So what is it that you really look for?

[Babyjustrun]

I always go for skinny tall (usually tall anyways, current boyfriend is not very tall) kind nerdy guys.. When I use the word nerd, I don't really mean guys who are into school or whatever, they're into certain things in a nerdy way. Like my boyfriend is nerdy for anything Apple or anything Xbox.

Anyways, I look for a guy who can make me laugh and smile. I love doing both, and I need someone who can make me happy by hardly doing anything when I'm in a bad mood. Nine times outta ten Brandon just somehow cheers me up indirectly. It's really possible for a guy to keep me happy on a whole about life, if I'm happy with them, and they make me happy.. the other ****ty things don't seem to matter.

I like someone with a humor. I like someone who doesn't go out and drink all the time. I like having someone to cuddle with. I like someone who can deal with my quirks and love them. I love someone who can have those really weird conversations about me (today I was discussing vasectomies, the other night guns, and then a conversation on MSN all in capslock.. I know, we're a cute couple).

I admire guys who care about school but don't make it their life. They get good grades, but they do other things too.

Basically everything that I see in Brandon is what I look for. But I guess basically is the key word. I mean I'm not crazy over how he's slow sometimes, I'm not crazy over how he misuses some words.. but I can deal with that.

Physically.. there's nothing that really defines what I look for a guy on the outside. The only thing that may go is skinny as heck lol. My boyfriend is pretty skinny.. skinnier than me I'll admit, but he doesn't necessary look like a little boy. Same goes for my last crush, who is obscenely skinny.. they just look good in the close they wear..

Hair/eye color does not matter whatsoever to me. I'm all over the place on that. But I do find my boyfriend's dark hair rather nice.

I like a nice smile. Brandon has a beautiful smile, he doesn't have the straightest teeth, but when he smiles his eyes scrunch a little and the skin under his eyes wrinkles. It's adorable, cute and I love it. I love seeing him smile, when I'm with him I try hard to be able to see that often.

 

[PigletGurl]

I know there's no "perfect" man out there, but if there was such a thing as "perfect", then he would have to have the following:

Non-Physical


Christian. He has to be Christian. That's all I have to say.
Patience. There is nothing worse than a man who is not patient. I want a man who is willing to wait to have sex until marriage, one who is patient about making out (if there is such a thing, all I'm thinking is foreplay and that's not good before marriage), one who shows patience in the way that he talks, how he expresses himself, etc...
Respect. Please keep your hands to yourself if you're not invited. There is nothing better than a man whose first priority is not slobbering all over me. That is rude and selfish. Desires of the flesh are not what keeps people who are truly in love, together.
Kindness. A man who is kind gaines my respect. One who is kind to children, elderly people, his parents, my parents, brothers, sisters...etc.. I like a man who does not get constantly into fights, one who is able to defend themselves without having to use his fists (except of course if he can't help it).
Envy. It's pretty normal for a man to get jealous if he sees his loved one talking with another man. Don't jump into conclusions, please. Know the facts before you take any drastic measures.
Humility. Nothing is more adorable than a man who is humble. A man who is not proud and does not boast is a big turn on. Sure, a little boasting is okay once in a while, because we are not perfect and we are only human, but close to nothing is better.
Selfishness This can be one of the worst qualities a man can have. What is being selfish? A man who only seeks what he wants. For example, he wants to make out with a girl that refuses, but then he keeps her in his grip without letting her go slobbering all over her, (that happened to me), is a big turn off. How can you not be selfish? You can avoid it by helping others before yourself, and putting others before you. Sure a little "me" time is fine, because like I said, we are only human.
Honesty. Men lie all the time. It's like they're gift. Girls know when you lie. We can see it all over your face. Be straightforward and tell us you're cheating because we hate liars. Lying is never good.
Perseverance. Don't ever give up please. There is always hope. It is normal in all relationships to suffer through rough patches, but in time, if there if faith, it will get better.
Sense of humor.Funny is good. I want a man who can have a good time, and still be serious in everything that he does. A man who knows when to stop laughing and be serious, is smart. I do not like a man that enjoys dirty jokes. This is a big turn off. Also, this includes any kind of racist jokes too. Any kind of joke that offends anyone, is a big turn off. Basically, I love a man who can make me smile, even in the toughest of times.
Emotional. You can talk to me about anything. Do not be afraid to open up to my heart. Don't be afraid to cry. This does not make you any less of a man. We will always be there for each other.
Intelligence. I do not like slackers. This means that you have given up, or are not trying hard enough. Get your butt off the couch and do something with your life! My man does not have to be extremely smart, but smart enough to know how to make the right decisions and to be able to support a family.
Drinking Nope. I will never date a man who drinks. That is disgusting and intoxicating. A man who drinks is a man who does not care about what happens to his body. I like a man who cares for himself. Enough said.
Smoking. Again, the same thing applies.
Drugs. Yet again, the same thing applies.
Good manners. A man is adorable when he says "please" and "thank you". A man with good manners is a man who cares about how he acts toward others and that is awesome! You are only allowed to flirt with me, too!
Health. Please take care of your body. Do not overeat. Avoid being overweight, for your own sake. Stay fit and healthy. If you fall ill with something you can't avoid, like say, cancer, learn to accept your illness and I will take of you until you die. Then I will probably drop dead on the spot too.

