LuvsDragonflies
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I would have yelled at him, I don't care if they like it or not. Being 4 doesn't mean you get to abuse an animal.
Yeah exactly. I seriously wanted to go over and slap him. And the fact he was laughing about it, made it even worse in my opinion. Luckily he didn't even go near the baby duck but I was concerned because it was right on the ledge near the boats and the duck could have fallen in the water. She and the baby got to safety in the boat waiting area.
Simba's Girl said:This
FWIW...I have even had the cops called on me once for YELLING at my child in public and THREATENING to make her stay in her room for a very long time because she was refusing to do what I asked her/she agreed to do. Like staying in her room was a punishment
Since that happened about 4 years ago I am VERY VERY careful about disciplining my children in public.
in por, i noticed many young children (under 10) wandering around on their own-i would never have let my children be on their own-in an unknown environment-even if it is disney.
So sad. Wonder what that child will hit when he is grown up?
Makes one wonder, where were these people when grandpa was taking off the belt?
I am sorry, but I have a problem with this. What this child did is wrong, but wanting to slap him, is wrong too.
What is a shame is when the ducks try to defend themselves from these kids, the parents get all upset about the vicious animal.
kpm76 said:I agree. OP is upset that the child was violent with the ducks yet they want to also display violence by slapping a child? What lesson would that teach the child? It's ok to hit....
I would have told him straight up " dont hit the duck" I would have said it loud too. Id have made sure his parents heard me. I will not stand for anyone hurting helpless animals!
Bagheera23608 said:This. I will NOT stand by while a bully picks on a helpless animal. And you can bet if that duck went after the little bully, I would have defended the duck. I live in an apt complex. This summer I had a terrible time defending the local wildlife (we have a lovely creek and tons of trees) from a pack of boys old enough to know better. You will NOT throw sticks at squirrels and you will NOT harass snakes or birds. Not on my watch.
Some of the boys hate me, some of them like me for standing up when they feel they can't.
A person who abuses animals is a monster.
Mine did..we were so close to the food court mine (7,9 and 10) would go get their own drinks and snacks.. but thats as far as they went.
beachgrl001 said:I know how you feel. We have animals in my house. My boys were taught to always be nice to animals. We have a house near the beach here in Jersey. Every summer I will have to go up to kids to tell them not to throw rocks at the seagulls. The parents just sit there but these are usually the same people who leave their trash on the beach.
THIS!Oh my - that family should be glad we were not there. I think my husband would have said some not so nice words to the kid AND the parents and I would have joined in.
If any child even runs towards an animal in an attempt to scare it, we say something if the parents are too stupid to do it themselves. On our last trip, I told a little boy to stop running after the sparrows at Hollywood Studios. I mean, sparrows. A common bird and the kid thought he should chase them.
Husband just came home and I'll tell him about this and his head will figuratively explode. The man stops to help turtles cross the road (yes, he's done this three times).
Back when my dd was about 2.5, we had a function at our church. The church is located on a really quiet road, with little traffic. Well, other kids were playing in the road, while the parents stood around and chatted. My dd ran into the road to play. I went after her and brought her back. This happened two more times. The last time, I said to her 'You go into that road again, and you're going to get a bum swat!!!' Now, she had never had a bum swat before..she had always listened to me. But not this time...the temptation was too great. So off she went, back into the road to play. I followed her, swatted her behind, and brought her back to the grassy area. Every single person there stopped talking....every child stopped playing..you would have thought I beat her with a whip!!! Understand...this child had on a diaper..it was more about getting her full attention because this was a very unsafe situation, and she really needs to listen to me. She didn't go back in the road and found other kids to play with. One man came up to me in church the next day to tell me that he felt obligated to explain the wrongness of child abuse!!! Seriously??? Both his kids were in 'special' schools for children that have behaviour issues!!! I never had to lay a hand on my dd's bottom again. She knew that if she didn't listen to me, there would be repercussions.This
FWIW...I have even had the cops called on me once for YELLING at my child in public and THREATENING to make her stay in her room for a very long time because she was refusing to do what I asked her/she agreed to do. Like staying in her room was a punishment
Since that happened about 4 years ago I am VERY VERY careful about disciplining my children in public.