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M2E,
So sorry to hear about your BFF and what is happening with her. Divorce can bring out the worst in people. A family member long ago pulled a gun on the councilor his wife was going to because she asked him for a divorce. He was an abusive alcoholic but didn't seem to think his behavior could be a good enough reason for divorce I guess. The councilor retired after that and he was young too. I am glad to hear that you were able to help your neighbor it stinks when you have no family nearby and is comforting when someone like you is there during a hard time.

Skinner,
Congratulations, on your July trip. I laughed imagining you saying yeah do you have any rooms available at the Pop tart hotel. lol

Antss,
It seems all you do is work. Work hard and play hard you are the perfect example of that saying.

Ang
 
Mom2Evie, sorry to hear about your BFF. That is just terrible.

I also wanted to say thanks for helping out your neighbor. As a military wife I know how it is to be without family when an emergency comes up. I'm glad her and the baby are fine.
We try to help her as often as we can. We're responsible for pulling her trash cans to and from the road, hubby changes her outdoor lightbulbs or checks her plumbing issues, we carry in groceries, etc. The things we do are small, but I know they make her life just a little bit easier.

Mom2Evie,
All I can say is that your BFF and neighbor are lucky to have you in their lives :hug:
I sometimes think my life is boring but if thats what exciting is I'll keep my boring life! ::yes::
Trust me, I'm just as lucky to have them. Each of my friends adds something essential to my life.

There is too much drama on my nice little working class street. The most real excitement I get is when the cops get called on one of them. Yes, I've called the cops before. The girl that lives between my preggo neighbor is a total loser. She's forever fighting with whatever man is in her life. Her baby-daddy came to live there after getting out of jail. More than once the fugitive warrant squad has stopped by our house looking for this class act guy. Turns out, he was beating her. I called the cops one night when she was out in the front yard screaming for help.
I'd love to have a neighborhood with zero drama!

I'm here!!!!

M2E,
So sorry to hear about your BFF and what is happening with her. Divorce can bring out the worst in people. A family member long ago pulled a gun on the councilor his wife was going to because she asked him for a divorce. He was an abusive alcoholic but didn't seem to think his behavior could be a good enough reason for divorce I guess. The councilor retired after that and he was young too. I am glad to hear that you were able to help your neighbor it stinks when you have no family nearby and is comforting when someone like you is there during a hard time.
Ang
This guys behaves that way & we're all afraid that he's going to snap one day. If (or when) he fnially does kill her, you won't see people on the news saying that they never saw this coming or he was such a quiet guy. They'll all say, yup we knew it was just a matter of time. He purchased a handgun last year & has sent her pics of it over the phone. They're selling their house to cover his $80,000+ credit card debt. Unfortunately, he keeps calling up the realtor and either screaming & cursing out his assistant or firing him in a 1am tirade voice mail. Of course, the realtor knows exactly what this guy is like, so he just lets it roll off his back.
 
So scary :scared:
Do they have any kids??? :worried:

yes, his daughter is my DD's best friend. It's why the had a Code Delta at our daughter's school. Just in case he headed there when the chase started.
We've even been to Disney at the same time (DDs were 4) and did part of our trips together. I have great pics of all the men standing with Jasmine at Akerhaus, smiling & bowing up like big men. It's amazing how different things are just 3 years later.
 

We try to help her as often as we can. We're responsible for pulling her trash cans to and from the road, hubby changes her outdoor lightbulbs or checks her plumbing issues, we carry in groceries, etc. The things we do are small, but I know they make her life just a little bit easier.


Trust me, I'm just as lucky to have them. Each of my friends adds something essential to my life.

There is too much drama on my nice little working class street. The most real excitement I get is when the cops get called on one of them. Yes, I've called the cops before. The girl that lives between my preggo neighbor is a total loser. She's forever fighting with whatever man is in her life. Her baby-daddy came to live there after getting out of jail. More than once the fugitive warrant squad has stopped by our house looking for this class act guy. Turns out, he was beating her. I called the cops one night when she was out in the front yard screaming for help.
I'd love to have a neighborhood with zero drama!


