Sorry. :)

[amg35]

deleted because I think the below poster is right, and maybe it's too much a sensitive topic.

 

[pepperw23]

Personally I think it is an impossible question to answer unless someone has been in the position, or in a similar situation. Even then, everyone is different so it would still be a matter of personal perspective. Grief is such a complex thing. It is truly impossible to know how you are going to react to it.

 

[lacrosse_lady72]

This is what happens when people don't follow the "rule".

 

[pepperw23]

I did break the "rule"...I forgot.

But I respect the OP's decision so I will not repeat the question.