I've got a question, are you staying at an on-site hotel? I had to try something sneaky for the last b-day visit with the boyfriend due to his severe diet needs and his 'adultiness'. I ended up getting some things from the disney floral folks and had it delivered to the room while we were out at the parks (which btw, you're not limited to whats on the site, they can get you anything from the
Disney store website with enough time). We had an in-room celebration, which I honestly broke the bank on and probably wouldn't shell the money out again for the whole thing, but it really made his trip and he wore some of the dorkier stuff they gave him the next day too. It was originally marketed as a 'kids' celebration and I had called and requested it to be "adulted up" (and added the last 2 blu rays for his POTC collection) and they ended up giving us a scavenger hunt and some scented soaps lol.