Would it be better to have a villa at the boardwalk or standard room at the poly with a 2 and 4 year old?
Depends which you value more... monorail access to MK or sleeping space away from the kids. Personally, we would have chosen BWV so we could put the kids to bed without having to sit in the bathroom while they fell asleep (we did this many times when we traveled and they were that age).
And if you plan on going to EP/DHS, you'll have easier access from BWV. If you only plan on going to MK, Poly is probably the better choice.
Location, location, location!! We spent a week at the Beach Club last summer with our dd's aged 6,7,8 at the time. We loved it, boardwalk area is just awesome. Loved the walk to Epcot and boat to HS. It was the best vacation. That being said.....we discovered how much time we spent at MK and this summer will be staying at the Poly. I just think being on the monorail will make life so much easier. I truly can not wait...wishes on the poly beach, electric water pageant, monorail to MK and Epcot (our two faves), Ohana!!!! Less running around and riding the bus to and from. It will all be right there for us! So....where will you be spending most of your time???
While the Poly is awesome, I would take a 1 bedroom anywhere. Nothing beats having a kitchen, washer and dryer, separate bedroom. You will love it, especially with little ones.
We stayed at the Poly with 3 kids (8,7, & 5) and loved it. DH and I would put the kids to bed and go out on the balcony with a beverage and talk about the day and what to do the next. They were OUT within a few minutes, so we could go in and out to the lounge and they weren't disturbed.
You may not choose club level, but we found it really convenient with ever-hungry kids.
The location was perfect and we loved taking the boat back and forth to MK.
I'd pick Poly over more space any day. We'd just hang out on the balcony while the kids fell asleep. Besides, who with kids really stays up that late when at WDW anyways?
Did you leave the kids in the room alone when you went to the lounge?