vamassey1
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I know, I know, I disappeared again.
It's been rough juggling 2 back to back trips to Orlando, Danielle's surgery and the job changes and we go back to Disney in 12 sleeps.
I'm going to start with Danielle's surgery. If you follow her on IG than you already know what surgery she had. If she put it out on IG it should be ok for me to put it out here. She had a medically needed breast reduction. She has been working on this for about a year. She's very lucky that Disney has such great insurance and benefits. She was approved for 6 weeks recovery and is being paid 100% while she's out. She has been needing this for awhile. I didn't go with her to the initial appointments but I was there for the pre-op appointment when I was down in May. I'm a Mother and I wanted to be there for her, but that doesn't mean I'm great with all the gross stuff. I pass out at the sight of blood and have been doing this since I was in grade school. The family loves to tease me about this cause I've done it so much that I know when it's going to happen. Guess what Danielle inherited from me? She passes out too. Not the two best people to handle this situation. One of the reasons I stayed for a week was she had 2 drains that had to be emptied twice a day and the gross stuff coming out of her had to be measured, and it wasn't just blood. She also had lots of limitations after the surgery and still has some now. The surgery went really well and her recovery has been good too. She was given a block during the surgery and that really helped with the pain. She never had to take the hard stuff and so far has not had an infection. She still has stitches and can't sweat or get wet. She can shower but not take a bath. She's had 2 follow up appointments and goes back for another next Tuesday. The drains are out too, which has made the biggest difference. While she was in recovery they showed us how to drain and measure the drains. I'm not going to lie, it was gross and I almost passed out. I had my head between my knees and was sniffing an alcohol pad. I'm also happy to report neither one of us passed out or tossed our cookies. It's really good that she didn't throw up. We heard several people who weren't so lucky while we were in recovery. We got better with the drains as time went on and our next big challenge was when we unwrapped her. She was wrapped up like a mummy. We both did not know what we would see once the wrap was off. Once again I'm happy to say no one passed out or threw up. We got really good with the drains and everything else.
She originally wanted to do most of her recovery here with us, but due to her appointments she has been limited. She came home last Tuesday and will go back next Monday, only for us to be there on that Saturday. We have spent the last week celebrating both girls birthdays. Michelle's birthday was Monday, which Danielle missed due to her appointment. She did make it here for her birthday on Wednesday and a surprise visit from their brother Brent. He came in just to see them and then had to head back home. So we had a dinner for Michelle on Monday, a dinner for Danielle on Wednesday and then another dinner for both girls yesterday. This was the first time we had been able to celebrate the two girls together since 2020. They grew up with each having a separate party with friends and then a party together with family. I'm all partied out.
We are now getting ready for Dennis' work convention and our stay at AOA. Danielle will also be moving during all of this. We have also added another person to our AOA stay. It was going to be too much for Michelle to leave all 3 boys with Jimmy and his parents so we're bringing one with us. It is the "Cool Kid Summer " so we needed a kid. Michelle will be bringing Gia and Dominic. Dominic is 3 and perfect for all the fun that's happening in the parks this summer. JP has had several trips without his brothers so he says he understands. Hopefully in the future we can take Gabrielle on a trip with just him. We're going to just miss the opening of Test Track and the new MK night time parade. I did see today that I can try for an AP Test Track preview. We'll be in Epcot on the 18th and I may try to hop over to Epcot for the 1pm drop on the 13th, my only solo touring day.
Thanks for sticking with me. I still have so much to share from this trip and my Epic opening day.
It's been rough juggling 2 back to back trips to Orlando, Danielle's surgery and the job changes and we go back to Disney in 12 sleeps.
I'm going to start with Danielle's surgery. If you follow her on IG than you already know what surgery she had. If she put it out on IG it should be ok for me to put it out here. She had a medically needed breast reduction. She has been working on this for about a year. She's very lucky that Disney has such great insurance and benefits. She was approved for 6 weeks recovery and is being paid 100% while she's out. She has been needing this for awhile. I didn't go with her to the initial appointments but I was there for the pre-op appointment when I was down in May. I'm a Mother and I wanted to be there for her, but that doesn't mean I'm great with all the gross stuff. I pass out at the sight of blood and have been doing this since I was in grade school. The family loves to tease me about this cause I've done it so much that I know when it's going to happen. Guess what Danielle inherited from me? She passes out too. Not the two best people to handle this situation. One of the reasons I stayed for a week was she had 2 drains that had to be emptied twice a day and the gross stuff coming out of her had to be measured, and it wasn't just blood. She also had lots of limitations after the surgery and still has some now. The surgery went really well and her recovery has been good too. She was given a block during the surgery and that really helped with the pain. She never had to take the hard stuff and so far has not had an infection. She still has stitches and can't sweat or get wet. She can shower but not take a bath. She's had 2 follow up appointments and goes back for another next Tuesday. The drains are out too, which has made the biggest difference. While she was in recovery they showed us how to drain and measure the drains. I'm not going to lie, it was gross and I almost passed out. I had my head between my knees and was sniffing an alcohol pad. I'm also happy to report neither one of us passed out or tossed our cookies. It's really good that she didn't throw up. We heard several people who weren't so lucky while we were in recovery. We got better with the drains as time went on and our next big challenge was when we unwrapped her. She was wrapped up like a mummy. We both did not know what we would see once the wrap was off. Once again I'm happy to say no one passed out or threw up. We got really good with the drains and everything else.
She originally wanted to do most of her recovery here with us, but due to her appointments she has been limited. She came home last Tuesday and will go back next Monday, only for us to be there on that Saturday. We have spent the last week celebrating both girls birthdays. Michelle's birthday was Monday, which Danielle missed due to her appointment. She did make it here for her birthday on Wednesday and a surprise visit from their brother Brent. He came in just to see them and then had to head back home. So we had a dinner for Michelle on Monday, a dinner for Danielle on Wednesday and then another dinner for both girls yesterday. This was the first time we had been able to celebrate the two girls together since 2020. They grew up with each having a separate party with friends and then a party together with family. I'm all partied out.
We are now getting ready for Dennis' work convention and our stay at AOA. Danielle will also be moving during all of this. We have also added another person to our AOA stay. It was going to be too much for Michelle to leave all 3 boys with Jimmy and his parents so we're bringing one with us. It is the "Cool Kid Summer " so we needed a kid. Michelle will be bringing Gia and Dominic. Dominic is 3 and perfect for all the fun that's happening in the parks this summer. JP has had several trips without his brothers so he says he understands. Hopefully in the future we can take Gabrielle on a trip with just him. We're going to just miss the opening of Test Track and the new MK night time parade. I did see today that I can try for an AP Test Track preview. We'll be in Epcot on the 18th and I may try to hop over to Epcot for the 1pm drop on the 13th, my only solo touring day.
Thanks for sticking with me. I still have so much to share from this trip and my Epic opening day.