state tests today at school and my dd is sick-UPDATE #65

I've been in and out reading this thread and I find the differing comments very interesting. I figured I would throw my take in for the heck of it. Not that it really matters, but here goes...

I have two girls in middle school, 6th and 8th grade. Both are considered gifted and talented. DD13 is what I would refer to more as highly motivated than gifted. She is very good at taking what is given to her and running with it; very good at working within the box. She has always gotten really good grades and tested exceptionally well UNTIL 7th grade, when she was put into the ALM program meant for gifted and high performing students. Once she was placed into the ALM program, which teachers that have had children in the program have been highly critical of, we saw a decline in her testing scores and a huge rise in her anxiety. She is very hard on herself and any criticism is internalized. We have tried a number of techniques to reduce that stress, but unfortunately her team of teachers (the same from 7th to 8th grade) have escalated it. They layer a great deal of responsibility on these kids to out perform their previous year's scores, despite the fact that many have scored near perfect and certainly well above standards since they began testing. At some point you are not going to see a remarkable year over year improvement. They are retaining the same percentage of the info from year to year despite adding more knowledge to the base. DD13 has manifested a number of stress related symptoms as we have entered testing week only to return home from each day of testing to say how easy each has been. Was she well prepared? Yes, I would say so, but at what cost? Weeks, months of extra test prep homework in addition to her homework related to the more in depth study of each subject throughout the year that her fellow students don't receive. The shear volume has been over whelming and at times ridiculous. We shall see where she ultimately ends up. If her writing assessment was any indication, she will have improved, making up for the 7th grade shortfall and a great deal more. One has to wonder if she simply is more mature and better able to handle the pressure? As for DD11? She is what I would consider truly gifted and certainly out of the box. Each year is different. Some teachers do exceptionally well meeting her needs, others, well...just, well. I'm glad we believe in supplemental education at home. It has served both girls very well. She has NEVER tested well except in math; the strong subject she hates and believes she sucks in! LOL. She regularly out performs her older sister at the same grade level. She's difficult to motivate and certainly not self motivated. I have made it very clear to the school that she is NOT to be included in the ALM program despite her high level of giftedness. She will not do well in that environment, this we are absolutely sure of. Which brings up the point that our state is likely to switch to "pay for student test performance" next year. While I am not at all an advocate of this, it does have one interesting side effect. Our crappy attempt at middle school GT education, ala ALM, will be eliminated as it is "unfair that one group of teachers would have the advantage of the top students, but the disadvantage of the lower potential for year over year improvement.". In other words, our ALM teachers are complaining that their students can't improve enough percentage wise year to year to make them look good, despite the fact that they test the highest in the district. Yet, these are the kids that, in our experience, are ridden the hardest and applied the most pressure to in the student population for state test prep. As a side note, our new super intendant has two children, one of which is middle school, the other elementary. Both are GT. He is the first to tell you how our existing district GT policies are failing these children. It should be interesting to see how he moves forward...

And, in regards to keeping children home sick during testing...Remember, these are your children, nobody will have their best interests at heart like you do, nobody. If you feel they would be better served staying home and healing, then keep them home. If you feel they will be better served by attending and taking the test at a compromised level, the send them and let them know why. If you have a vacation planned and you believe that world travel is more important than some state testing mandated by federal laws that are completely out of touch with the reality of our current education system, well, more power to you! There are generations of children that were served quite well by home schooling, private tutors and life experience. Education comes in many forms. If we ensure that our children leave the nest well prepared for life then we are doing our jobs as parents, despite someone else's criticism.

BTW, both my kids are fighting off a bout of influenza B this week, testing week, and have chosen to attend as it is easier to go sick and deal with it than it is to miss out and retake and then make up for the missed class work later. That says all I need to know about whether they are punished for missing testing or not.

And, I'm stepping down...Thanks for listening, or not.
 