Physical

Hair. A well groomed man is a good-looking man. A man who has nice smelling hair is awesome.
Optional: brown hair, dirty or strawberry blonde. I absolutely adore shaggy hair. I hate mop hair though. I also hate buzz cuts or bald looks. I want to be able to ruffle his hair in my hands.
Eyebrows. I don't like a man who "does" his eyebrows, you know like tweezing and plucking.
Optional. I love thick eyebrows. I hate unibrows.
Eyes. No eyeliner, thanks!
Optional. Blue eyes are my favorite! Green works too.
Lips. No lip gloss or any kind of lipstick! Only chapstick is allowed.
Optional. Basically, I love lips like the ones David Archuleta has. They are so kissable.
Height. If you're taller than me, you are ok.
Weight. Love is love, but please try and maintain a healthy weight, because I do not want to lose you to diabetes or heart attacks.
Overall Body. Absolutely no earrings, any where on the body! That is for girls only, thanks. No tattoos either. I like a man who does not spend 24/7 at the gym. I prefer a man with no abs or slightly built. Not overly buff or buff at all. I would like for you to be able to carry me though. I am not strong at all, so being strong is awesome!
Nationality. In true love, it doesn't matter, but my preferences are: American, Puerto Rican, South American, or European.


Blah, this was long. It took me 45 minutes to write.

 

[PurpleDucky]

Wanda a question about the eyebrows. You said you don't like unibrows but you also don't like when he plucks them..lol (I have a secret, usually all men have to pluck their eyebrows, they don't grow perfect)

 

[PigletGurl]

Haha, theyre only allowed to pluck the middle, though!

 

[PurpleDucky]

Haha, theyre only allowed to pluck the middle, though!

Okay, that clarifies things

 

[PigletGurl]

Theres lots missing, but im too tired to write it all up haha.
I feel so picky, haha!

 

[AliceinHalloweentown]

Hmm... I don't know... shocking isn't it.
Gentlemen are my style but I don't know my specifics. I'm sure I'm picky though... guys don't want me anyways, so right now in my life, it doesn't matter.

 

[Captain Brain]

My turn.

Looks:

Hey, I'm not gonna lie. Looks are an important part of a person. I need a girl who at least tries to make herself look good. She doesn't have to be Eva Longoria or Carrie Underwood, but she has to at least try to look good.

I like long hair. I've never really liked short hair on girls. Sorry. The colour doesn't matter. I've gone for every type. My current crush has red hair, to be precise.

I love beautiful eyes. Blues and greens are my favourite.

Height and weight don't really bother me much. Just as long as she's not like seven feet tall. I'm a short guy, I like to think that I'm tall.

Personality/Misc.:

I love girls with a great sense of humour. I like to make perverted jokes sometimes, I can't have a girl who gets overly offended everytime. I do like to laugh, and she needs to as well. I feel awkward when there isn't any laughter. It's weird.

She also needs to love music. I'm a big music fanatic, so I need someone to talk to about it. It's just a plus if she's a country liking girl. (Most are around here anyway. XD)

I must must must have a smart girl. No, not to do my homework for me. I like to have intelligent conversation. I need her to be able to hold her own in a political discussion or other matter.

