Are their any respite services in your area? I am sure you've looked into it. I know how stressful caregiving can be. And then you feel guilty because you love them. Don't feel bad, needing a break is totally understandable. Just a hug in recognition for what you do.
Pigletto, thank you for your response. There's no respite care that I would trust here in Memphis.
But keeping the topic on track...the number 1 materialistic thing on my list is a new set of towels and a paint job for the bathroom to go with the new towels!