The OP posted her opinion own judgmental opinion regarding Disney dining on a public forum. She should not be surprised when people respond with their own opinions. You did.
I've met Lugnut. He's a good guy. He is not trying to be a rabble-rouser. I think he's offering an opinion and an alternative that might suit people. We as a forum should welcome alternative options if the options suit us. If they don't suit you or your family, you do not have to agree. But we should be open to new ideas.
I also wondered about the OP...why are you saying you won't eat onsite in the Disney Restaurant forum?
I mean I understand that it relates to dining, but if you don't like it or don't think that it is a good value, then don't do it. Why not put your Hess gas station and chick-fil-a tips the budget forum or something?
I think the Hess comparisons are probably not the best. I do think the Sweet Tomatoes is a great idea. I have a Sweet Tomatoes near me in the Chicago suburbs and enjoy it. I think it's a wonderful alternative for families who don't want to pay Disney prices for food they don't enjoy.
And the funny thing is, I travel and pay for food as a solo, so I have more discretionary spending money for food than a family of 4. And I don't go offsite for meals. But it
does bother me to see poor quality food served at prices that I think do not match the quality.
I ate in the Crew's Cup Lounge in Dec 2009 when they still had a choice of filet mignon or sirloin, along with other Yachtman menu items. (I noticed they scaled back the menu on my Oct 2010 and Dec 2010 trips.) Anyway, I went with the $40 filet. And let me tell you, I thought they had a lot of nerve serving me the steak they did calling it a filet at that price. When I went to Shula's in July 2010, the $40 filet
was well worth the price for the quality.
And that's the difference for me. I'm willing to pay for quality. I'm upset if the quality doesn't warrant the price. So I'm completely sympathetic to travelers who are balking at paying some of the table service prices. Especially if they got food at lesser quality like I did at Crew's Cup.
Nowadays, I find myself having a lot of meals at the Swan and Dolphin, especially since they accept the Tables in Wonderland card now. The food has been consistently good there. There are Disney owned places I still go to, but I find that I tend to order appetizers and dessert as my meal. I may go traditional with an entree, but I have been enjoying doing the non-traditional thing.
I do have favorite counter service places, but there are places I just won't go. I'd rather head to Picabu at the Dolphin than any of the counter service places at the Studios park.
I went off on a tangent, didn't I?

Anyway, even though I stay onsite for dining, I don't scoff at anyone who wishes to dine offsite. As for Lugnut, it's HIS vacation, and it does NOT have to revolve around maximizing time in the parks. Especially not to a DVC member who goes often enough with an annual pass. I don't begrudge anyone who wants to maximize their park time, so I think it's unfair of those to judge Lugnut for touring the way HE wants to.