[color=CC0033]kadaten[/color], I feel your pain. DH and I got into it today. Mind if I vent? As I think I mentioned before, he got an e-mail from one of his three sisters last week asking us to come over for Easter, and he responded yes without even talking to me first. I'm usually easy going about these things, but not this time. I don't want to go because:
1. We haven't missed a major holiday with his family in years. And this includes Memorial weekend (family camping trips), 4th of July (his birthday is the 3rd and we always go to his moms for a picnic that weekend) and Labor Day (another family camping weekend).
2. If we go to her house, that means my parents are alone for the holiday (one of my brothers lives in Norfolk, my sister lives in Atlanta, and my other brother passed away a few years ago). There is no other family.
3. They live two hours away.
Now DH is feeling bad, because they came to our house for Thanksgiving and he feels that we should reciprocate. When I invite people, I always make sure to let them know that they do not have to feel obligated to come, but if they are available, we'd love to have them. We didn't guilt his SIL to come here, and I don't want to be guilted to go there either.
Basically, DH's three older sisters still treat him like the baby brother.
