September 2007 POP'ers??? MoJiTooooOoOoOOooo!!!!

[wic0721]

Timmy what did the doc say are you okay???

Bonzi, glad to hear you and Kelliblue had a great time and sorry we missed each other down there but I was glad we got to talk to each other on the phone at least.

Glendamax I can't wait to start to read your TR. I am so glad we got to meet up with each other oh how did your dinner go that night???

Wic are you still snowed in cuz we are

Angwell how are you doing????

If I missed anyone please forgive me I am so busy at work I am trying to do a quicky post.

Hi Everyone!

Hey Pooh....want to come and help me dig out???? Between last Thursdays storm and Sunday's storm, we now have over 2' of snow...and we may get a little more tomorrow I think it's safe to say that we will definately have a white Christmas this year!

Has anyone heard from Ants yet? Hope everything went well at her Dr's appt!

Ang, what did you decide to get your husband for Christmas????

I start my wrapping tonight after Kellie goes to bed, fun...fun!

 

[janjandis]

Timmy what did the doc say are you okay???

Bonzi, glad to hear you and Kelliblue had a great time and sorry we missed each other down there but I was glad we got to talk to each other on the phone at least.

Glendamax I can't wait to start to read your TR. I am so glad we got to meet up with each other oh how did your dinner go that night???

Wic are you still snowed in cuz we are

Angwell how are you doing????

If I missed anyone please forgive me I am so busy at work I am trying to do a quicky post.

Nope, you didn't miss anyone (said in my saddest Eeyore voice).

 

[Poohbear67]

Nope, you didn't miss anyone (said in my saddest Eeyore voice).

I just love Eeyore!!!

 

[Poohbear67]

Hi Everyone!

Hey Pooh....want to come and help me dig out???? Between last Thursdays storm and Sunday's storm, we now have over 2' of snow...and we may get a little more tomorrow I think it's safe to say that we will definately have a white Christmas this year!

Has anyone heard from Ants yet? Hope everything went well at her Dr's appt!

Ang, what did you decide to get your husband for Christmas????

I start my wrapping tonight after Kellie goes to bed, fun...fun!

okay heres the plan I'll come up there and help you but oh wait I can't get out either guess it looks as if both of us will have to keep a shoveling on at least this is true we will have a white christmas this year

No haven't heard from her yet but I will try and text her later tonight after I go shopping for the shop (yes its that time for christmas dinner here).

I will be a cooking fool for the next couple of days and then all that clean up YUKES

Oh lets not forget all the wrapping I have to do in between this, can I say I just need another vacation already I wonder if Mickey and Cinderella is missing me yet

 

[ANTSS2001]

Timmy-happy to hear things are going well. Missed Nanc & Linda at the World. Dealing with ill children on vac was NOT in my plan. Kelli looks great.
Tia, did you get anything in the mail? Hey get this, waited all night to have our family pic taken in front of castle for our cards, welllllll I somehow have another families photopass. Don't know who they bloody are or how I got the card but might send em out anyway
Snow up to our ***, I hate winter

Bonzi...

Timmy what did the doc say are you okay???

Bonzi, glad to hear you and Kelliblue had a great time and sorry we missed each other down there but I was glad we got to talk to each other on the phone at least.







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sorry the drive yesterday got me feeling like a wet rag by the time I got home.. I casically slept from 8 last nite to noon today. Dr said Im healing great and no sign of cancer and my CA125 should be going down soon... but we still have to watch and do test every 6 months... I had a combination of Fibroid, endometriosis and ovarian cyst and all were taken care off. If I want to I can concieve in 12 months It was so funny... as mu dr was saying " Really Really!!! I can get you pregnant by December" and as one of his patient was passing by she cannot resist and show me her belly saying while pointing to her belly ... "Yes he did this to me" so yup thats what I basically did today was sleep. Sorry to keep you guys hanging

Hi Everyone!



Has anyone heard from Ants yet? Hope everything went well at her Dr's appt!



fun...fun!

 

[Poohbear67]

Hip Hip Hooray for Timmy Way to go gal!!!!!!!

Okay than lets start planning So did the doc say when you would be able to start doing "normal things" again??

I do have to ask one thing though what is this about a divorce with your family or am I just missing out on the joke like normal

 

[Glendamax]

I do have to ask one thing though what is this about a divorce with your family or am I just missing out on the joke like normal

Glad you asked! I was about to ask the same thing.