It's not a requirement per se, but I would love if she was a Christian girl. I am a devout Christian, and I have been for most of my life. It would be strange if she wasn't. If we're both Christians, we'll probably have similar views on certain things.

She needs to be unafraid to be childish at times. Nobody wants to be super mature all the time. I like to have a lot of fun and goof around.

 

[disneychick2721]

Personality
I like guys with a sense of humor, like most girls. It may be over used but its really important. Im super sarcastic so I would need a guy who understands my sarcasm.
Drinking/Smoking/Drugs is biggest turn off. Its disgusting.
Guys with Morals and are gentlemen are good.
Needs to be confident.
Someone I can have an actual conversation with.
I dont like being touched to much. I dont know what it is, like hugs/holding hands and such I dont care. But dont touch my shoulders or waist or whatever its uncomfortable.
Catholic/Christian.
Looks
I like guys with good hair.
If you have bad hygiene then thats a big no.
Tall.
You dont have to have the most amazing abercrombie model bod, but dont look like you dont give a crap what you look like.

 

[JulielovesDisney]

Physical:

- Height doesn't matter that much to me. I would prefer my guy to be taller, but it honestly doesn't matter. My boyfriend is like 2 inches shorter than I am, and I never thought twice about it.
- Hair..it HAS to look good! lol I don't have a favorite style, per se, but as long as it looks good, I love it. Hair is one of the biggest turn ons for me, I have no idea why. I just love running my fingers through it.
- My guy has to be athletic. Not muscular, but active. And he CANNOT be skinny. I need meat on my guy's bones, skinny guys just gross me out. I don't care if it's fat, or muscle, it doesn't matter.
- Non-smoker..I hate smoking. It's gross and it's just killing yourself slowly. I don't want my guy to be slowly killing himself.
- Drinking is a must..but not an alcoholic. My guy should enjoy a cold beer or two while watching sports, or want to go to the bar with me and/or his buddies from time to time.

Personality:

- The biggest thing is a sense of humor!!!! I am a goofy person who laughs all the time, and I need someone who laughs as much as I do and can make me laugh. If a guy is too serious, it will never, ever work. I'd get bored so fast.
- I need to be able to trust my guy with everything and anything. And he has to be loyal to me and his friends. I can't stand when people don't stick up for the people who they care about.
- He needs to respect me and know that when I'm in a relationship, I am fully committed. I'm not with him just for sex or an image.
- He needs to be religious. Not necessarily the same religion as I am, but he should believe in God and heaven, etc.
- He should want to take care of me when I'm sick or just not feeling well. And he should want to keep me safe. I love when guys are protective, but not over-protective. That's a parent's just. =)
- I don't want a guy who is super romantic. Like if he takes me out to expensive restaurants every week, that's annoying. I like the simple things, like a sweet, romance text message, or a candle lit take-out dinner. Those are much more meaningful than expensive restaurants.
- He must be athletic and love sports. I love when guys play pick-up football or basketball games with their buddies. And I love watching sports on TV, so my guy needs to like doing that too. And they have to actually be into it too, like they start yelling at the TV and stuff.
- I love when a guy is sensitive and cries a little at sad movies. It's so sweet and it shows strength more than a guy who shows no emotion. That's weakness.
- He has to be competitive, especially with sports teams. Like right now, I am a huge Philadelphia Eagles fan, and my boyfriend is a huge New York Giants fan, and they are playing eachother on Sunday. We keep putting the other team down and messing around. I love that.
- He also needs to be a teaser. I grew up with two older brothers and all we would do is tease eachother, but in a loving way. lol So he has to be able to take it, and dish it out. It's just being playful and goofy, something that is important to me in any relationship. Even with my friends, we all mess around and tease eachother.
- He has to accept me for who I am. I will never, ever change just for one person. If he wants me to act differently or dress differently, I'm gone.
- He also needs to accept differences in others. He can't be racist or ignorant or closed minded.

That's basically my "perfect" guy summed up.

