Hi, my name is Karen and I have a problem.

sounds familiar...oh yeah, it's from Finding Nemo!
My problem was that I idolized food and let it have a stronghold over my life.
I am doing what's called Weigh Down Workshop. It's a Christian based program that has you follow the God given clues your body gives you to limit the amount of food you eat. On this plan, NO food is off limits. There is no watching fat, carbs, or any other part of the food. There is NO counting of calories, points, carbs, fat grams, etc etc. By not consuming my mind with these tasks, I have more time to be what God wants me to be.
The idea is this....God made your body to call for the food it needs, when it needs it. So when you are PHYSIOLOGICALLY hungry, your stomach will growl. It will not growl at all of those other times that we tend to eat...social eating, bored eating, depressed eating, etc.. I only feed my stomach when my body is asking for it...stomach growl. And then, the other part (which is a bit trickier for me) is to ONLY feed my stomach until it is satisfied...not bulging, uncomfortable and refluxing. There are cues to follow for this....for example, ever notice how good the first bite of that 3/4 pound cheeseburger tasted but yet the last bite of the burger that you stuffed in only because you didn't want to waste it didn't really taste that good at all? God designed our bodies to do that...so we wouldn't over eat. Unfortunately, we all have the will to do what we want and eat even though we don't need it.
How to deal with temptations...well, again, it's a Christian program. God wants us focusing on HIM, not on the food (thou shall have no one above the Lord your God)

So, if you are tempted to eat when you aren't hungry, you pray for strength to avoid it. Lots of good things have happened to me when I've bypassed "convenient food" because I wasn't hungry. As if God was blessing me for obeying Him.
I lost 20 pounds easily on this program a few years ago. After I got down to the weight I wanted (and was there about a year) I slipped back into my old ways. Many times I'd eat to the point of refluxing and complete misery. I gained all 20 pounds, plus 5 back. In April I started Curves, but it wasn't getting the weight off. In late June I decided that I'd do low carb since lots of WISHers were having success with it (It was the Curves diet) It was nearly the worst 8 hours of my life!!!!! It wasn't that I craved the things I "shouldn't" have....it was that God was tugging at my heart trying to get me to see that this was NOT what He wanted me to be doing. I just felt so miserable and not at peace. The next day, I switched back over to Weigh Down and have felt wonderful about it. Early July I was 150. I'm now at 131.5 (not my offical weigh in day so I haven't changed my line at the bottom) I'm very close to what *I* think my goal should be. I'm not sure what God has in mind though and I'll continue to follow His lead.
When I first started and had all that reserve, there were many times when I ate less than my children over the course of a day (ages 9 and 6) I'd skip meals because I just wasn't hungry. Now, as I get closer to "normal" size I find that I'm hungry more regularly. And, another plus is that no food is considered "evil" and offlimits. I have sour cream on my tacos and real cheese. I have Breyers high octane ice cream. I have chips. Of course, all within the limits of hungry and satisfied. I can also be satisfied on much much less. Instead of opening a bag of M&M's, tipping my head back and pouring them in, I can take ONE M&M and let it sit on my tongue, actually TASTE it, savor the flavor as the chocolate sits on my tongue and then swallow. I can now be happy and "satisfied" with just 3 or 4 M&M's.
I know there are lots out there who are happy with the plan they are on. And, typically, whenever I post my testimony about my weight loss I get a couple of PM's from people who feel I'm bashing a certain plan. It is not my intention to do that. We all have to find what works for us. I have found peace with this plan that I have not found with other methods. I have found that it works for me. I know several people who were over 300 pounds and have dropped down to goal with this plan. I also know that I thank God daily for what He's doing in my life and I must tell others. "Hide it under a bushel? NO! I'm gonna let it shine"
Hope this helps. Welcome to WISH!
God bless!