I guess I will try calling Delta again. Cancelling the flight and re-booking would cost me at least $200 as fares have gone up a bit, as well as the non-stop flights are gone. Thanks for the tips!
If you are a JAG, then you'll know how to use the actual legal text in the Contract of Carriage found
here.
On page 40, the CoC discusses your rights and Delta's liabilities in the event of a change greater than 90 minutes (in which your case qualifies). The provisions state:
Rule 240: B. Deltas Liability in the Event of Schedule Changes, Delays and Flight Cancellations
In the event of flight cancellation, diversion, delays of greater than 90 minutes, or delays that will cause a passenger to miss connections, Delta will (at passengers request) cancel the remaining ticket and refund the unused portion of the ticket and unused ancillary fees in the original form of payment in accordance with Rule 260 of these conditions of carriage. If the passenger does not request a refund and cancellation of the ticket, Delta will transport the passenger to the destination on Deltas next flight on which seats are available in the class of service originally purchased. At Deltas sole discretion and if acceptable to the passenger, Delta may arrange for the passenger to travel on another carrier or via ground transportation. If acceptable to the passenger, Delta will provide transportation in a lower class of service, in which case the passenger may be entitled to a partial refund. If space on the next available flight is available only in a higher class of service than purchased, Delta will transport the passenger on the flight, although Delta reserves the right to upgrade other passengers on the flight according to its upgrade priority policy to make space in the class of service originally purchased. [/B]
Go into the discussion armed with the rules, so you don't take the CSR's word for it.
As for catching the plane at LAX, if you drive there from San Diego, how were you going to get home if the return is direct to SAN? In addition, how long were you going to leave the other car at LAX acquiring parking fees?
I recommend researching available flights, regardless of price, before you call. Use the
ITAMatrix or
Hipmunk to view available options. Find an acceptable alternate itinerary for both Delta (DL) and Alaska (AS).
Then armed with your specific choice and the rules, call delta customer service, inform them your outbound flight has changed greater than 90 minutes, and you'd like to change your itinerary. they will understand this and respond accordingly (likely by asking the flights you want). Give them the flight numbers, dates, and times of the desired flight for the outbound and return. If you want to drive to LA, then you'll likely want to return there to get your vehicle.
Also go on Virgin America's site and Southwest airlines' site to see if they have acceptable options in the price point, in case you desire a refund.
Good luck, and feel free to ask as many questions (in as much detail as possible) as you need to understand before you call. You have our attention, and we are willing and able to help, since many that have responded are frequent travelers or studied airline travel. Oh, and let us know your decision and final outcome.