This guys behaves that way & we're all afraid that he's going to snap one day. If (or when) he fnially does kill her, you won't see people on the news saying that they never saw this coming or he was such a quiet guy. They'll all say, yup we knew it was just a matter of time. He purchased a handgun last year & has sent her pics of it over the phone. They're selling their house to cover his $80,000+ credit card debt. Unfortunately, he keeps calling up the realtor and either screaming & cursing out his assistant or firing him in a 1am tirade voice mail. Of course, the realtor knows exactly what this guy is like, so he just lets it roll off his back.

Sadly, it sounds like mental illness. Does he have good times where he sees everything as going great at times too or is he just angry all the time?

Ang
 
It does sound like mental illness. Most of the time these people won't accept help even when it is offered. Seems like you can't open a newspaper or a news website without seeing something about a family being hurt by another family member.

We haven't had any drama like that on our street, but half the street is still just lots, so not a full neighborhood yet. DH did tell me that while I was at WDW with my parents one night some kids decided to use one of the vacant foreclosed homes as a party house and the cops raided them. One of them ran into the conservation lot behind our house and they even had the helicopter out looking for him. As much as I complain about my dogs, I love my Boxer. She is loud and barks at everything!

Mom2Evie hope your friend and her daughter are ok.
 
Sadly, it sounds like mental illness. Does he have good times where he sees everything as going great at times too or is he just angry all the time?

Ang

It does sound like mental illness. Most of the time these people won't accept help even when it is offered. Seems like you can't open a newspaper or a news website without seeing something about a family being hurt by another family member.

Yes, there are times when he's on top of the world and a totally fun guy to be around. I have no doubt that it's mental illness. I've suspected he was bi-polar (manic depressive) for well over a year now. Turns out he's been this way for many, many years. He was just better at hiding the depressive part. Add to that mix drinking excessively and drug use and you get a really volatile mix!


That's all? just a little wave? I feel like I'm the victim of a drive by posting (albeit a happy one)!!!
 
That's all? just a little wave? I feel like I'm the victim of a drive by posting (albeit a happy one)!!!


Hi Rie... just feeling a lil bit of Dopey right now... just working.. I have been reading everybody's post though... but I dont have any life experience to share other than I am sorry things are not always great in the World...:grouphug: and I wish that there really is a :wizard: to make things better....
 
If it counts I saw someone today who reminded me of you (Timmy) it brought a smile to my face. Its been a rough week. ( I lost my debit card - luckily no one has used it )
 
If it counts I saw someone today who reminded me of you (Timmy) it brought a smile to my face. Its been a rough week. ( I lost my debit card - luckily no one has used it )

:hug: thank God it gave you a smile rather than the "I have to run away" feeling !!! Hopefully we get to do lunch or something in April... June... July.. or Sept.. or October or.. maybe Dec..

How's DH ??? did you he find me a job yet??? :hug: :rolleyes1
 
M2E,
Bi-polar was what I was wondering too. Sadly, without help most end up doing drugs and drinking and don't even realize they are trying to self medicate to make themselves feel normal. This is the time of year that a lot of bi-polar people go into manic episodes too. Heck lots of people get sad this time of year so it is no wonder it would push someone with depression over the edge.

I wonder if his wife should talk to a psych ward psychologist to see if she can have him committed as a threat to himself and others. If he doesn't get help as you said he is like a ticking time bomb ready to explode.

I am so sorry to hear of these problems and please keep your daughter safe.

Feel free to vent away if you need to. I know I would be scared and angry to be in your place too.

Ang
 
If it counts I saw someone today who reminded me of you (Timmy) it brought a smile to my face. Its been a rough week. ( I lost my debit card - luckily no one has used it )

Glad no one had used it. I've done it myself a couple of times.:rolleyes1 DH's number keeps getting stolen. We have had to cancel his debit and credit card twice in the last two months. He had his identity stolen about 10 years ago so we keep track of our accounts.