When you get a chance, come on over to my report, there's someone you know in the latest installment . . .

 

[Poohbear67]

Okay now with that big mouth of mine you could see the Grand Canyon It was so nice to meet up with you and spend sometime with you Glenda can't wait to do it again and oh just to let you know the friend you are referring to is my DBF

I can't wait to read lots more and with pictures.


OOPS sorry guys I thought I was posting this on Glendamax's TR board and now I don't know how to move it.

 

[Glendamax]

OOPS sorry guys I thought I was posting this on Glendamax's TR board and now I don't know how to move it.

I've done this before also! Good thing the people on here arent petty like on other boards!

 

[ANTSS2001]

Hip Hip Hooray for Timmy Way to go gal!!!!!!!

Okay than lets start planning So did the doc say when you would be able to start doing "normal things" again??

I do have to ask one thing though what is this about a divorce with your family or am I just missing out on the joke like normal

Glad you asked! I was about to ask the same thing.

When you get a chance, come on over to my report, there's someone you know in the latest installment . . .

ok... the gist of the story was... when I found I was going for a procedure my support group at home crumbled. They were busy planning about their lives and had taken for granted what I was going through. I was not asking for much but just someone to hold my hand and tell me its going to be OK. I started a series of check up with me just going by myself. I started a series of meds and nobody even ask why am I taking them or what are they for. Upto the day of surgery I have to reach out to neighbors and long lost friends to be taken to the hospital... I was wheeled out the operating room calling for names of love ones and eventually witnessed it myself that they were so willing to let go of my hand because their cell phone rang... I was discharge and took the limo home. And by the time I got home I was reminded that all the stuff I had done for them was on my own free will and they should not be obligated to help me, nobody put a gun in my head when I acted on helping them so I was told. I was not asking for obligation I was looking for the family I had love. And so at that point I am washing my hands off. One thing I know is I can survive without them. I may not be able to choose who family were but I am glad I can choose my friends. Most of the one who helped me for the past 4 weeks were neighbors I did not even have spoken to since I moved here in '99. So there you go! The reason why we had to end our relationship. The Love is gone...

 

[Glendamax]

So there you go! The reason why we had to end our relationship. The Love is gone...

Thanks for posting! I don't think this will be permanent. Give them some time to see things through your eyes. Then hopefully they will come around. Till then . . .

 

[janjandis]

Oh Timmy, so sorry to hear about all that!! I think that after you're missing from their lives for a while they will realize that they have been taking you for granted and want you to come back. If they don't then you're better off without people that treat you like that. You still have your Dis family here!

 

[bonzarella]

ANTTS- when & if you want to talk call(you have my cell) or email. You have been in my thoughts & prayers.
Bon

 

[SlightlyGoofy]

Timmie, from the little bit of time we spent together I could see what kind of gal you are. You go over and beyond for everyone. It is your nature and a wonderful one at that. I have found that my friends and even complete strangers treat me better than my own family, that I have spoiled to death. I am much older than you and have come to the conclusion that folks do not notice the things they take for granted and since you have always been there for them they do not notice you so much and in doing all that you do for them because that is what you would want for yourself you are going to be disappointed because few folks are that thoughtful.

Oh yes, the old, you did it of your own accord so we do not owe you any thanks thing. Heard it many a time myself. (sigh) I have noticed that when I go to Florida, especially for extended times, and am not here to do all the picking up, dropping off, babysitting, etc. etc. I get more phone calls from family than I do when I am right up the street and available.

Maybe a change of attitude is needed. Do for folks what you have the time, energy and willingess to do AFTER you have taken cre of YOURSELF first. Respect yourself and you might find that your family will follow suit.

Might I suggest that you do not cut off contact with your family but simply limit it? I refuse to lower myself down the level of others as it just reinforces their bad behavior but I do limit how much time and effort I expend on some. I love all my siblings dearly but am not so sure I would have any contact with them if it were not for the fact that we came from the same womb. Love is a gift and thankfully folks do not need to do anything to deserve it. Otherwise this would be a very sad world.

I am glad that you had friends and neighbors to support you. Women are expected to deal with everything and do not get as much TLC as we give to the weaker male gender.

Kelliblue, Pooh and Bonz. I was so disappointed not to have gotten to meet up with any of you. I had even brought goodie bags for you this trip. I was so embarrassed last time. Some day??? I did meet several other DISers but not nearly as many as in September. The roads were great going down and back. I am grateful but also totally worn out. I was too tired to talk to a grandchild the other night and he is still in shock. He is used to being able to call at midnight or later and having someone to talk to. I love those calls too but my brain was not cooperating.