And, in regards to keeping children home sick during testing...Remember, these are your children, nobody will have their best interests at heart like you do, nobody. If you feel they would be better served staying home and healing, then keep them home. If you feel they will be better served by attending and taking the test at a compromised level, the send them and let them know why. If you have a vacation planned and you believe that world travel is more important than some state testing mandated by federal laws that are completely out of touch with the reality of our current education system, well, more power to you! There are generations of children that were served quite well by home schooling, private tutors and life experience. Education comes in many forms. If we ensure that our children leave the nest well prepared for life then we are doing our jobs as parents, despite someone else's criticism.

the underlined part - very wise words!

the bolded part - so true, and the homeschooling movement is becoming more and more mainstream today, and many universities even seek out homeschooled students - not because they're "better", but because they've learned "how to learn", not how to memorize facts and spit them back out like a machine. I wish our education system as a whole could grasp this concept. (and i bet most of the teachers wish it also. I hear them complain about all the testing too, and I know their hands are tied).

good luck all! especially to those w/ the kids who really feel the pressure (my ds9 was one of those - even started developing a couple of ticks in 2nd grade, till I pulled him from school) :flower3:
 
I'd get that straight from the teachers mouth before I got too upset. If it were me, a personal visit tomorrow morning would be happening.

good luck!

Oh I'm not too upset about it....as they always say, there are 3 sides to every story - yours, mine and the truth. I know my DD will do well, she is gifted and is very conscientious about her work and she is a good test taker. She reads on a 9th grade level in the 4th grade and she passed a practice version of the test with mastery (you only have to make "basic" and"approaching basic") on the real test so I have no fear that she will fail.

But what about the kid who doesnt test well?? I taught Spcial Ed for years and even though the kids knew the material, they were terrible test takers.
 
Oh I'm not too upset about it....as they always say, there are 3 sides to every story - yours, mine and the truth. I know my DD will do well, she is gifted and is very conscientious about her work and she is a good test taker. She reads on a 9th grade level in the 4th grade and she passed a practice version of the test with mastery (you only have to make "basic" and"approaching basic") on the real test so I have no fear that she will fail.

But what about the kid who doesnt test well?? I taught Spcial Ed for years and even though the kids knew the material, they were terrible test takers.

that's funny ("yours, mine and the truth"). I'll have to remember that one. :goodvibes

Honestly, I'd be just as concerned for the one who does the worst on the test as I would for my own child. It's just me, but I'd still pursue it to get to the bottom of it. Hopefully it's not really as bad as it sounds. But I get that it's not your fight either.
 

OP here- dd is much better and went to school yesterday. DD missed two tests and made up one yesterday, and one today. So yesterday she did a total of 3 tests and missed recess outside ( first warm day in months). Here is what I'm mad about- 3 tests is way too much, plus she missed the recess and they never go outside much ( too cold here). She did the make up test in an office with another boy from her class that is learning disabled. My dd is in gifted and finished the test 30- 45 min. before him, but was not allowed to leave the room until he was finished. Also, the testing teacher in there had nothing for her to do, no book, nothing, and they didn't let her go back to her class before the test to get a book ( she was pulled from the line to go to recess for the test). So dd sat there while all the other kids got to play outside and then went to watch part of a movie.
 
that's funny ("yours, mine and the truth"). I'll have to remember that one. :goodvibes

Honestly, I'd be just as concerned for the one who does the worst on the test as I would for my own child. It's just me, but I'd still pursue it to get to the bottom of it. Hopefully it's not really as bad as it sounds. But I get that it's not your fight either.

I know, I DO feel bad for the other kids who will not do well, thats the thing. Then I think, well maybe their parents will step up and realize that its not fair, etc. I dont know. Its really not my fight and I dont want to be labeled as the complainer (especially when it has nothing to do with my kid). I dont know, my husband teaches at the school too so I dont want to go show my snarky side right off but I hate standing by and seeing such injustice done.

I mean the kid who does the worst is already gonna feel bad enough, how is punishing gonna help???
 
OP here- dd is much better and went to school yesterday. DD missed two tests and made up one yesterday, and one today. So yesterday she did a total of 3 tests and missed recess outside ( first warm day in months). Here is what I'm mad about- 3 tests is way too much, plus she missed the recess and they never go outside much ( too cold here). She did the make up test in an office with another boy from her class that is learning disabled. My dd is in gifted and finished the test 30- 45 min. before him, but was not allowed to leave the room until he was finished. Also, the testing teacher in there had nothing for her to do, no book, nothing, and they didn't let her go back to her class before the test to get a book ( she was pulled from the line to go to recess for the test). So dd sat there while all the other kids got to play outside and then went to watch part of a movie.

