String's Atkin's Journal (Please Comment)

Glad your shifts are over. There are truly bizarre things that happen at the hospital aren't there?;) How about sex after just giving birth? My co-worker was horrified to walk in on that!

Take some me time this week after your busy weekend.:D
 
Well,

I only made it to a few journals today. I'm sorry if I missed yours. I will be catching up tomorrow I did manage to get most things done today, but I ended up with a major headache. I took some advil and a nap, so I feel much better. Dinner was nice, and OP. I am headed to bed.

Tomorrow I am going to the Y. I haven't been there since Wednesday, and I can really feel it. I want a great workout. Katie has swimming lessons in the afternoon. That is my plan. I want to go to the bookstore tomorrow evening. I need to look for a parenting book. Katie is extremely sensitive and is melting down if she thinks anyone is laughing at her. She says she is embarrassed. I am having a really hard time figuring out how to help her with this. If anyone has suggestions I am listening. I know I won't find all answers in books, but it might help guide me towards the right approach for my daughter. She is so different from me, it is hard. I think she is wonderful and don't want to change her, but I need to help her cope with some things right now.

Have a good evening,
Beth
 
Oh Beth- I know that it is so hard when you have to see Katie struggle. I am having a similar problem with my 8 year old right now. I feel that her self-esteem is really low and she is always comparing herself to her little brother (who is good at everything and loved by everyone at school...) It is so hard.
My only advice is that as long as you are looking for parenting books, also get some kids books for Katie that deal with confidence... Amazing Grace is a really good book. Katie may relate to the main character (an African-American girl who wants to play Peter Pan in the school play.) I also love Arthur books, because they explore the social life of Arthur at school. He (or other characters) often lack confidence compared to school friends abilities but then usually learns a good lesson by the end. Like for example there is one where a certain character has dyslexia or one where Arthur is embarrased about having glasses, one where he feels like a baby because he hasn't lost a tooth yet (all his friends already had lost a tooth)...
Give her a little extra love today.
Happy Monday- Hope you acheive all you set out for today!
mary
 
I can relate to your problem with Katie. My DD was the same way at Her age. I patiently tried to explain we were not laughing AT her but WITH her. She didn't go for that at all.:rolleyes: But what we thought of as cute little stories of what she had done, said, etc. she felt that we were making fun of her. Basically, we had to refrain from telling people about it when she was around. I guess we basically had to respect her feelings until she outgrew this stage. And yes, this stage shall also pass. Good for you to recognize the need to address it. And Katie may just be a child who does not like to call attention to herself. With my DD, we just kept enrolling her in the various activities that she requested until we finally found some that she excelled at. That was the only way to develope her selfesteem. My DD is just about 12 now and doing very well both in school and socially. It was a lot of worry for me and heartache when other kids hurt her feelings, but all you can do is listen, respect her feelings and offer support. I hope that helps!::yes::

You sound as if you had quite the weekend. I hope you get some time to do some stuff for yourself this week - like make a favorite OP meal and get your workouts in! Glad to hear you had a productive doctors visit too!:teeth:

:hug: :hug: :hug: for you and Katie as you deal with everything this week. Hope that headache has moved on too! :moped: :moped: :moped:

TTFN-
Sharon :sunny:
 

thanks everyone for your reassurance about Katie. It is just so hard to watch your child in pain.
Today was OP. I made it to the gym and did 4 miles on the fat burner and 3 weight circuits. I did go to the bookstore and picked up some great children's books. I ordered the Amazing Grace book. Thanks for the suggestions. I am going to keep a journal of Katies food intake. She may also be developing a new allergy. When she gets a new one, she has behavior changes. It will be a week-10 days before I know anything. To be honest, I am hoping it is just a stage. I am not sure how many more allergies I can handle.

Plan for tomorrow. I am hoping to drag my butt out of bed at 6AM tomorrow for cardio. Katie has dance lessons tomorrow and then grocery shopping. I need to clean the bathrooms, again. I will be hitting journals throughout the day.

Have a great one,'
Beth
 
:wave2: Hi Beth,
Katie is such a lucky little girl to have a caring mom like you :hug: . I am sure you will guide her through as best as you can :D .

Sounds like quite the weekend you had. I can't believe the couple doing the deed in hospital :eek: !

I hope your head is feeling better today. Have a great night :wave: .
 
Beth, being a mom is so hard sometimes. We feel our kids' pain so acutely, don't we? Best wishes for Katie to have a happy day today!! Best wishes for her Mommy, too!! ::yes::
 
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Good morning Beth:sunny:

I have to agree with Val; your Katie is so blessed to have such a wonderful and caring mom like you.:hug: I just know that you will help Katie get through this.::yes::

I hope that you have a wonderful week! Take good care of you!
:hug:

Tracy:wave:
 
Hi Beth :wave2: and BIG HUGS to a great mom and daughter! :hug: :hug: :hug: I wish I had some suggestions for you--my ds has always been a bit tooooooo outgoing for his own good. :rolleyes: Katie seems like such a darling little girl, and I, personally, can relate to her sensitivities. It's so hard at her age to understand people's intentions, and even harder when it's your child who's in pain. I'm sending my best wishes to your little sweetie--such a tender heart. :hug:

Great job on your exercise, Beth! You keep on jammin'! :cool1:

Have a wonderful Tuesday! :sunny:
 
I am not in a very good place today. I have been mostly on program, but have been eating non stop today. I didn't manage to get to the Y either. I just couldn't make myself get up this morning. I can definatley feel the differance in my stress level. I am not happy with my choices today. Katie and I are at loggerheads today. I have charted her food today, and I am thinking that part of the issue is sugar. She threw an attitude(think 14 year old) about 90 minutes after eating fruit snacks. Then about 45 minutes later she had burst into tears because she can't get her coat on. I am not going to do low carb for her, but she no longer gets sugar without protein or fat. We'll see if this works. It is just frustrating because she already has so many diet limitations. No milk, soy, apples, pears, cranberries, peaches, or apricots. Oh well, I'll make it work. At least she isn't a picky eater.

