staying with fiance night before

[c&k]

hi. we are getting married at the wedding pavillion in august. i was wondering if any of you brides out there stayed with your fiance the night before the wedding. i know it is tradition not to but i feel i would sleep better knowing he was beside me. am i just being weird. any responses would be great. thanks

 

[Debbie1]

I will be staying with my fiancee on the night before our October wedding as I know I will sleep much better and logistically it will be much easier.

 

[karenperez]

I couldn't imagine not having him there!

 

[c&k]

Thanks guys that has helped me alot. i feel much better

 

[heathrow42]

Umm.. yeah.. so do what feels right for ya'll (which means ask him what he wants too) There's no wedding police that's gonna come and separate you and if anyone gives you a hard time, tell them that you would rather spend the $300+ on your honeymoon than on an extra room.

I think that alot of that tradition stuff has changed over the years.. traditionally you didn't live with your DF before getting married either.. but it's really not a big deal esp. if you have been living together already. So if it makes you both happy, why not? Now for us.. well DF might just want to get his own room just so he can get some sleep, I'm the kind of person that stays up all night when I am excited and nervous.

--heather

 

[dsnyfan6/18]

we will be there 3 nights before the wedding and we are not staying together at all until the wedding night

 

[cryssi]

we stayed together too. We were wandering around Downtown Disney the morning of the wedding and saw some relatives...they jokingly said "you're not supposed to see each other!" We just laughed...

 

[disneyheaven]

Hi there!
My fiance and I are staying together the night before our wedding too! The way we figure it, we are paying a fortune to stay at a lagoon view room at the Polynesian...we both deserve to experience it together each night we are there! We figure that in the morning, we will both get up together and I will hop in a cab and head to the Yacht and Beach where I will be getting ready with my family and friends, and he will be hitting the parks for a bit with his family before he needs to get ready. I think seeing him in the morning will ease my nerves He always calms me So your getting married in August? me too!! When is your date????

 

[scarlett873]

DH and I were married in Orlando, but not at WDW. We stayed at the ASMu...we stayed together the night before the wedding! It just didn't make sense to sleep in separate rooms when we had lived together for the entire year prior! When we got up to get ready, I made him get ready earlier and then sent him out of the room while I had someone come in to do my hair. He came back after I was ready and away we went!

I see nothing wrong with staying together that night at all...you need to do whatever you are most comfortable with!

 

[c&k]

Our date is august 4th. the wedding pavillion for the cermony and then on to the grand floridian. i am getting very excited, not nervous yet. what is your date.

 

[JandJ]

we will be there 3 nights before the wedding and we are not staying together at all until the wedding night

We didn't see each other from 10:00 the night before until I walked down the "aisle" at 3:00 the next day. We moved into our house together a few months before the wedding but I left the Sunday before the ceremony to spend time with my family in another city. So, we weren't actually together for 4 nights before the wedding. We did speak on the phone a few times the day of the wedding but I didn't want to see each other. I am totally old fashioned that way. DH didn't care, but he said he would do what I wanted. Do what feels right for you! That's what I did

 

[Cinderella Fan]

We will be spending the night together the night before the wedding. However, that morning, around 11 or so, he will go to his parent's room while I get ready. He won't see me again until the wedding. That way, we have a little tradition.... we have lived together for almost 5 years....

 

[disneyheaven]

Hey C&K,
Our Date is August 21st It's going to be a hot one!! Sometimes I think I am crazy for getting married in Disney in the month of August...but at least we are both at the wedding pavilion! That a AC better be blasting!!! hahah

 

[PigletFairy]

I was wanting to go traditional and stay with my parents the night before. DH would stay at our brand new apartment that I hadn't seen! Well we received some really bad news after the rehersal dinner and I was not about to let him go sleep by himself. It was the best thing we could have done! We slept so peaceful and we were relax and so comfortable. I loved our wedding day but being with him all day relaxed me and things I know would have stressed me, didnt. He was wonderful and relaxed, something I didnt think could happen on HIS wedding day! I know that being together made our wedding day more special and more relaxing and even more special to us I'm such a sap!

 

[stitch626_in_time]

We are planning on staying together the night before our wedding. It just makes sense. We live together now and will probably share suitcases and stuff. We will get up the morning of, have breakfast and then he will be off to either Family or Friends rooms to get ready while I get ready with my bridesmaids in our room.

 

[D&R love Disney]

We stayed together. Neither one of us was going to give up sleeping in our garden suite LOL.

 

[olbear]

Guess I'm a prude, but I'm an old fashioned girl. I didn't "stay" with my hubby until after the I do's.

It was new, fresh, and the best present I could ever give my husband. He was my "first" and my one and only. He was definately worth waiting for!!

Blessings,
Winnie

 

[twojo21]

my husband & i stayed together the night before our wedding, it was nice. we then seperated after breakfast to get ready.

 

[hfehr1s]

I think it is really just a personal preference what everyone one does. I will be staying with my parents the first two nights we are there and DF will be staying in our room alone. Then after the wedding I will join him in our room. I kind of like the idea of being seperate until after the wedding, plus I know it would mean alot to my parents and his parents -- so that's what we're going to do. Even though we have basically stayed with one another almost every night for the last 2 years.

 

[disprincessatheart]

We are staying together the night before, and then separating first thing in the morning until the ceremony.

This was a big issue for my mom and my DF. She wanted us to split, he was dead set on us staying together (for the price of the room at the GF that we're both dying to stay in, he didn't want either of us to miss it). Plus, since everyone that's coming down will be married couples, one of us would end up spending the night alone in that room, and that seems weird.

It took some time, but my mom is now ok with the idea as long as we split up first thing in the morning. Actually, I think when I reminded her how much we were spending on the room, she realized there was no way we were going to budge!