How about a question back - what are YOU looking for? V&As is very nice, but very expensive and very frou frou. I love Flying Fish, but its primarily a fish place - not necessarily the menu for someone who doesn't like fish. I like Artists Point, but the menu can be kind of gamey. Our experience at California Grill had EXCELLENT food and excellent service. I'm not fond of Jiko - we had a bad waiter and I ordered poorly and didn't like what I ordered, plus its out of the way - but my husband loves it. Shula's is nice - it isn't a Disney restaurant - but if you want a very good steak its the best place for a great steak. The only one I've been to that I'm not in a hurry to go back is Narcoosees - food just wasn't that good when we last went - which WAS years ago.
I would have to agree with a pp about Cali Grill, we weren't 100% impressed by the food. The sushi was good though. The only draw was the view. I would have to say that Narcoossees and Citricos are my fave signatures.
Bistro is incredible - we've done many but not all and that's my favorite. Never been to V&A though - I understand that's a real experience. For something different try Jikos -
We loved Citrico's, very nice. Enjoyed Narcoossee, but went for the lobster, so will probably not go back... Anxious to try Jiko. We have been to FF, BZ, AP, BD, and CG.