If you are considering the Northeast, any of the Stowe, VT properties would be a good choice for families. I think Top Notch at Stowe is available - very nice. I think I also saw the Trappe Family Lodge (yes - the von Trappes from the Sound of Music) - also very nice. Niether of these is ski-in/ski-out.
Stowe is very close to Smugglers Notch which gets accolades every year for it kids programs and family friendly atmosphere. Stowe and Smugs are also way up north in Vermont so you have a decent shot at good snow coverage. Also, Stowe is the picture perfect post card New England ski town.
If you can find Ski or Skiing magazine issues in the library or elsewhere, back in the fall they all evaluated their "Top" resorts in every category, including family resorts. If I recall correctly, Smugglers Notch may have been number 1 in the family resort category in some of these reviews. Go to
www.skimag.com and you can find resort info as well, including reader survey results rating the best resorts in all categories, including family.
I am from the east and love many of the Northeast resorts. However, from Florida you have to get on a plane, and IMO, if you have to fly you might as well fly out west. The scenery and size of the resorts blows the east away - and typically they will have more snow in early Jan.
Good luck with your decision. We hope to plan a ski trip out west in March 03

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