So...some thoughts about the trip while I wait for dinner to get ready. Vent ahead first, so if you want to skip it, feel free!

Okay, you were warned! Here goes:
Am I the only one with parents who drive them crazy?

As much as I love them and want to go home, I just cannot stand the way they act like toddlers. It's like if they don't get their way they just pout. Primarily my dad, but then mom goes into the martyr act and suddenly everyone's fighting. We're only home a few days out of every 6 months or so - you'd think they could drop it, but now that we don't live there anymore it's like they save up all the guilt trips until we're there.
Every minute we don't spend with them or want to do our own thing they just whine about. We stayed at the cabin so we could have some time to do things we wanted - go to the beach (which the boys loved), do some mountain biking (which Royce and I love and the boys complain loudly about), sleep in, etc. But any time we wanted to do any of these things basically all we heard was how selfish we were. We (and the kids) wanted to visit some of our old friends. Each time we did that we were rushed the entire time because the folks were waiting and grumbling about why we weren't there yet. Add that because of construction and the PGA Tour (which we, having avid golfers in the family, should have been aware of!) the drive between the cabin and their house took 45 instead of 25 minutes and the whole visit was just frustrating.
We're not sure in retrospect what we should have done. We had fun at CP away from them. I know spending the 5 nights at their house instead of the cabin would have been a disaster. But I don't think I wanted to spend that long in a hotel room with the 3 boys (the 3 nights we did that driving to, at, and home from CP were more than enough), which although closer, would have cost much more. What other option is there?
The best thing that I can come up with at this point is that next time we go for a length of time (not Thanksgiving when we only have a few days), we won't tell them the entire time we're there. Maybe we'll stay at their house for 2 or 3 days and spend the whole time with them (then the kids will have some space too). Then spend another 2-3 days at a hotel (or even the cabin again) but tell them we're going somewhere MUCH further away. And take our time visiting friends and going to the restaurants WE want (without being told that they're stupid) and not dealing with the temper tantrums!
Sorry - but at least I have that out of my system!