so a year ago, today...

AmandaSparks730

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I'm not sure who remembers me posting this a year ago, but my friend, Kim, died accidentally a year ago today.

I'm not sure what to think. I'm really not. I haven't been to her grave, ever, and I'm torn over weather or not it's my place to go there.

I can't believe it's been a year. It went by so fast. And as I was taking the SAT's today, I couldn't help but to think what happened on that cloudy, rainy Friday morning. It's such a beautiful day today, and I have to wonder if she sent it to us.

What I found even more ironic/coincedental was that the SAT essay was about small decisions having major consquences.

I miss her.

September 11, 1993--May 1, 2009.

Always in our hearts.
 
Girl,
I am so sorry about your friend.:hug: My friend died earlier this year of cancer and it was very heartbreaking. If you need anyone to talk to I am here, you can PM me or whatever.
<3
 
I'm not sure who remembers me posting this a year ago, but my friend, Kim, died accidentally a year ago today.

I'm not sure what to think. I'm really not. I haven't been to her grave, ever, and I'm torn over weather or not it's my place to go there.

I can't believe it's been a year. It went by so fast. And as I was taking the SAT's today, I couldn't help but to think what happened on that cloudy, rainy Friday morning. It's such a beautiful day today, and I have to wonder if she sent it to us.

What I found even more ironic/coincedental was that the SAT essay was about small decisions having major consquences.

I miss her.

September 11, 1993--May 1, 2009.

Always in our hearts.

:hug:
 

There is no rules when it comes to visiting a loved one. If you want to visit her grave, you should, if you don't then don't. Don't feel restricted by whether or not it's you "place" to go. She was your friend, and you were hers, it's your place if you want to visit.

I am so very sorry that happened to you. A couple of friends at my school died this year, but they weren't accidents. It's hard to think they are gone, but they are in a better place, and you are very strong. :hug:

If you ever need to talk, feel free to PM me.
 
There is no rules when it comes to visiting a loved one. If you want to visit her grave, you should, if you don't then don't. Don't feel restricted by whether or not it's you "place" to go. She was your friend, and you were hers, it's your place if you want to visit.

I am so very sorry that happened to you. A couple of friends at my school died this year, but they weren't accidents. It's hard to think they are gone, but they are in a better place, and you are very strong. :hug:

If you ever need to talk, feel free to PM me.

:hug:

We weren't super-close or anything, but we were friends/friendly at the time of her death.

I remember your post, Meg. I'm sorry. :hug:

Thanks, Lexi :hug:


:hug:

Girl,
I am so sorry about your friend.:hug: My friend died earlier this year of cancer and it was very heartbreaking. If you need anyone to talk to I am here, you can PM me or whatever.
<3

My name is Meg. Thanks :hug:
 
Wow, that is ironic. And I still feel really sorry for your loss.
As far as going to her grave is concerned, it's ultimately up to you. I mean, if you pray/talk to her or whatever you may do, I believe that she will hear you, regardless.
 
Wow, that is ironic. And I still feel really sorry for your loss.
As far as going to her grave is concerned, it's ultimately up to you. I mean, if you pray/talk to her or whatever you may do, I believe that she will hear you, regardless.
:hug: thanks. I was considering going today, and I had planned that months ago, but then I found out that SAT's were today, and by the time I got out of that (which was close to 1:00), I was wiped. Then again, I did spend the day yesterday on a field trip in Boston. So I was super tired.
 
:hug:

i do remember your post, its hard to believe that was a year ago. also, i don't think that you should feel guilty if you decide not to go to your friends grave, its really just what you think you can handle.
 
I remember your post Meg. It really is hard to believe it's been a whole year. :hug: I don't think you should feel guilty about not visiting your friends grave, because it's ultimately up to what you think you can deal with.
 
:hug:

i do remember your post, its hard to believe that was a year ago. also, i don't think that you should feel guilty if you decide not to go to your friends grave, its really just what you think you can handle.

:hug:

I know I could handle it, but I'm not sure if it's right...I mean, we weren't super-close, so I was thinking that it might not be...you know, right, to go to her grave...

I remember your post Meg. It really is hard to believe it's been a whole year. :hug: I don't think you should feel guilty about not visiting your friends grave, because it's ultimately up to what you think you can deal with.

:hug:

It's hard to think that we're going into Senior Year without her. It really is.
 


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