A co-worker is planning an "UNOFFICAL" family reunion to WDW.
What I mean by "unoffical" is that it will NOT be A Disney Grand Gathering, but a family reunion none the less. My question is this-will they be able to receive any of the special goodies at Disney restaurants others get on other occasions such as Birthdays, anniversaries, etc...such as the window seat, the sparklers in the desert, complimentary cake and so on? 