:sad2:
 
OP here- dd is much better and went to school yesterday. DD missed two tests and made up one yesterday, and one today. So yesterday she did a total of 3 tests and missed recess outside ( first warm day in months). Here is what I'm mad about- 3 tests is way too much, plus she missed the recess and they never go outside much ( too cold here). She did the make up test in an office with another boy from her class that is learning disabled. My dd is in gifted and finished the test 30- 45 min. before him, but was not allowed to leave the room until he was finished. Also, the testing teacher in there had nothing for her to do, no book, nothing, and they didn't let her go back to her class before the test to get a book ( she was pulled from the line to go to recess for the test). So dd sat there while all the other kids got to play outside and then went to watch part of a movie.

They were maybe trying to simulate the original testing environment. If she had taken the test with her classmates and the test was scheduled for 75 minutes, they all have to sit there for 75 minutes, even after they are finished. The rules are very strict and the test has to be administered like this or it loses it's integrity an accurate measure.
 
OP here- dd is much better and went to school yesterday. DD missed two tests and made up one yesterday, and one today. So yesterday she did a total of 3 tests and missed recess outside ( first warm day in months). Here is what I'm mad about- 3 tests is way too much, plus she missed the recess and they never go outside much ( too cold here). She did the make up test in an office with another boy from her class that is learning disabled. My dd is in gifted and finished the test 30- 45 min. before him, but was not allowed to leave the room until he was finished. Also, the testing teacher in there had nothing for her to do, no book, nothing, and they didn't let her go back to her class before the test to get a book ( she was pulled from the line to go to recess for the test). So dd sat there while all the other kids got to play outside and then went to watch part of a movie.

There was a post on here the other day about a guy who was afraid he may have offended his co-worker when he shared with her his life advice...his life advice was awesome and I am going to borrow it from him and share it with you...

GET OVER IT!!!

Your daughter is going to have a life time of hassles way worse than having to sit and wait for someone else to finish a test and missing recess. You should be teaching her better values and more resiliency instead of whining on a message board. Your kid was sick. These are the "consequences" of missing the test. Your kid got to stay in bed (and perhaps watch tv) when she was sick while other kids went to school. GET OVER IT.

In the real world - if you daughter misses work because she is sick - then she might have to work late the next night to make up the work she missed while out sick. This is the real world. You and your dd should be happy the school even let her make up the test - they could have just flunked her. I don't see why the teacher should have to be inconvenienced because your daughter was sick. And why should she get more time to study then the other kids got. It makes perfect sense to me that she takes the make up tests on her first day back...if that means she has three tests - well those are the breaks.

Lastly - I think its kinda mean and nasty to berate this other child for taking the alloted time to do the test. Your daughter is not gifted. Maybe she is smart. Maybe she is smarter than this other boy. But that does not give her any special privileges or rights. She still has to follow the rules and still has to live within her society. So gifted or not - if the test was 75 minutes long and she did not need the full time - then she should sit quiet with her hands folded. Its not the testing teacher's responsibility or obligation to entertain your dd.

There are consequences for missing the test. In your daughter's case - it appears she had to take 3 tests in one day, sit quietly for 30 minutes and miss recess. Well - those are the breaks. Nothing earth shattering. Good preparation for the future.

The problem with today's kids is today's parents. That parents even see fit to gripe about this petty stuff gives the kids license to think that the world should rise up to meet them and that they are somehow entitled. Perhaps if our kids had a little bit harder knocks and a little less coddling my mommy they would be more prepared for the real world and would be better equipped to deal with life. I think we owe that to the kid's of today.

So instead of telling your daughter - "oh poor you - that was so unfair..." Tell your daughter that this is the way the real world works and to grow a thicker skin. And oh yeah --- GET OVER IT.
 
They were maybe trying to simulate the original testing environment. If she had taken the test with her classmates and the test was scheduled for 75 minutes, they all have to sit there for 75 minutes, even after they are finished. The rules are very strict and the test has to be administered like this or it loses it's integrity an accurate measure.

I agree-she had the same procedure as if she was there on testing day.Not their fault that she was sick on the original day and it was a beautiful day and she didn't get recess.You need to take the test and if you finish early sit quietly and not disturb the other kids taking the test.They all get the same time-doesn't matter if you are faster than the others.Sorry but if you don't like how the make ups are done then don't miss testing day.
 
