KristiA said:
We initially brought two single strollers. One for 2 yo and one to share for 5yo and 8 yo. Big mistake. That first day, the 5 yo and 8 yo fought over who got to sit in the stroller. They just got so tired and hot. So for the rest of time, we left one single in the hotel and ended up renting a double stroller every day for the 5 and 8 yo. Everyone was much happier after that.
Totally understand!
I think everyone's situation, family and children are different and what works for so, won't be the same for others.
My DD6-1/2 is totally capable of walking on her own. She never uses a stroller at home and hasn't for a while. If she was tired, we probably would be too and leave. We have no problem with spending 2 hours in the park for the day.
The problem is her little sister, DD4. She is the "baby" of the family and totally milks it. She's always "too tired" to walk and wants to be carried even from the car to the house, etc. Not much stamina, tires out easily, her sister got all the athletic genes - lol! There is no way in hell or heaven, that little girl is going to walk in the parks. She would be whining all day, would probably sit in the middle of the road, and we would wind up carrying her all day if we didn't bring a stroller.
Therein lies the probem. If DD6 sees her little sister in the stroller, being pushed around like the queen in the parade, no way would she want to tire herself out by walking.
"No fair, no fair"
"But you are older, too old for a stroller, dear"
"But I'm tired to walk"
"You need to walk"
"How come she gets to sit?"
"Because she's younger and can't walk as long as you"
"I can't walk either, no fair, I want to sit"
Pushes her sister off the stroller
"Waaaah! Mommy, she pushed me! I'm hurt! Waaaah!!!!"
Now 2 crying kids...
Time to go home...
In my case, it would just be so much simpler to have strollers for both girls so that they don't fight over it even though one doesn't need it.
DD6 would be perfectly happy to walk if her DS4 did too (which ain't gonna happen), if one of us took her alone to the parks, if there were other kids with us who were walking, or if I was by myself taking the 2 girls to the park.
She understands that there is no way for me to push 2 single strollers by myself (she hasn't figured out the double
stroller rentals yet

) and knows that if she doesn't walk, we can't go. If DH goes, then she feels entitled to have him push her, since, Mom is pushing her sister.
Can't wait until the little one is out of the stroller so that they will both be stroller free.