We've done three surprise trips and kept all the reveals low-key.
2011 - We had two vacation options fall through because of weather and I told my husband we should just go back to Disney. It was a spur of the minute trip and we told the boys they were guaranteed a theme park (that promise was initially made for Hershey Park). They played on their games through the whole stretch that shows all the billboards for Disney - thank goodness. I have a great video of seeing the WDW sign over the road and telling them to look up and see where we would be vacationing that week - my then-8 year old went nuts! My then-5 year old said, "Aww, I wanted to go to a hotel." He got excited when he realized he got to go to a hotel AND Disney World

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2013 - We had a California trip we had been planning for years. Baby #3 decided her due date should fall on the exact date we were going to be driving into Anaheim. We decided to bump the trip back - my husband wanted to push it back a year, I wanted two push it back two months (I'd much rather travel across the country with an infant who sleeps most of the time than a one-year old who needs entertainment, toys, snacks, more time out of the carseat, etc.). And I didn't want to have to tell the boys we were pushing the trip back another year. They didn't know we had plans for
Disneyland, but they had this iconic image of California and couldn't wait for that trip. DD ended up being a preemie, so didn't stick to her due date, but that didn't influence our new trip dates. We crossed the country and pulled up in front of the Grand Californian and told them where we were spending the week and got a lackluster video that was so disappointing I deleted it on the spot. Well, I should've taken a video when they actually saw Disneyland - I know better, if kids have never actually seen a location, they don't know what to expect. Once they saw the entrance to the parks, they went nuts. It was one of our best vacations ever.
2015 - We told them very early on that we were going to Alaska. They thought we were driving - which we were, to Vancouver (we drive everywhere - saves us thousands). We got turned around and almost blew the surprise when we drove right by the Disney Wonder - I directed their attention out the opposite window (it was like an office building or something lol!). We made it into the parking garage, got turned around twice about what level we needed to be on - almost saw the Wonder through the windows of one level) and finally got to sea level and walked outside - that one is my favorite videos ever. I told them that's how we were getting to Alaska - they'd been asking for a
Disney Cruise for over a year since we watched a special. They went nuts. It was so great. They were informed that would probably be their last surprise trip. Little sister might get a few, but how can I possibly top a Disney Cruise to Alaska??
So I guess my moral of the story is keep expectations low

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