They were maybe trying to simulate the original testing environment. If she had taken the test with her classmates and the test was scheduled for 75 minutes, they all have to sit there for 75 minutes, even after they are finished. The rules are very strict and the test has to be administered like this or it loses it's integrity an accurate measure.

Yep. All of that except the three tests in a single day is standard procedure here even on normal testing days. The kids aren't allowed to get anything out to read/do even after they are finished, to ensure the integrity of the testing environment. They're told to put their heads down and rest if they're done early.

And as far as the recesses and movie she missed, well, that's why if we pull the kids out of school for vacation MEAP make-up week is always a time we consider (along with right before major breaks). Many teachers don't schedule regular lessons for make up week because they know they'll have students out, so it tends to be a light week for makeup work.
 
I agree-she had the same procedure as if she was there on testing day.Not their fault that she was sick on the original day and it was a beautiful day and she didn't get recess.You need to take the test and if you finish early sit quietly and not disturb the other kids taking the test.They all get the same time-doesn't matter if you are faster than the others.Sorry but if you don't like how the make ups are done then don't miss testing day.

That's how it is here too. The class sits quietly and waits until the time is up. One teacher went so far as to give each student two pencils and if they both broke too bad, no getting up to sharpen pencils. Of course she is going to have to make up these tests and should get no special treatment. The other kids at recess weren't home sick. She will get plenty of chances for recess, summer is coming.
 
My 6th grade son was sick for two days this week with a fever and bad cough. There was no way he could have gone to school. He missed a standardized math test that was given over the two days. We knew he was going to miss it, but I wasn't going to send a kid to school with a 101.8 degree fever!

When he went back yesterday, he was told he would take the test during 3rd period and partly into recess if he needed the time. So he was pulled out of social studies along with several other kids who needed to take the test. He said he missed about half of the recess period, but he didn't feel well enough to play in his usual basketball game so he just stood around and talked to his friends instead. It was no big deal.

Kids get sick. It happens. As a result, they have to make up anything they missed. It might mean missing recess. It might mean sitting quietly while the other kids finish. Personally, I don't have a huge problem with standardized testing. I think the process could be improved, but it does serve a purpose. I'm just glad my son got to make it up the next day and get it done.
 
Although the concepts in standardized testing are important, the importance placed on the actual test is rediculous. I taught for many years and now sub in grades K-6. Last week, I was doing practice tests with 6th graders. They were learning to build endurance for the test. During the last couple of weeks we have talked strategy. Again, its not like reading comprehension is not important. It's probably the most important skill you can have, but we are teaching how to answer the questions.

I really have a problem with promoting students or keeping or dismissing teachers by using testing scores. First off, when ever I had my own students tested, the scores showed me nothing I didn't already know. Second, not all kids are great test takers, even if they are smart. Last, some kids are just not going to do well, either because of disability, language barriers, life experiences, stress at home, hunger. A teacher can prepare all he or she wants, but she can't do anything about a kid whose parents are in jail or are keeping them up too late or don't have enough to feed them.

The school I predominately work at has many children in these situations. We have new English learners who are smart, well-behaved kids with good home lives, but if they are not yet familiar with some vocabulary, it makes their scores go down. More concerning are those whose home lives are really dysfunctional. Again, I know kids who are really bright, but have issues that no child should have to deal with. It's not the child's or the teacher's fault, yet they both can pay the price for the test result.

For the record, I have one child who will inevitably do well and another who probably won't. I can't imagine that my DS's teacher who does so much for him would lose her position if he should fail. It's just where we are with him right now. He tries really hard, but its not there yet. It would be unfair for a test to judge him or his teacher.
Jessica
 
Hi neighbor!

In Ohio they use the yearly standardized tests to determine gifted placement. Is that the way in PA? If it is, I hope that she was able to do her best - even with three tests in one day.
 
