Terry is so right about letting the Cm know you don't want to be part of 'the show'! When we were there, our party consisted of two families, both with just turned 8 y/o dd's. The other family, especially dd, are more reserved than we are. In fact, after sending the girls to wash their hands and then testing them by asking the color of the soap, Cousin Chris must have realized that the other little girl was NOT going to enjoy being the center of attention. So, he focused on my family. He was soooo right in his judgement call. He did a camel type train thingie with french fries with my dd, all the while singing the Aladdin song. I watched the other little girl, sitting there, horrified, stuffing french fries into her mouth so he wouldn't notice hers were still on the plate!!! My dd on the other hand loved the attention.