loribell
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- Joined
- Jul 15, 2001
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Hey Rose just wanted to let you know that you and your dad are in my thoughts. Hopefully all will go well and the treatments will beat it as easily as possible. And I agree with Barb, don't think of yourself as poor. You have a wonderful husband & two wonderful children & a whole bunch of buddies in a box to be thankful for. I've been told that until we are happy with what we have we will never get more. I know it is hard, even I get down a lot and I know I have a lot to be grateful for. Keep you head up and come here to vent when you need to.
Barb & Tricia - Thanks for all the advice. It is sad that it took so long for me to realize what it is that makes me procrastinate so much during Christmas. When it hit me the other day that last Christmas was so much more enjoyable because we weren't here it was like a weight lifted of my shoulders.
I told the kids & dh that I will no longer be inviting the family to Allys' birthday parties. They can just get her gifts to her whenever they see her for Christmas. I also told Miranda & Chris that I do not plan to celebrate Christmas at home next year so they can plan early enough to go with us.
And Barb I will go ahead and make room for you, dh, & bubba! Todd is going to join us for Christmas too! Anyone else want to come along?
So I am done catering to the witch. It just does me or the rest of the family no good. From this point on I am doing what is best for my kids. To heck with the old people.
And yes Barb it was strange to take the tree down so early but it had to come down. The needles were coming out by the handfuls when I would run my hand across it. It was really strange anyway cause we never did get to finish decorating. We didn't put up any of our outdoor decorations because the weather was just too crappy. We do have sunshine today though & I am so happy!!!! I need sunlight or I get very cranky!
Barb & Tricia - Thanks for all the advice. It is sad that it took so long for me to realize what it is that makes me procrastinate so much during Christmas. When it hit me the other day that last Christmas was so much more enjoyable because we weren't here it was like a weight lifted of my shoulders.
I told the kids & dh that I will no longer be inviting the family to Allys' birthday parties. They can just get her gifts to her whenever they see her for Christmas. I also told Miranda & Chris that I do not plan to celebrate Christmas at home next year so they can plan early enough to go with us.
And Barb I will go ahead and make room for you, dh, & bubba! Todd is going to join us for Christmas too! Anyone else want to come along?
So I am done catering to the witch. It just does me or the rest of the family no good. From this point on I am doing what is best for my kids. To heck with the old people.
And yes Barb it was strange to take the tree down so early but it had to come down. The needles were coming out by the handfuls when I would run my hand across it. It was really strange anyway cause we never did get to finish decorating. We didn't put up any of our outdoor decorations because the weather was just too crappy. We do have sunshine today though & I am so happy!!!! I need sunlight or I get very cranky!