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Bumping this back up for HappyMom2 that is headed towards the
,to see how everyone is doing, and to give a little update.
I find it very hard to "diet" in the summer, I need a predictable schedule and that flys out the window in the summer time. Even with the best of intentions I find myself in situations that I truly just have no good options. And frankly I find myself in a lot of situations where I don't want to resist temptation! My goal then was just to maintain or at least try to keep within 5 pounds of where I was. I am very happy to say that I have maintained exactly where I was when summer started.
We went on a cruise and I didn't gain anything. The food was good but not great so didn't end up "pigging out" like I had given myself permission to do.
I have tried to maintain a balance all summer and realize that one day won't make or break me. If I decide to indulge a little today then as long as I make good choices over the next few days it won't kill me. And I also have tried to ask myself "is this REALLY worth it?". Sometimes the answer is yes so I enjoy it all, sometimes it is not really so I only have a few bites, and sometimes the answer is no and I walk away.
I have also been getting a whole lot of compliments from friends. No one seemed to notice until summer came (I guess the summer clothes?) but now just about everyone that I haven't seen in a while has noticed and of course that definitely makes me more resolved to get the additional 50 so pounds off. We are back to more of a routine so I am back trying to work on actual loss but until September I am still taking a relaxed approach.
So who is still sitting in the sand with me?
,to see how everyone is doing, and to give a little update.I find it very hard to "diet" in the summer, I need a predictable schedule and that flys out the window in the summer time. Even with the best of intentions I find myself in situations that I truly just have no good options. And frankly I find myself in a lot of situations where I don't want to resist temptation! My goal then was just to maintain or at least try to keep within 5 pounds of where I was. I am very happy to say that I have maintained exactly where I was when summer started.
We went on a cruise and I didn't gain anything. The food was good but not great so didn't end up "pigging out" like I had given myself permission to do.
I have tried to maintain a balance all summer and realize that one day won't make or break me. If I decide to indulge a little today then as long as I make good choices over the next few days it won't kill me. And I also have tried to ask myself "is this REALLY worth it?". Sometimes the answer is yes so I enjoy it all, sometimes it is not really so I only have a few bites, and sometimes the answer is no and I walk away.I have also been getting a whole lot of compliments from friends. No one seemed to notice until summer came (I guess the summer clothes?) but now just about everyone that I haven't seen in a while has noticed and of course that definitely makes me more resolved to get the additional 50 so pounds off. We are back to more of a routine so I am back trying to work on actual loss but until September I am still taking a relaxed approach.
So who is still sitting in the sand with me?


and losing weight would bring that up.

!! Sorry to hear about the heart attack, but it sounds like you are taking very positive steps to make changes. 
Don't worry about previous attempts-- this is a new day, and a new you!
I'm picturing a situation where a mother's saying 'Give me the Oreos and no one gets hurt!'



