MickeyMomOfThree
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I agree with all of you and the big house/big morgage and utilities thng. Truth is DH and I do dream of a bigger house, we always say how nice 1500 would be. When we were looking to move we were looking for not much bigger then this, still 3 bedrooms (the younger 2 may have very difference cleaning preferences but they both didn't and still don't want to be seperated.) We were looking at about 1400-1500 sf but with a nice basement
and less issues.
I am not sad that we bought a house, but this house, it has a bad layout and no storage and a lot of issues, most of which involves the wet basement and the constant battle with that. I have to be pretty much on my own in the battle to deal with it because DH has very bad asthma and lung issues and can't even be down there for minutes without developing a problem. He has used masks to help and that is OK for a while but when he is down there too much he will develop a lung infection. We'd love to have it dealt with once and for all, but the house is right now worth less then what we still owe on it (hoping that it rebounds) but a loan for that would be impossible.
I count myself lucky because we didn't get in over our heads like many young people do, and I have made it a home for us. The girls rooms are beautiful (amazing what paint can do) and the family room is just how I'd have it in any house color wise and stuff, so it isn't all bad I guess I am just so frustrated because of storage so I am going to use many of the ideas here and get a better handle on it.
Someday I do believe we will move and you know, I will miss this house. I remember the day we bought it and DD15 who was 2 hugged the tree in the yard and thanked us for buying her a yard with trees and grass (something we never had.) We brought 2 babies home to this house, watched them take their first steps, leand to ride their bikes, fell down and needed stiches, played in the sprinkler so long they flooded the yeard, on and on. It has been our home and we have made many memories. I just need to get a handle on their clothes so one of their memories isn't mom throwing all the laundry into the firepit and joining a nudest colony.
OK, it;s not that bad, but I do need to get a handle on it and I think yo uall ahve helped me with some great ideas. 
and less issues.I am not sad that we bought a house, but this house, it has a bad layout and no storage and a lot of issues, most of which involves the wet basement and the constant battle with that. I have to be pretty much on my own in the battle to deal with it because DH has very bad asthma and lung issues and can't even be down there for minutes without developing a problem. He has used masks to help and that is OK for a while but when he is down there too much he will develop a lung infection. We'd love to have it dealt with once and for all, but the house is right now worth less then what we still owe on it (hoping that it rebounds) but a loan for that would be impossible.
I count myself lucky because we didn't get in over our heads like many young people do, and I have made it a home for us. The girls rooms are beautiful (amazing what paint can do) and the family room is just how I'd have it in any house color wise and stuff, so it isn't all bad I guess I am just so frustrated because of storage so I am going to use many of the ideas here and get a better handle on it.
Someday I do believe we will move and you know, I will miss this house. I remember the day we bought it and DD15 who was 2 hugged the tree in the yard and thanked us for buying her a yard with trees and grass (something we never had.) We brought 2 babies home to this house, watched them take their first steps, leand to ride their bikes, fell down and needed stiches, played in the sprinkler so long they flooded the yeard, on and on. It has been our home and we have made many memories. I just need to get a handle on their clothes so one of their memories isn't mom throwing all the laundry into the firepit and joining a nudest colony.
OK, it;s not that bad, but I do need to get a handle on it and I think yo uall ahve helped me with some great ideas. 
. Just because you call someone in for an estimate doesn't mean you're signing a contract, promise. DH does tons of estimates that don't end up in jobs, contractors expect that. I would call a few concrete masons. It could be something as easy as the land slanting back in to the house, so the rain doesn't run off properly. Or it could require jacking up the house and doing some serious repairs, or anywhere in between. (Here's my horror story of house hunting: saw a redone farmhouse with all fresh paint/carpeting/etc, really cute, but a few walls had cracks, which seemed odd with the fresh paint. We went in the basement and the walls were literally crumbling, so the walls upstairs were cracking from the stress. No, we didn't buy it
.)
Thanks Terri, you are so sweet. (BTW, I grew up in lower MI, near Ann Arbor. Always wanted to get to the UP to see it, got close but haven't made it yet...someday!)