Honestly IME, this is more of a middle class problem with students who want to go to specific schools far from home and maybe even private, not work, want "good" housing with reasonable furniture and no roommates, don't qualify for scholarships, have cars, take spring break trips, whose parents want them "to have the best..." etc.
That was my sister only she was fine with roommates qualified for a crap ton of scholarships and didn't take spring break trips although she did join a sorority (which was so opposite of what she would normally be about). However she was (and may still be) an elitist. Not sure where she got it from can't figure it out.
She had a full ride from the other big college in my state but no that was not enough. She wanted Rolla big time and then ended up at Cornell. Yeah she was all about the Ivy League thing and it sure wasn't like we were rich lol.
She was in civil engineering for so many years having worked for the city during her high school years too. However, my sister had mental issues she had never gotten looked at, my parents didn't want to see it although I knew things were up.
Her sophomore year of college she abruptly switched to English major and then soon after was put on academic probation and was advised by the college to go home get her depression (which was strongly suspicion and eventually formally diagnosed) and don't come back until that is being well treated. She never went back and lost all her credits she had done because they wouldn't release her transcripts until she paid them what she owed. She ended up going to Community College and then onto where I actually went and I believe has an accounting degree ironically I might add because my mom did accounting for many years just without a college degree and my sister like to throw it in my mom's face that "what did she know she didn't have a college degree". She did have some loans for Cornell because tuition isn't cheap but a lot was taken care of with scholarship.
I just found out last year that in 2007/2008 she went to bankruptcy court and got the scholarship money removed. We say you know the rules about loans, well you know the rules about scholarships. We also tell our kids to get as much scholarship money as they can. Why is that okay to be built into the system to be discharged due to financial woes but we have an antagonistic relationship societially with student loans.
One thing that I think we all do is generalize a bit too much. My sister wanted that school but she was fine living with roommates nor did she care about the furniture nor did she go on lavish trips, she was well used to working in fact how she hid her depression from my parents (even with me trying to tell them) was working 2 jobs because that was how she could explain her exhaustion and why sleeping more than 12 hours often enough was just fine, and she had an older car (a 1999 plymouth breeze that I'm sure stuck out like a sore thumb in cornell) and while I know my parents wanted success for us neither one nor my stepmom were snooty about things although we're considered middle class. And I couldn't be farther from my sister on so many levels, beats me how we could end up so dang different on our mentalities. Although don't confuse that to mean she didn't know she didn't have to pay her loans back, she knew she did, she after all took a gadzillion AP courses, got a 34/36 on her ACT and got into Ivy League

(that's tongue and cheek there because that stuff is what mattered to her in terms of being above others).
More to my point for most of my comments is how much of X comprises of the issue. I think sometimes we all have gotten into the my side vs your side but I have usually wanted to know the scope of things and that absolutely goes for anything I've talked about too. We may share our stories of our own plights or our own experiences with people we know but we don't necessarily know how much of us out there are also shared. To me to know just what we can work to do we have to know the scope of the issue. There's no ignoring that you have those types of kids out there you've described or ones that I or others have described, but it's understanding is that how we got into THIS mess or is it other things. To me you can't get around that there are flaws in our system, I don't think it's conscionable to ignore that.
While I certainly agree that personal finance should be a requirement, my guess is that in many cases it's not that advice hasn't been given, it's that it wasn't listened to
You know what we did have in high school? The "take the fake baby home" class. Yes teenage pregnancy is a big issue. Other life lessons were not really on the radar unless you count sewing and food classes (I really did enjoy the food classes was making all sorts of different recipes). In truth you'll also find parents who don't believe it's the school's place. There absolutely should be a class in high school (preferably junior year IMO) for finance things not only in how debt works but how different kinds of debt works, how a loan process goes, loans conditions, budgeting, etc.
I will give 1 caveat though, for a field trip we went to this place called Exchange City in elementary school IIRC (which really that experience should have been repeated in middle and high school). It's a place where built in is a fake city complete with shops and all. That is the single time that finances were really taught. I was in the bank as my job. Two different schools were there at the same time so we all intermingled with jobs. But after that talk about budgeting, how credit cards work, loans and mortgages was not done and by us being in elementary school most of that knowledge is so surface level and not repeated later on when things become tangible such as jobs and then looking towards college OR whatever one plans to do after high school. We should also have a class about taxes and how to file them, how claiming exemptions work, etc.
I think my elementary school did well to prepare us for middle and high school where you switched rooms for classes and had to take your stuff with you. But I wish that in high school we had a class that taught much more things. It's easy to say "we'll help fill out a form" it's another to go over what that form means.
students CAN get through school by trying to minimize the amount of loans they take a bunch of people get angry and literally don't want to hear it.
This is just my observation but I don't think it's being ignored or falling on deaf years. But we do still as a society have this opinion that if I did it so can you, including myself in that because there are times where I've been outspoken about teens getting the responsibility to pay for things like a car, cell phone, insurance, etc.
Also saying that you can try to minimize the loans a decent amount of times when people give examples of how they did it either by being dual enrolled to get a leg up on credits, took CC classes during the summer, went to a school that wasn't astronomical in costs, worked through college, didn't have fancy things, etc it can be met with "well I'm not talking about
you though" but those people who comment are usually the louder voices, myself included. I'm not sure angry is the emotion that gets exhibited though. If I had to be honest the "literally don't want to heart it" IME comes across the strongest and loudest from the group that feels "I did it (or my kids did it) so can you (your kids). Purely my observation. All the voices talk, but who is the loudest is another thing.