Madonna, how are the other friends getting in without you there? Is the squatter letting them in, maybe you should have a talk and let the squatter know you do not appreciate it,
Well, sorta. My squatter friend was home and was getting ready for work. So, this mutual friend comes over and when squatter left, friend said, I'll just wait for Maria to get home. Squatter told the friend to call me and make sure it was alright, but the friend never did. She figured "I'd be ok with it" She now knows better.
The incident last night, the person (different from above) knew I was home, and took it upon themselves to just invite themselves over. After I told her "no way" she then tried to tell me that my squatter said it was ok for her to sit in the car. I called the squatter and the squatter said, "I told her no". So, this person just continued to invite themselves into situations they weren't welcome, ie. sitting on my porch. She is medically frail right now and found herself a ride out to my squatters storage. She uses a walker and has serious health complications. She got dropped off at the Circle K across the street from storage (whomever dropped her off should be shot) and then gimped her way over to the storage unit. Because of her medical issues, I don't want her anywhere near my house when I'm sick. I told her that I didn't appreciate her inviting herself over, she was too sick to be sitting on my porch, and I was too sick for her to come inside. She continued this quest.
Now, as decent people, we can't leave someone in frail health outside, in the heat, with no liquids or A/C. So, she basically obligated us to make sure she had a safe place to go. Then, she wants to be upset because she "feels like a burden". I told her she made herself a burden tonight by going by the seat of her pants and just showing up places. I had the squatter force this girl to start calling people to pick her up and take her home where she belongs. Either that or I was calling cops/medics to take her to the hospital. She doesn't want to go back to the hospital so she started making phone calls. In the end, my squatter gave her a ride to
walmart to wait for a ride to take her to her fathers house.
The whole situation was completely ridiculous and immature. I know she's sick and having a hard time, but this was absent minded and careless. In the end, she apologized and we agreed to move past it.