I would like some parent opinions. I am so frustrated with the school and the teachers right now. Someone had mentioned last week that it would be best for Jacob to have a homework folder to bring home for me to keep track of all his homework, correspondence with the school etc. Well, he does, the problem is, he keeps forgetting to bring it home. I will normally email his teachers and get the assignments and they have been wonderful in letting him turn in his work late. Last nine weeks he failed basically everything (this is his first year in Florida schools, he had almost all A's and B's in Texas). I learned in English that the problem were some book projects he was to be doing in class. I now have all the info at home, so this nine weeks we got them done. So, yesterday I emailed his teacher to find out what dates they were due, so I could keep track of them, and also find out what his homework for the week was because Jacob kept telling me he hadn't noticed any vocabulary words on the board, which they started these a couple of weeks before Christmas break. The teacher emails me back that she had put it in Jacob's lunchbox on Monday. I didn't even realize it was in my truck, so I hadn't looked at it. So, I find his homework and we got it all done yesterday. But, turns out she changed the book project format and had placed a new form in with this homework on Monday and the first one was due on June 6th, the next one due the 20th. We were able to get one of those completed and I found out what books he could read for the next one because he isn't bringing home a library book either.

Last night he finally remembered to bring home the spiral notebook that he is to write down all of his homework in for the night. By "Science" he has written diorama. Is he supposed to make one in one night? I asked Jacob and he says he doesn't know what it is. So I emailed the science teacher and she emailed all the information stating it went home last week. Well, it didn't go home with him. So, I am getting ready to request the teachers email me a homework schedule each week.

I didn't have these problems in Texas. We would be notified of changes in the homework schedule, like when they started doing vocabulary words. Of course, they may be doing that and I just am not getting it. Oh, last week I get a progress report for Math and Science dated Dec 19th. Dec 19th was the last day of the grading period, why send it home. They don't send out mid-9 week reports, or I haven't received one. Texas, you got basically a report card every three weeks, at three weeks it was a progress report and at six weeks the report card. Also, this progress report only had a couple of math grades and nothing listed on the science. So I emailed the teacher and asked if he just didn't do the work and if the blanks were actually "0". Her response was she entering the grades at that moment, and believed he was passing. So, she was entering the grades to be turned in for report cards that we get tomorrow. How can you send home a progress report without all of the grades entered?:confused3

Ok, one more vent, so report cards go out tomorrow. So today they have an awards assembly. So basically you learn if your child has all A's and B's before the report comes out and who didn't. I don't understand doing this before report cards come out. They do make sure all students get something, Jacob got his perfect attendence. Which he won't get this nine weeks, so I am wondering what they will give him then.

So, now I thinking home schooling would be great for him, but I mentioned it to his pschiatrist last night and his concern is Jacob losing the social interaction he gets at school. Which, this has been my concern with home schooling. I have heard of some communities where home schoolers get together so I plan on researching that now. Oh, the psychiatrist did say the schools in Florida are horrible. The therapist that evaluated Jacob for occupation therapy made the same comment. I a lot of my frustration at homework time is like the diorama project. I don't get the information, he says he doesn't know what to do and I am stressing about him getting his work done, which I know nothing about.

I just wondered what someone outside my home would think. He has an IEP, but it is basically a temporary one since we moved from Texas. I spoke with one of the counselors today and she said it comes up in April and she was doing evaluations with him this past week.

I apologize for this being so long and any responses would be appreciative, even if you rip me a new one!
 
I am sooo far behind on this thread. Just read all the posts and my mind is a jumble.

Even though the diagnosis might be the same for a child each one is unique and sometimes it takes time to figure out what will work with that particular individual. I do not pretend that I have figured it out with every child that crosses my path though. Most parents know their children far better than teachers will ever be able to do and when you find a teacher that knows themselves well enough to know that they favor one gender over another and such and works with such knowledge it is a wonderful thing. I try to find out what interests a child and what they do not like, either one will work. :rotfl: My daughter was greatly ashamed of me so I just went to school and sat with her when she could not remember to bring her homework home. Worked well and I only had to go once.:lmao: My son would have enjoyed my company so I had to find other things to do with him. He was one of those kids who could get good grades without studying and he seldom did. :sad2: I seem to be able to work better with children that do not have my DNA.

Those children are blessings to ME. There is not one person on this thread, or for that matter most of the DIS, that does not do for others and make life better in some way so I do not deserve the kudos. It is why we are put here. There are those in my life who give to me far more than I can give to them so I pass it on as others do and it makes for a better community.

Having had trauma in my younger life I appreciate living in a neighborhood where it is quiet and safe and wish that all could.