Baking pumpkin pies today and quiches tomorrow. Not one person likes the same food so I have to make several different dishes. The leftovers will go to bil's on Christmas Day so that I can continue my downward spiral. I gained 10 pounds in a bit over two days after leaving home but have gotten it all back off but one pound now. Steriods and the darned things did not even work this time.

Merry Christmas your rambling friend, SG/Linda

 

[angwill]

Hello everyone, I wrote a long message to everyone here and it never got posted for whatever reason. Anyway, I just want to say hello and let you know everyone is still in my thoughts during this too busy time. I hope everyone's holiday's are wonderful and the stress is low. WB, SG

Ants, If you need to talk I am here. I feel your pain and know that you are not alone in how you are feeling. The most important thing that I am so happy to hear is that you are going to be ok after the surgery. That is so awsome.

Angela

 

[SlightlyGoofy]

Ang, I believe that there is a depository of lost posts floating somewhere in cyberspace just waiting to drop down and crush us all one fine day.

I thought of you often during this trip. I do believe that Tom was out to prove your diagnosis. Imagine my shock when he attempted to push a woman off the bench she was on so he could take over and when I stood up for her she said "The A Word"!! She wished me well after the parade was over and gave me to understand that she understood I had a tough job on my hands. It is was a bit of comfort on a long and harrowing trip. More pain than pleasure this trip. I needed better meds, for me!!!

Have you wrapped the food and cooked the presents? I think I did.

SG/Linda

 

[Poohbear67]

Good Day everyone and Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays to you all!!!!

Sorry that I haven't been on in a while but long story short I had another really bad mirgraine headache again this one was so bad I didn't get out of bed for over 2days was off work thursday afternoon til Saturday not a good couple of days for me but better now!

S/G I tried to call your cell phone but it kept going to VM and it kept telling me that it (vm) wasn't set up yet so I couldn't leave a message and yes i called it a lot trying to get you. Sorry that we didn't meet up I was so wanting to see you again.

Wic,Ang,Timmy I hope you have a very merry Christmas!!!!

Timmy again if you need anything please feel free to call me anytime gal!!!

 

[angwill]

SG, I was worried about you when Pooh said you didn't answer your phone but then I remembered your hearing difficulty. I am so sad to hear that you weren't feeling well and on top of that DH was acting like a butthead. At least driving was good. I am sure it had to be better to feel sick at WDW than it would have at home.

I would swear pushing people is the norm nowadays. I went to DS christmas program the other day and sat on the end of a row of bleacher seats so I could record DS singing. Well another mom and dad came up and sat right on the exit steps and kept trying to push me over even though there was nowhere for me to move since the row was full. There were plenty of empty seats so I don't know what their problem was. No exuse me could you move in just shoving. I ignored the shoving and planted my feet so I didn't move. Well they called one of their kids up to where they were and pointed to my lap for her to sit on and sit on it she did. I just looked at her and asked her to sit on her own mom's lap which she did. Some people are just rude with a capital R. Oh yeah, the entire recording I did of the singing program was filled with them talking in spanish drowning out all the singing. Oh well there is always next year and I will avoid that side of the bleachers next time. Now 20 years ago I would have handled that situation way differently.

You don't have to have a diagnosis to be rude. lol Honestly, I am not a doctor so I really didn't mean to diagnose your DH. He just sounded a lot like other people I have worked with that had that diangnosis. That's why I found that group for you so you could compare notes and get some good advice from others who have been there and done that.

Now back to my cooking, baking, and thank goodness the wrapping is done.

Angela

 

[angwill]

Pooh, Just saw your post after posting to SG. Ouch, on the migrane those things are killer and I can not imagine one lasting 2 days. I sincerely hope you feel better and don't have anything go wrong over the holidays. Sending pixie dust your way.

 

[Poohbear67]

Pooh, Just saw your post after posting to SG. Ouch, on the migrane those things are killer and I can not imagine one lasting 2 days. I sincerely hope you feel better and don't have anything go wrong over the holidays. Sending pixie dust your way.

Thanks sweetie, they really stink but yes feeling much better today but poor Luca(our greyhound) is sick with an infection and he is sleeping away the days lately but today he started to show that he is feeling better YEAH the vet put him on antibotics (sp) for a week but we will see.