 

[princesskelz]

Matt i thought u would make a thread like this xD

Personality
he has to make me laugh
he has be nice
has to be a christian
HAS TO LIKE FOOTBALL!
has to like Disney
wants kids
loves me
must be care free
mellow
Looks
he cant be skinny skinny (i like bigger guys)
good eyes
amazing smile
he has to have hair i can play with
has to take care of himself
he can have tattoos
he can have few percings.
has to be a good kisser

 

[CastawayJ]

1) Tyler: tried someone soooo like me it was awesome, I really liked her but it failed and now we hate each other
2) Haley: over diferent didn't work either, that summer was ok but not great
3) Krissy: just a bad idea all togeather
4)Meg: I still love but it just isn't the same... long distance is hard and I'm not strong willed
5) Amanda asked me... it's been over a month and a half... wish me luck

 

[chicklets]

well theres many inner things i like. but i'm going to tell you the pysical stuff i like.

but it still doesn't matter just on apperance.

-eyes. I LOVE my boyfriends eyes.
-cute hair. like i'm not attracted to a buzz cut
-sincer
-be really into me and not afraid to show it
hmmm thats all for now.

 

[CastawayJ]

sorry, I should have some advice but talked about myself

which in fact is my advice

be yourself, and don't get down when things are ruff

 

[Sparx]

i've got a big heart. typically, i end up in relationships where i have to be the stronger person and i end up trying to fix someone. (i mean people with serious issues...i'm a glutton for punishment)

but recently, i've figured out what i really deserve. i'm in my first healthy relationship right now and its amazing. i'll never look at a relationship the same way again.

i want someone that i can be myself around.
i want someone who can hold me while i'm crying.
i want someone who will make me laugh.
i want someone i can play games with.
i want someone who can handle my energy (i'm a bundle of crazy sometimes.)
i want someone that wants me.
i want someone not afraid to fall in love (i fall fast and hard)
i want someone who will be honest.

and i have that.
and i've never been happier.

 

[Disney Dork]

Looks:
Doesn't matter to me what they look like.

Personality/Other:
1. Patience. I am EXTREMELY shy, especially around guys, and therefore it takes me a while to get to know someone enough to where I truly open up and be myself. A lot of the time though, I tend to open up more quickly with people that are a lot more talkative and outgoing than myself...because they help force me out of my shell faster than someone more like me would...THUS BRINGING ME TO #2.
2. Someone who's like me in some ways...but different in others.. I'm quiet....shy....and get afraid of almost everything. I need someone who's going to be like "Hey! That's not that scary! COME ON! I'll be right behind you!" ....Yup. Balance= <333.
3. Trustworthy.
4. Caring.
5. Loving.
6. Secure.
7. Not too over-protective. A little is ok...but I'd prefer if he didn't over-do it.
8. Doesn't smoke. I can not stand the smell of cigarette smoke....at all.

 

[Courtney88]

Well, I work at Best Buy, so I tend to end up dating cute, but slightly nerdy guys lol. Note to self: Stop dating guys from work!!!

Anyways...
Physical: I tend to go for dark-haired, skinny, fair-skinned, tall guys. It's not super important to me, and my high-school sweetheart who I dated for 2 years was my height with lighter hair, so obviously it's not super important. But guys I get a crush on right away tend to look like that.

Personality: Sense of humor is key...you have to be able to handle my sarcasm, and joke around with me without being mean. But he also has to have a serious side and be supportive when I'm going through a rough time.

Random:
It's okay to tease me about stuff like how I eat everything plain or the music I listen to, but if you're my boyfriend can you please at least try to pretend you find some of this to be funny or cute? I once dated a guy who seemed bothered everytime our opinion or taste differed, and it drove me nuts. Why would you want to date a clone of yourself?
I notice how a guy treats me the first time I'm sick when we're dating! Are you like ew stay away, or offering to bring me soup? Don't be like my ex (same one from the last paragraph) who gave me strep throat then wouldn't drive the half hour to visit me when I was sick.
Be interested in my opinion, but please have your own too. And don't be afraid to tell me what it is.



Those are the main things that come to mind...

 

[acesupercoolme]

Phsical, I need them to be taller than me, becasue it would just be weird if they were shorter, I like skinny guys, but they need to still be athletic because I would want someone to work out with and to run with. I like darker hair a lot more than light hair, and I looove blue eyes.

Personality, Funny, nice, mature, calm, responsible, is intelligent, polite, caring, confident.

Other things, HAS to looove video games, because I love them, better like good music, and has to be able to accept how I am and deal with it.

 

[Huit]

A kidney. Easy money.