Hi JetSkiGirl - I think we'll have to condition Alex to the fact Lilo and Stitch are like police and provide shipboard security from baddies. Otherwise I'm not having a terrified child hiding every time he sees them... that'd be painful to say the least.
Gail - I've not looked at SD excursions, didn't realise they were out. Good thing you are keeping your eye on things or I'd be dithering around.

I dunno if we'd do an excursion at all as we have 7 nights in Carlsbad travelling back and forth to SD in between
Legoland etc etc. We wouldn't do the wine excursion as we've got the kids with us (plus I don't drink, we live in the middle of a several wine producing areas, DH is making 23 litres of blackberry wine at the moment and I've picking gorseflowers this week for gorseflower wine). Maybe the Zoo if we don't get it done beforehand but I thought we could just have a very quiet family day together to relax as it'll be a full on three weeks away and it'll be the end of the holiday. Would be quite nice to have a day onboard in port.
Congrats to your son for graduating with honours. It must be a fabulous moment watching your child pass such a pivotal milestone. Sort of a 'I did a good job as your mum and now you are on your way in your own life' moment.
I'm also interested in the Fish Extender, but we are VGT so I'll have to bring some cards with our cabin number stamped on them to put in with our FE gifts for other people so people know our cabin number if we don't get it until the last minute. Actually, my kids are
really interested in the Fish Extender, so it's mainly for them.
The next couple of weeks could be a time of big change for our family. Things are changing at my husband's work, maybe to his advantage but meaning changes to the household. Everyone is a bit wired at home, the kids can sense change in the wind.