Bonz, emailed me this morning and it encouraged me to call Disney. We are now booked into Sports from Nov 29th-December 6th. Only a week but I am hoping that they will expand the discount dates or come up with a better deal where I can add more days later. Anyone remember the dates they offered Free Dining this past Holiday season?

About to leave for town to take dh bowling, shop for a new TV and then back home to get ready for an award dinner for the CC volunteers this evening. Comcast comes to hook me up to new services tomorrow so my email will be changing. I will notify everyone of the change this weekend.

Sorry for not replying individually, SG
 
I'm way behind too. My heart just aches as I read - sometimes do not know what to say...but I do hold every concern very near in heart and prayer.
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Thank goodness we have this thread where we can vent and know friends are listening with a tender heart. Because many of you have met there is a warm bond. I feel each of you is very special - why you just walked right into my heart and I very much look forward to meeting in Disney one day.
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...a little extra Pixie Dust seems in order today:
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Glad no one had used it. I've done it myself a couple of times.:rolleyes1 DH's number keeps getting stolen. We have had to cancel his debit and credit card twice in the last two months. He had his identity stolen about 10 years ago so we keep track of our accounts.

I would like some parent opinions. I am so frustrated with the school and the teachers right now. Someone had mentioned last week that it would be best for Jacob to have a homework folder to bring home for me to keep track of all his homework, correspondence with the school etc. Well, he does, the problem is, he keeps forgetting to bring it home. I will normally email his teachers and get the assignments and they have been wonderful in letting him turn in his work late. Last nine weeks he failed basically everything (this is his first year in Florida schools, he had almost all A's and B's in Texas). I learned in English that the problem were some book projects he was to be doing in class. I now have all the info at home, so this nine weeks we got them done. So, yesterday I emailed his teacher to find out what dates they were due, so I could keep track of them, and also find out what his homework for the week was because Jacob kept telling me he hadn't noticed any vocabulary words on the board, which they started these a couple of weeks before Christmas break. The teacher emails me back that she had put it in Jacob's lunchbox on Monday. I didn't even realize it was in my truck, so I hadn't looked at it. So, I find his homework and we got it all done yesterday. But, turns out she changed the book project format and had placed a new form in with this homework on Monday and the first one was due on June 6th, the next one due the 20th. We were able to get one of those completed and I found out what books he could read for the next one because he isn't bringing home a library book either.

Last night he finally remembered to bring home the spiral notebook that he is to write down all of his homework in for the night. By "Science" he has written diorama. Is he supposed to make one in one night? I asked Jacob and he says he doesn't know what it is. So I emailed the science teacher and she emailed all the information stating it went home last week. Well, it didn't go home with him. So, I am getting ready to request the teachers email me a homework schedule each week.

I didn't have these problems in Texas. We would be notified of changes in the homework schedule, like when they started doing vocabulary words. Of course, they may be doing that and I just am not getting it. Oh, last week I get a progress report for Math and Science dated Dec 19th. Dec 19th was the last day of the grading period, why send it home. They don't send out mid-9 week reports, or I haven't received one. Texas, you got basically a report card every three weeks, at three weeks it was a progress report and at six weeks the report card. Also, this progress report only had a couple of math grades and nothing listed on the science. So I emailed the teacher and asked if he just didn't do the work and if the blanks were actually "0". Her response was she entering the grades at that moment, and believed he was passing. So, she was entering the grades to be turned in for report cards that we get tomorrow. How can you send home a progress report without all of the grades entered?:confused3

Ok, one more vent, so report cards go out tomorrow. So today they have an awards assembly. So basically you learn if your child has all A's and B's before the report comes out and who didn't. I don't understand doing this before report cards come out. They do make sure all students get something, Jacob got his perfect attendence. Which he won't get this nine weeks, so I am wondering what they will give him then.

So, now I thinking home schooling would be great for him, but I mentioned it to his pschiatrist last night and his concern is Jacob losing the social interaction he gets at school. Which, this has been my concern with home schooling. I have heard of some communities where home schoolers get together so I plan on researching that now. Oh, the psychiatrist did say the schools in Florida are horrible. The therapist that evaluated Jacob for occupation therapy made the same comment. I a lot of my frustration at homework time is like the diorama project. I don't get the information, he says he doesn't know what to do and I am stressing about him getting his work done, which I know nothing about.