I thought a teacher's perspective might be helpful. First of all, we take a test in March, not January because it covers everything we are supposed to teach in the entire year, so we are already testing early. I do think the bribery is ridiculous, but you have to look at it from our point of view. If a child doesn't show up and then is unable to take the test at some point during a testing window (in Nevada, it is three weeks), then we automatically don't make AYP for not having 100 percent participation. AYP is Annual Yearly Progress. So, I have the kid whose mom took him out for the entire testing window to go on a vacation to the Phillipines. Now, we won't make AYP and it is very likely, because this has happened to us on two other occasions, that our school will be liquidated. I will have to reapply for my job not because I am a poor teacher but because I had a kid who didn't show up for the test. It doesn't matter that, on average, I have 75 percent of my students meet standards on the tests. It is not the teachers who are putting pressure on these kids. It is the government. I could care less about testing. I see much more benefit in looking at how my kids progress through the year. However, we are in a testing age. It is a huge pet peeve of mine when people pull kids out for vacations during testing. Your kid is sick? Well, they'll come back, make up the test, no harm, no foul. But to take your kid out for a vacation really irritates me.

sign me up for the tshirt that says PROUD HOME SCHOOLING MOM!

Stuff like posted above, especially last statement irritate me. My husband is limited to taking vacation when the schedule has availibility. Theres only 10 hours per day allowed. He works 10 hours. so if ANYONE else in his 60 person department wants that day, he cant have it. so... 40 of these people have kids. So it would be a competition. senority plays nothing into the vacation time. Perhaps your students have this same issue.
 
Shanpooh- no they do not use these tests place gifted children. They take IQ tests and some other tests for that . The tests that she took are just to show how well the school is doing, they don't place them into classes or anything like that.
Diziz- you have only 4 posts so obviously you just got on here b/c you are angry about something else in your life and felt like you could take it out on me. I feel really sorry for your unhappiness and rudeness. Maybe you need to take a trip to the happiest place on earth to get over whatever it is that is bothering you!@:wizard:

Also, just to clarify for everyone, they are supposed to have books to read when they are done with the test.
 
There was a post on here the other day about a guy who was afraid he may have offended his co-worker when he shared with her his life advice...his life advice was awesome and I am going to borrow it from him and share it with you...

GET OVER IT!!!

Your daughter is going to have a life time of hassles way worse than having to sit and wait for someone else to finish a test and missing recess. You should be teaching her better values and more resiliency instead of whining on a message board. Your kid was sick. These are the "consequences" of missing the test. Your kid got to stay in bed (and perhaps watch tv) when she was sick while other kids went to school. GET OVER IT.

In the real world - if you daughter misses work because she is sick - then she might have to work late the next night to make up the work she missed while out sick. This is the real world. You and your dd should be happy the school even let her make up the test - they could have just flunked her. I don't see why the teacher should have to be inconvenienced because your daughter was sick. And why should she get more time to study then the other kids got. It makes perfect sense to me that she takes the make up tests on her first day back...if that means she has three tests - well those are the breaks.

Lastly - I think its kinda mean and nasty to berate this other child for taking the alloted time to do the test. Your daughter is not gifted. Maybe she is smart. Maybe she is smarter than this other boy. But that does not give her any special privileges or rights. She still has to follow the rules and still has to live within her society. So gifted or not - if the test was 75 minutes long and she did not need the full time - then she should sit quiet with her hands folded. Its not the testing teacher's responsibility or obligation to entertain your dd.

There are consequences for missing the test. In your daughter's case - it appears she had to take 3 tests in one day, sit quietly for 30 minutes and miss recess. Well - those are the breaks. Nothing earth shattering. Good preparation for the future.

The problem with today's kids is today's parents. That parents even see fit to gripe about this petty stuff gives the kids license to think that the world should rise up to meet them and that they are somehow entitled. Perhaps if our kids had a little bit harder knocks and a little less coddling my mommy they would be more prepared for the real world and would be better equipped to deal with life. I think we owe that to the kid's of today.

So instead of telling your daughter - "oh poor you - that was so unfair..." Tell your daughter that this is the way the real world works and to grow a thicker skin. And oh yeah --- GET OVER IT.


BRAVO!!:cheer2:
 
I write to my legislators all the time. Like I said before, I don't do bribery, but my school does. What can I do? I have to tow the line. And, I'm sorry, try to teach 27 fifth graders to mastery. Seriously? I had a kid write one sentence on her written response. I want to scream!
I feel your pain there. I'm a fifth grade teacher too. I've worried myself sick over these tests but I've tried my best not to pressure the kids.
 












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