OK, that does not sound right as you want normal as in independence, self reliance, self esteem, potty training, and getting a job. Take them steps as you get them.
Lady 1: So, what is new?
Lady 2: My son did something normal today, he tied his shoes all by himself.
Lady 3: Congratulations. My son did something normal today, he was chosen to be a lead in the school play.
Lady 4 (from this board): Congratulations ladies, my son did something normal today, also. He did a normal guy thing. He peed all over the hall while aiming at for distance and targets. Typical normal guy thing. So proud of him.
Ladies: