I will answer my own question here for anyone who is wondering.
The order is:
1. Create a dog and name it Smoggo or Bigglesworth.
2. Go to the Spa and walk your dog. Have someone pat it.
3. Buy (or use if you already have them) 4 oak chairs, a mahogany table, a square candle and a rose. Sit at your table with 3 other people for a "double date".
4. Have 10 people (including yourself) all dancing at once in your room.