Sorry, but a good grilled cheese sandwich just can not be faked....
The minute I read how the sandwich was made (with Pam) I just
First, you have to use good ingredients...
REAL cheese (not the 'singles' but the 'Deluxe').
Second, you have to use good bread...
Third, you have to use real butter or a quality margarine...
Not the spray or low-fat stuff... They have water in them, are not really oil-based, and will just wet the bread..
To cook the sandwich, you do not put the butter/margarine on the bread...
You melt and coat the bottom of the pan.
You heat up your pan, place a good amount of butter to coat the pan, and when it starts to melt and sizzle, then you place your sandwich in there... Medium heat - if it is too low, soggy sandwich, too hot, burned butter...
I place a paper plate upside down over the sandwich while grilling to hold in the heat and melt the cheese...
When one side is done... remove the sandwich, re-coat the pan with fresh butter... do the other side...
Uhhhmmmm!!! Perfection.
To bad I haven't had one in ages because I gave up bread and uber fattening foods!!!!