Hi there! Congrats on the new house!
First - as a former kitchen designer, cabinet retailer, price out both replacement of the cabinets AND just doors. When I was in the business, the door was fully 80% the cost of the cabinet - meaning to only replace the doors was no budget solution on cheap cabinets. Consider painting all of it, instead of replacing just the doors/drawer fronts, until you can gut.
Also - don't forget Ikea. Their kitchen cabinet prices are excellent for the quality of the construction and materials. They are mostly using the same materials as in what's considered higher end cabinets (as far as the boxes go - as very few are truly solid wood and not plywood/pressed wood) - the difference is that you are assembling the boxes instead of the factory.
Also - do NOT do the floors if you aren't doing the cabinets, and are planning on doing them in the relative future.
I also vote for black appliances. I know that stainless is all the snobbery rage right now, but totally agree with a previous poster in that granite counters and stainless appliances will date a kitchen in the same way that avocado green and harvest gold did in years past. Stainless dents, scratches and every smudge shows. I have black in my house, with very similar colored wood cabinets (mine are maple and a little more golden) and a VERY similar wall color - I think it looks fantastic (I have a 1950's house, so it's very vintagie, plus modern appliances).
My black appliances have been moved a number of times, and have gotten scratches ---- that I have used a black paint pen ($3) to cover and they look fabulous. I don't find they spot or look dirty in any way, and I'm not obsessively cleaning them either.
And, if you are worried about the contrast in the hardware, consider using black nickel hardware --- it's nearly black, has a satiny-silvery sheen, and for a previous kitchen I ordered the knobs off ebay for about 1/4 the cost of retail.
ALSO - for all those with cleaning questions.... for any color appliance, porcelain and all stainless... try Barkeeper's Friend. It's an old school powder cleaner, and it polishes and cleans like no ones business. My black flat top stove always looks new in spite of the many plastic bags that have been melted to burners (HA!). I use it on my porcelain sink, my tubs, my stainless cookware, everything. My only caution is that if you are going to used it for any period of time use gloves - it is very hard on skin.
Wow. Ok then. That's enough from me!
