You pay more for the hotel, you get more at the hotel.
That in no way means you get more anywhere else. That attitude is exactly a sense of entitlement - that being "special" in one area requires you be treated "special" everywhere else. Now if you want to pay more for your theme park ticket than I do, fine.
Sorry, but one of Disneyland's charms was that it was the exact opposite of the snooty place you are asking it to become. Everyone who went on a ride got the same show, whether they were rich or poor, man or woman, white or black.
If you demand special treatment, places like Vegas love to cater to "special" people. Flash a Benjamin and they'll fawn all over you for a good fifteen seconds.
But Disney should be different. It's an idealized world. Imperfect, but that's no reason to surrender to the lessor traits of human nature. There's no reason you should demand to degrade the experience of other guests just because you can afford what they choose not to buy.