrot, and maybe peas or celery ... but just enough liquid to keep it all protected in the freezer ... this mixture is then ready to become chicken noodle soup (or chicken rice soup or chicken dumplings) or chicken casserole.