There are plenty of interesting and nice people onboard with whom sharing a dinner table would be a delight. Unfortunately, it is a roll of the dice as to whether or not you will like who Disney seats you with.
On our first cruise, we were novices and didn't really know too much about what to expect. The people who were seated with us at dinner were awful. I am sorry to say that, but they were rude, obnoxious, low class. At first we tried to be friendly, but we soon discovered that these were people we would never associate with outside the ship. I am sure they thought we were snobs. We just couldn't laugh with them at their remarks about people.
The second night was unpleasant because we knew what to expect from them. They spoke constantly about the price of everything, and they would tug on the clothes of people passing by the table to poll them on the cost of their cruise. Then we would get looks, as if we were relatives of theirs. They talked about leaving their teenage daughter home alone and told us, -- "and boy, we know what she's up to out on the porch with that dirty, no good boyfriend of hers"........... My son sat behind his menu much of the time. They reminded me very much of the characters in Chevy Chase Vacation movies ~ (I mean Clark's cousins) Actually, I think these guys were worse because they had a mean streak to them in the way they referred to people. The last night of the crusie they were a no show. We knew why ~ they'd been telling us for three days how they planned on skipping the last meal because they weren't paying any *&@# tips - they'd paid enough $%&$ money. We felt sorry for the servers, and we really got the raw deal too because the servers somehow felt we should know where they were, and if they were coming to breakfast the next day.
We didn't know any better about requesting to be moved. We thought we were stuck with them since all the seats were taken.
Anyway, on our second crusie we requested a table alone. Things didn't work out because we were seated with another family of three. We took a deep breath and headed to our table to find two lovely, friendly people and a sweet little girl. (She was only 4, while our children were 13 and 18.) We ended up staying at that table. I am sure almost all your potential tablemates are "normal" enough -- it was just a fluke that we got Clark's cousins the first time.
Just wanted to let you know that while they try to honor requests, they can not always be met. Hopefully you will get one of the majority of pleasant cruisers at your next table. Just about everyone we encountered was so nice and friendly, except for that first cruises' tablemates. Looking back on it now though gives us a big laugh.
