Okay, ADR's are made... I'm sure I will do some playing but I want to know your thoughts... Let 'em fly!!
We will arrive on the 16th, be at the resort about 10:30p. I know we should have probably stayed offsite the first night because of the late arrival but simplicity won out.
Sat 17:
Epcot - rope drop
This is a take it easy day. I'm going to try out a tp for the rides - that is what my kids love to do here. Anything else we fit in is 'bonus.' Plan on leaving the park around 5p.
6:30p Whispering Canyon Cafe - my one chance to see this resort at Christmas time.
After dinner - it's anyone's guess, but I see us either going back to our resort, the Poly, and hanging out and watch the water pageant and Wishes (will be regular Wishes - our one chance to see this one) from the beach... or if we are feeling super adventurous...hit MK to watch from main street.
Sun 18:
Magic Kingdom
8:05a Breakfast at Crystal Palace - this will put us in the park an hour early. I want some photo ops!!
I love that I have heard about doing this. I never would have thought to before spending so much time on Dis. Now, I too have an early morning ADR... hoping to get some good pics too. 
4:30p 1900 Park Fare - Grand Floridian - see the decorations as well as give us a break before....
7:00p
MVMCP!!!
This entire day is devoted to the MK! I want to do as much as we can in the way of rides during the day so we can do the 'party stuff' that night.
Mon 19:
DHS - rope drop
4:00p Sci Fi Diner - dinner - considering changing this to lunch but undecided. Want to eat Starring Rolls for lunch, I think.
If you want Starring Rolls, keep in mine their sandwiches sell out...so you have to get there early
Tues 20:
Animal Kingdom - rope drop
No ADR's scheduled. Again, another lazy day - easy going, experiment with tp some. When the kids are ready to go, we will go. Might hit DTD at some point or tour some other resorts. DH will arrive this night as well so we want to be there to meet him!!
Wed 21:
Animal Kingdom - AM EMH - somewhat worried about this but one of the parks DH wants to go to and this was the best predicted crowd day of the 3 if we are going to go back to Epcot and MK as well with him.
8:00a Tusker House
6:00p Boma's
We've never stayed at AK very late - usually leave after the parade and that should give us plenty of time to get to Boma's from there. Then we will go wherever DH wants to go after dinner!
Thurs 22:
Epcot - rope drop!! This is when I'm going to use a tp without DH realizing I'm using a tp!

Hope he is ready to run for fastpasses when I say "GO!"

5:10p Cape May Cafe - chance to visit Beach Club, eat some good seafood, and take a break from Epcot before going back to find a watch spot for Illuminations.
Fri 23:
Magic Kingdom - rope drop and our final full day!

We will again be secretly using tp to maneuver this park. No ADR's until dinner.
5:55p 'Ohana - I think this will give us a good break and we can go back to MK after dinner for the evening festivities. Want DH to see the Christmas parade and holiday Wishes since he will miss them at MVMCP. Then I saw Epcot was open until 12:30p... perhaps if we have enough juice, we can go back there and ride some of our favs!
Sat 24:
NOTHING PLANNED. Let the kids sleep in, and pack up and catch a ride back to the airport around 11a. Considering making a reservation for breakfast at Kona's or 'Ohanas.... thoughts? We've never eaten at Kona's and this will be our third stay... but I've heard they are slower? Or what about Chef Mickey's for breakfast?
I have never been to either for breakfast. Dinner, yes... and I plan to go again in December.