Surprised by PM

[Freyja]

I recieved a PM from a certain nick on the Disboards accusing me of being rude and cruel. I don´t remember ever having has anything to do with person and she will not tell me when and where (in which discussion) I was supposedly mean and cruel to her. I think that´s unfair. At least she could give me a chance to defend myself.

What do you think?

 

[Chicago526]

Weird. Maybe she got you mixed up with someone else?

Anyway, I'd just ignore it, myself.

 

[piglet too]

For sarters, you could just ignore it.

 

[shirleyb]

Gotta agree with you on this one. I'd try to ignore it -- I know, easier said than done.

 

[Heidict]

I she won't tell you in what discussion it was or what it was that you said then I would just chalk it up to someone who is either
1) overly sensetive
2) bored with to much time on their hands
3) lying or
4) just plain crazy

If I were you I would ignore her. Getting into a PM arguement will accomplish nothing. She will believe what she wants to believe.

 

[SwedishMeatball]

I would just laugh if somebody sent me a general PM like that letting me know how much I got to them, but not willing to discuss the details. I agree about just ignoring it. You've probably given them some sort of satisfaction just by starting this thread.

 

[DisneyMommyMichelle]

with so many DIsers on these boards, she might have confused you with someone else!

Just move on

 

[DisneyAddict_M]

Sorry, that was supposed to go to someone else.

But seriously, the rational side of me would just ignore it. But the nosey side of me (which usually wins out) would PM her back to get all the details.

 

[Pam]

I would just laugh if somebody sent me a general PM like that letting me know how much I got to them, but not willing to discuss the details. I agree about just ignoring it. You've probably given them some sort of satisfaction just by starting this thread.

That's not what those 3,872 PMs I received from you on Sunday said!

You skeered me! They were definitely not full of and



Freyja,
I personally have never seen a nasty or mean post from you. Sounds like a was trying to make waves. If the person doesn't have the balls to give you specific details of your alleged cruelty, I wouldn't let it bother me.

 

[cardaway]

Maybe they used a different username to send the PM than the one they used when you were rude?

 

[SwedishMeatball]

That's not what those 3,872 PMs I received from you on Sunday said!

You skeered me! They were definitely not full of and

Yeah, well at least I don't send porn links.

 

[Cool-Beans]

What is a nick?

And if they don't want to discuss it, why bother sending the PM? I'd stick that person in the Fruit Loop category and not worry about it.

 

[Cantw8]

yeah, I've had a few surprising ones myself Seriously, some people here are just bitter and have some severe issues and waaaaay too much time on their hands Ignore the friggin idiot

 

[Pam]

Yeah, well at least I don't send porn links.

As I tried to explain in my PM, I was just trying to spread the and

Geesh..... can I ever do right in your eyes?

I assumed nick was a slang word for a bloke.

 

[kimmikayb]

If this person won't give details...I'd say she is looking for a fight or just crazy. Ignore her.

 

[need_a_Disney_fix]

Freyja, you are one of the kindest, sweetest DISers here. I know its difficult to do, but please ignore this individual. Here is a from me.

 

[SwedishMeatball]

As I tried to explain in my PM, I was just trying to spread the and

Geesh..... can I ever do right in your eyes?

I assumed nick was a slang word for a bloke.

Nah, you're perfect just the way you are. Don't ever change. Please keep spreading the love.

 

[Bob Slydell]

If they won't answer in a PM what thread it was that ticked them off, it's a pretty good bet they're not hopping on this thread to tell you either.

 

[Freyja]

Freyja, you are one of the kindest, sweetest DISers here. I know its difficult to do, but please ignore this individual. Here is a from me.

Thank you! That´s soo sweet.

 

[JR6ooo4]

I would report (he, she, it) if nick will not give the details. Get the mods on your side before nick.

Mikeeee