I just went back and reread all of the OP’s posts. She herself threw out the following topics as possible contributions to this situation:
Alcohol abuse
Mental health
Sleep disorders
Drug interactions (which she does not believe to be a concern)
Unhealthy behaviors and relationship dynamics
Stress
A lisp
She also wanted to know if people thought there was any hope for her marriage.
It is completely understandable that people would discuss, advise, and expand upon these points because
she literally asked people to do exactly that. Yet, you have taken the position that everyone should ignore all other aspects of her posts and simply tell her to get counseling.
Thanks for clarifying your family history. I’ll edit my previous post to accurately reflect the chain of events.
@Anonymous123, I give you and your husband credit for seeing there’s a problem and wanting to take steps to fix it. My personal opinion, though, is that the issues here are too big for the two of you to resolve with at-home Sunday afternoon therapy exercises and I really encourage you to work alongside a professional therapist for this. Sometimes you can’t see the forest for the tress, you know?