Hi all-
Thanks for all the well wishes, prayers and mummy dust again, for DH to find a job. He has been diligently looking on the internet, applying thru careerbuilders.com and monster.com. He got one call today. He has another appt with another recruiter for Monday, from this call he got. Gotta keep the faith he will get something soon. This is why I haven't been on the boards much, DH needs the computer, the kids want to play their computer games etc, as we only have 1 computer to the 4 of us.
We went to the fireworks last night at a nearby town. Today I colored my hair, as I was going very gray

I'm so glad DH was home so he can watch the kids while I colored my hair
We also went to a Wake this afternoon. A former co-worker of DH's, her mom passed away the other day, so we went to the wake. This fomer coworker of DH's is a very nice person.
I also know a distant relative of my family also passed away recently and that Wake is tomorrow. I won't be going to that Wake, my mom will be going tho. I have known too many people that have passed away since Feb.(relatives and friends parents) of this yr. Don't mean to be morbid, but it's so weird. I'm probably not making sense here, but it's just too weird.
I, DH, DD, and DS are going to visit my FIL tomorrow. He lives 2 hrs away. So I won't be able to be on the boards tomorrow.
Hope everyone had a good 4th!
Mac- continued prayers for your DS is getting better. He has one good mama
Jodie-

to you and your mom, for taking care of your grandma.
Should I guess your gma lives with your mom or alone in hte house? I might have missed that info. Sorry. I'm glad you contacted your aunt to help out

We have a similar situation here with my grandma. Tho my grandma lives in a nursing home, she's 91 yrs old and is wheelchair dependent.
My aunt(my mom's sister and who is closer to my age) begged my mom to get gma in a nursing home where we live. This was about 5 yrs ago. GMa lived with my aunt and uncle for about 18 yrs. BAck then ,grandma could walk with a cane. Once grandma started going downhill, as of walking, my aunt begged my mom to get her in a nursing home by us. My aunt and uncle lived in southern Missouri. Once grandma got transfered here in the nursing home, aunt and uncle only came once a yr to visit, that was it, they wouldn't come more than once a yr, only over a weekend to visit once a yr.. My mom would get angry they wouldn't come more often, like twice a yr to visit. My mom gives the guilt trip to my aunt. Aunt makes up excuses she's always taking college courses, etc, so can't make it, etc. Aunt already has a Masters degree in her job career, so I don't know what these courses are, maybe basket weaving? I don't know
Anyways, grandma can get quite demanding for stuff at the nursing home and my mom has ran into issues with grandma with her behavior, etc. It can be quite draining dealing with grandma's behavior at times. I know my aunt and uncle have taken care of grandma for a few yrs before they shipped her here. But back then when she lived with them, grandma cooked and cleaned for aunt and uncle, so they didn't have it so bad.
To me and my parents, it's a shame my aunt can't come a little more often to visit. Aunt does call grandma tho, once a week on the phone. I don't mind my grandma here at all, at the nursing home.
So, I know how you feel somewhat, your mom doing all the work for grandma.
Sorry I've been rambling.....
Prayers to all that need the rain. Prayers to all that don't need anymore rain.
Welcome back to all who came back
Gotta get off computer now.