SO is in the process of moving out

[SonjaB]

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}} honey, we've all been there and my heart is broken for you.

 

[JohnTBap]

Poor tater bug. Tater Bug, sometimes, there's just something rotten in your tater and you got to cut that part out or the whole tater is going to be icky. I am sorry, Tater Bug.

To quote my dear friend alabamaalan:

Nobody said it wouldn't suck.



{{{HUGS}}}

 

[browneyes]

{{hugs}}, Missy.

 

[wdwnutze]

{{{hugs}}}. Things will get better in time.

 

[JasonLyons]

hey

 

[nkjzmom]

I feel an overwhelming desire to bring some huge chocolate cake with ice cream and warm chocolate and caramel syrup over to you.....

You WILL make it through this....you are stronger than you think.

Amy

 

[bsnyder]

Hugs! I'm so sorry you're going through this!

 

[TEENEE]

It will be hard in the beginning but trust me it will get better. Spend some time taking care of yourself and doing things that you enjoy. Hang in there, you will be fine.

 

[tater bug]

All I can say is WOW. I am totally blown away by all the support being offered to me. This place is totally awesome.

Today is a little better than yesterday. Until it's time to go home, anyway.

 

[scarlett873]

{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}

it's never an easy thing to go through...but it does get better with time...been there, done that, and i pray that i never have to go back.

 

[BrianD]

Tater Bug,

Really sorry. It's great that there is such a good group of encouraging folks here to help pick you back up and move forward with life. One thing I'm learning is that a lot of bad crap happens in life. It's good to learn from it, but we have to brush off our feet and move on and not let the past hurt your future.

Again, I'm really sorry that you are having to go through this. I wish you all the best!

Why is it that we only here of the female DISers that have heart ache.

Do men:

1) don't know how to share

or

2) refuse to admit it

or

3) never truly fall in love that would result in their heart being broken?

Now, as a male myself, to answer jamsmom, I think that the answer is #1. We do have heartache, we're just shallow in conversations by nature. It is very uncomfortable for a man to be vulnerable with someone else because our significance is found in how much we have it together on the outside. Men are prideful, but believe me, not so much that we fool ourselves into thinking that we don't have any problems. We just don't want others to know about it.

 

[Mishetta]

I'm so very sorry you're living through so much pain right now. I'm sure things will get better very soon & you'll become a much stronger person out of this whole ordeal. I keep being told that there is a reason for everything.

God Bless you & see you through this. We're here too though!

((((hugs)))) Rose

 

[dandave]

My best to you, tater bug!

 

[binny]

(((hugs)))

 

[helenabear]

{{{HUGS}}} I am so sorry you are going through this

 

[tater bug]

Today has been better. Crying my eyes out last night helped. Thank you seems to be the 2 words most used by me lately but I do mean it. Thank you all for the kindness and support.

 

[newmousecateer]

{{{HUGS}}}.

 

[TeresaNJ]

So sorry you have to go through this, tater bug. Having been through some pretty painful experiences myself, one of the things that helped me was to finally talk about it. I was unable to talk to family or friends for reasons I can't get into, but I did frequently speak to a few DIS friends through pm and email who helped me tremendously when I was feeling particularly low and hopeless. I'm sure your DIS buddies will be there when you need them, if people are asking you to pm them, then do it. They wouldn't ask if they didn't mean it. We're all here for you to get through the tough times ahead, and the happy ones.

 

[goofygirl]

Whenever I hear of a man breaking a woman's heart, I want to go kick his a**!!

Look at it this way- its HIS loss, and living alone means having the bathroom to yourself, you have the bed to yourself to spread out on, and you won't have to deal with his annoying habits (everyone has THOSE!)


But it is TRUE that men go through this too. My BF went through a bad breakup with a long term live-in girlfriend and it devastated him.

BUT....
she made him single again, and then he met ME!
So I guess some things happen for a reason!

 

[Tony-NJ]

Chocolate!!!! Now chocolate may help! Just a little!~!!