Mrs. Ciz
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 17, 2011
I need some guidance. Someone may be stalking my daughter.
My daughter is a recent-ish college grad. Some guy is going to a lot of trouble to find out her name/who she is, and it is freaking her out. She still has admin access on her sorority’s Instagram page. Earlier this week, the guy sent that account a DM and included one of her graduation pictures (with her sorority stole, university, and grad year visible) asking for her name and contact information. He said he had found some things that belonged to her and that the picture he attached was with them. This is FALSE. The picture he used is a digital photo that has never been printed. It has never been posted to the sorority Instagram page either. It is on my daughter’s Facebook page, but that page is private. So she has no idea how he got the picture. Plus, my daughter isn’t missing any items. As an admin, my daughter blocked the guy from her sorority’s Instagram page.
Then a few days later, she saw her same grad picture with the same request pop up on the University Class of 20- - page. The guy got himself added to that page after she blocked him on the sorority Instagram page. She’s contacted the admin of the University Class of 20- - page to have the post removed because she’s worried that someone who knows her will tag her, and then he’ll have her name. With her name, he can find out where she works, etc.
She looked at (didn’t friend him of course) his Facebook profile to see if they had any friends in common. They don’t. Very little of his info is visible. Most of his friend profiles that she saw were of women in suggestive/revealing outfits. This made her even more uncomfortable.
As her mother, this is making me very uneasy. Are there any other steps she needs to take or anything else she should do? She’s asked for my help.
My daughter is a recent-ish college grad. Some guy is going to a lot of trouble to find out her name/who she is, and it is freaking her out. She still has admin access on her sorority’s Instagram page. Earlier this week, the guy sent that account a DM and included one of her graduation pictures (with her sorority stole, university, and grad year visible) asking for her name and contact information. He said he had found some things that belonged to her and that the picture he attached was with them. This is FALSE. The picture he used is a digital photo that has never been printed. It has never been posted to the sorority Instagram page either. It is on my daughter’s Facebook page, but that page is private. So she has no idea how he got the picture. Plus, my daughter isn’t missing any items. As an admin, my daughter blocked the guy from her sorority’s Instagram page.
Then a few days later, she saw her same grad picture with the same request pop up on the University Class of 20- - page. The guy got himself added to that page after she blocked him on the sorority Instagram page. She’s contacted the admin of the University Class of 20- - page to have the post removed because she’s worried that someone who knows her will tag her, and then he’ll have her name. With her name, he can find out where she works, etc.
She looked at (didn’t friend him of course) his Facebook profile to see if they had any friends in common. They don’t. Very little of his info is visible. Most of his friend profiles that she saw were of women in suggestive/revealing outfits. This made her even more uncomfortable.
As her mother, this is making me very uneasy. Are there any other steps she needs to take or anything else she should do? She’s asked for my help.