My doctor called today. My cholesterol is down. My thyroid is normal, and my hormones are stabilizing. She wants me to consider a low estrogen BCP. I will probably do it because I can't stand the irregularity of my cycle. I also don't want to go through the whole pregnant/not pregnant thing. I would have loved to have more kids, but with all the miscarriages I have had, I'm done. I just can't risk it again. I know that I should be happy that nothing is wrong with me, but I really was hoping that I could have a tangible reason why I am exhausted all the time and not losing anymore weight. She did have me take a depression scale, so I am not clinically depressed. I am pathetic. I swear, I am not usually a hypochondriac.

I need to tear my house apart because the exterminaters are coming in the morning. Won is working from home, so I can still go to the Y. I plan on doing 3 weight circuits and 65 minutes on the treaddie. I also want to do at least 15 minutes on the elliptical too. I need to wash all the bedding in the ouse after the exterminators come through. I will also have to reassemble the house and I am making pork loin for dinner. I won't make it to journals until tomorrow night. It now seems that I can't get to them until Katie is in bed anymore. I am definately sending :goodvibes to all.


Have a good one,
Beth
 
:hug: :hug: :hug: Beth you are so hard on yourself. You are NOT pathetic, you are just having a bad day. I hear you wish sister because I am there too.:( Tomorrow will be better for both of us I promise.:hug:
 
Hang in there Beth! Just remember your doing a great job and your healthy. Tomorrow is another day and you'll be back to your normal "work-your-butt-off" self again::yes:: ::yes:: ::yes::
 
Beth,

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: Please don't be so hard on yourself. You are NOT pathetic at all. You are an amazing woman! You are a caring and loving mom, a wonderful wife, an excellent daughter, and a great friend. I know that I speak for many when I say that I am blessed to have you in my life and to call you my friend.:hug:

I am happy to hear that the doctor has given you a clean bill of health. :Pinkbounc That is great news!

I am praying Beth that the Lord would give you His strength to get through each day. I am reminded of a song by Steven Curtis Chapman....

"His strength is perfect when our strength is gone. He'll carry us when we can't carry on. Raised in His power, the weak become strong. His strength is perfect. His strength is perfect."

Have a peaceful and restful night, sweetie. Take good care of you!:hug:

Tracy:wave2:
 
Thanks Wilderness and Tracy,

I am feeling a bit better today. I'm off into the day.
Beth
 
Beth - I think you are being WAY to hard on yourself! Look at everything you and your family have been through lately! You are not superwoman and you cannot do it all. Concentrate on what is really important and the rest will just fall into place. I hope Katie is feeling a little better and I'm sure she will appreciate all the hard work that you are doing to be a good Mom to her. If she doesn't now - she will later (trust me on this!)

~Amanda
 
Dear Beth, you are not pathetic in the least. You are a strong, courageous woman!! I admire how much you get done in a day! Are you sure that you're not trying to fit too many things into your day, causing you to be so tired? I don't think I could survive more than a few days on your schedule!

Add the stress in many areas of your life to that hectic pace - WOW! You have good reason to be tired!

I don't have a lot of time at the moment but next week, maybe I'll do some internet research on other causes of fatigue - I'm thinking of vitamin deficiencies at the moment. Do you take a multi-vitamin daily? May I ask which one? There's been a lot of talk about a lack of one of the B vitamins causing fatigue lately. The other thing that comes to mind immediately is sleep apnea. I'll let you know if I come up with anything interesting. ::yes::

I hope both you and Katie are feeling better today! :sunny:
 
Hi Beth,
I hope today is going well for you :hug: . I'm glad to hear that your tests all look good. I think it must be something in the air because my DS has been especially difficult the past couple of days. I don't know if it is because he feels sick or what but yesterday we had a go around about wearing a jacket to school. The other day he ended up grounded from his video game, not allowed to play outside, and in bed early all from seperate episodes :rolleyes: . I'll have to pay close attention to his diet and see if I can see any patterns. He is usually a very easy going child.

Well, I'm sending good vibes :goodvibes for a terrific Wednesday, Beth! Take good care of you :) .
 
Oh Beth! :hug: :hug: :hug: I can think of many, many words to describe you: loving, kind, devoted, inspirational, determined, generous...oh, I could go on and on. You certainly are not pathetic. But you know what, I think there are days we all feel that way. You have been overwhelmed lately, trying to juggle so much--I bet at times you feel just emotionally and physically exhausted. My goodness, I know I would (and unlike you, I'd really be whining about it!) :) I am so inarticulate when it comes to providing words of comfort, but I hope you know how much I admire you for your strength, courage and loyalty. :hug:

I am thinking of you today, special, special Beth! :sunny:
 
Thank you all.

I was :sad: :sad: when I read all the wonderful responses to my journal. I can't thank you guys enough. You are the best. I am going to start taking my B complex vitamins again. I'll see if it make a differance. I just don't see what I can cut out of my schedule. I am also going to try to be in bed by 10 pm S-TH.

I did make it to the Y, but only did my weights and 2.5 miles. I ended up with nasty blisters from my new shoes. They just need to be broken in. I actually really like these shoes. I should know better than try and break in shoes at 5 mph.

The exterminator didn't show, so I called. They didn;t have me scheduled. Hello! It is a standing appointment, and they sent me a confirmation. I ended up call corporate and they comped the treatment. I am sorry, but my time is valuable. I wouldn't have asked for the comp, but their customer service wass so poor and nasty.

I need to make dinner,
take care,
Beth
 













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