Singles who are for the "Love of Disney" - Part 3

[black562]

Ok, I just had to do it. Is this what you girls had in mind?

 

[Sha]

Ok, I just had to do it. Is this what you girls had in mind?

LMAO!!! too funny... does it come in gold?

 

[katydidbug1]

Ok, I just had to do it. Is this what you girls had in mind?

LMAO.....bad Joe

 

[CinRell]

LMAO!!! too funny... does it come in gold?

The pink inflamation at the tip concerns me.

Joe.. is this what you THINK pickles are supposed to look like?

 

[Sha]

The pink inflamation at the tip concerns me.

Joe.. is this what you THINK pickles are supposed to look like?

I think that is just lighting.. LOL

not going to say the other thought. Will save that for later! (you just may need to remind me)

 

[Ragnrok23]

I'm starting to notice a trend of the guys getting the engagement ring back, wonder where I went wrong in that process?

 

[black562]

Give a guy a break...it was the best I could do on short notice. You try searching for pickle jewelry and see how well you do. I was looking for a diamond-studded one but maybe later.

 

[black562]

I'm starting to notice a trend of the guys getting the engagement ring back, wonder where I went wrong in that process?

I never got it back from my wife, but I did from my fiance.

Just ask for it, that's the best method...usually when you're face to face and she's real mad, then she'll just rip it off and throw it at ya!!!

 

[Ragnrok23]

I never got it back from my wife, but I did from my fiance.

Just ask for it, that's the best method...usually when you're face to face and she's real mad, then she'll just rip it off and throw it at ya!!!

Oh- well it's my soon to be ex-wife so I guess that's not happening.

Just wish I had opted for a row of diamonds on my ring, she ended up getting two rows on her when I said I didn't wany any

 

[CinRell]

Tony the way I hear it, if it's the woman's fault the relationship ends (cheating etc) of her decision, the man gets the ring back.

If the man cheated or decided it was over... OR if he gave it as a gift as well as engagement (christmas, bday)... then she keeps it.

 

[Sha]

Give a guy a break...it was the best I could do on short notice. You try searching for pickle jewelry and see how well you do. I was looking for a diamond-studded one but maybe later.

LOL... no worries

 

[PirateMel]

2 carot, yikes...very expensive. Well when I was married I built a house for us, which we moved into a few days after the wedding. It was funny because the carpet man ran out and had to re-order...so for a week we didn't have carpet in a guest room or the living room. Watch out for those nail strips, ouch!!! Since the divorce, I don't have the house (sold), but I still have a nice engagement ring that I need to figure out what to do with, any ideas?

What size - you could do like the bacholar and see who it fits

(Sorry could not resist)

I still have my diamond - heart shaped.

 

[black562]

Tony the way I hear it, if it's the woman's fault the relationship ends (cheating etc) of her decision, the man gets the ring back.

If the man cheated or decided it was over... OR if he gave it as a gift as well as engagement (christmas, bday)... then she keeps it.

Well darn, I should've definitely got mine back from my ex-wife.

 

[black562]

Well lookie here...hmmm???

 

[Ilivetogo]

I have mine -- tucked away. Not sure what to do with it yet. (marquise shape) Hmmmm ... it could buy a pretty nice WDW vacation!

 

[Ragnrok23]

Tony the way I hear it, if it's the woman's fault the relationship ends (cheating etc) of her decision, the man gets the ring back.

If the man cheated or decided it was over... OR if he gave it as a gift as well as engagement (christmas, bday)... then she keeps it.

Well she ended it, but it wasn't really anyone's "fault" (neither one of us cheated or abused each other or anything- just didn't work out)

 

[PirateMel]

Well she ended it, but it wasn't really anyone's "fault" (neither one of us cheated or abused each other or anything- just didn't work out)

Just sucks no matter what.

 

[sand2270]

I have my wedding ring from my marriage. Decided I will give it to my daughter when she is old enough and she can decide what she wants to do with it.

On a side note...my ex-husband gave me lots of nice jewelry...basically to make up for treating me like crap..."sorry I am such a jerk here's a new necklace". I'll take a decent guy over a nice piece of jewelry everyday.

I will probably give all the jewelry he gave me to my daughter at some point. The only thing I wear everyday is a ring he gave me with her birthstone.

 

[MOREMICKEYFORME]

I agree with Cinrell...
If the ring purely for an engagement, then she gives the ring back if things don't work out.
BUT, if the ring is given as a gift (Xmas, Bday, Valentine's, etc) then she should get to keep it.
Personally, I wouldn't want a ring as a GIFT, I would want it as an engagement (its own special occassion) and not on a holiday. I wouldn't want the guy to feel like, "well, it's your bday so I had to get you something...here you go-wanna get married?"

 

[CinRell]

I agree with Cinrell...
If the ring purely for an engagement, then she gives the ring back if things don't work out.
BUT, if the ring is given as a gift (Xmas, Bday, Valentine's, etc) then she should get to keep it.
Personally, I wouldn't want a ring as a GIFT, I would want it as an engagement (its own special occassion) and not on a holiday. I wouldn't want the guy to feel like, "well, it's your bday so I had to get you something...here you go-wanna get married?"

I am SO with you on that. My ex fiance did it BEFORE Christmas.... which worked (well, didn't work...) but if it had been my Xmas gift I"d have been disappointed at the un-originality of it.

THe whole proposal was a big mess tho so I should've known......



On another note I"ve never dated anybody really into giving jewelry.. flowers yes (which die in 3 days and I still don't quite get the point).. but not jewelry...

My ex boyfriend got me a necklace last Xmas that he was oh so proud of and kept hinting at something sooo special he gave me and presented it to me with such flourish...

It is the most hideous thing I"ve ever seen and I wore it ONCE to make him happy. I pretended to like it but seriously. Are you KIDDING me????