I just wondered what someone outside my home would think. He has an IEP, but it is basically a temporary one since we moved from Texas. I spoke with one of the counselors today and she said it comes up in April and she was doing evaluations with him this past week.

I apologize for this being so long and any responses would be appreciative, even if you rip me a new one!

I will start by saying welcome to my world. Seriously, exactly what you describe sums up a lot of our issues with our district and sadly an IEP is only as good as the teacher who teaches. In our district I honestly do not think the teachers bother reading them even though I send copies to all his teachers the first week of school.

To spare everyone on the list I will pm you my suggestions. Basically, talk to the school special needs coordinator and ask that they set it up so that your son has someone to go to after school who checks that he is organized has all the stuff he needs and all is written in his homework spiral correctly and signs it every day. Also ask that you be given copies of all instuctions with due dates in his homework folder daily.

HTH,
Angela
 
I am sooo far behind on this thread. Just read all the posts and my mind is a jumble.

Even though the diagnosis might be the same for a child each one is unique and sometimes it takes time to figure out what will work with that particular individual. I do not pretend that I have figured it out with every child that crosses my path though. Most parents know their children far better than teachers will ever be able to do and when you find a teacher that knows themselves well enough to know that they favor one gender over another and such and works with such knowledge it is a wonderful thing. I try to find out what interests a child and what they do not like, either one will work. :rotfl: My daughter was greatly ashamed of me so I just went to school and sat with her when she could not remember to bring her homework home. Worked well and I only had to go once.:lmao: My son would have enjoyed my company so I had to find other things to do with him. He was one of those kids who could get good grades without studying and he seldom did. :sad2: I seem to be able to work better with children that do not have my DNA.

Those children are blessings to ME. There is not one person on this thread, or for that matter most of the DIS, that does not do for others and make life better in some way so I do not deserve the kudos. It is why we are put here. There are those in my life who give to me far more than I can give to them so I pass it on as others do and it makes for a better community.

Having had trauma in my younger life I appreciate living in a neighborhood where it is quiet and safe and wish that all could.

Bonz, emailed me this morning and it encouraged me to call Disney. We are now booked into Sports from Nov 29th-December 6th. Only a week but I am hoping that they will expand the discount dates or come up with a better deal where I can add more days later. Anyone remember the dates they offered Free Dining this past Holiday season?

About to leave for town to take dh bowling, shop for a new TV and then back home to get ready for an award dinner for the CC volunteers this evening. Comcast comes to hook me up to new services tomorrow so my email will be changing. I will notify everyone of the change this weekend.

Sorry for not replying individually, SG


SG,
All I can say is that there are lots of people who do a lot less than you too. I am sure you agree though that when we help others we get more from it than the person we help.

No drama in my neighborhood since there is only one other house near us. :rotfl:

I thought you already bought a new TV? Happy shopping too bad you didn't get to take advantage of the Black Friday deals they had on TV's since some were really good.

Oh yeah, I just had to announce that it was -37 when I woke up without wind chill. Can you say Brrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!! :eek: We broke a record for the coldest day in history.

Cheryl,
Did you find your credit card yet?

Ang
 
SG, since you are TV shopping, I remember a lot of reports around Christmas that said February would be the best time to purchase a new TV. From what I understood it would be after the Superbowl that prices should be dropping. Hope you find a nice one.:goodvibes
Melissa
 
Ang, I was hunting for a TV but things kept breaking around here. First the washing machine died so it had to be replaced and the furnace needed repairing and the kind tech told me that the hot water was leaking and needed replacing so I keep waiting to replenish my money supply and everything keeps falling apart. There are many who do more also and what I do is so darned easy for me that it does not feel like I am doing anything special.

JM, exactly what I was thinking, that either at Super Bowl time or after I might find exactly what I am wanting. Having to go with skimpy 26 inch as that is all that will fit right now and that is fine as it will go to the bedroom when the prices on the bigger ones come down to a reasonable sum. I only listen anyway so size does not matter.:thumbsup2

M&N, we feel the same way about you also. :hug: I will respond to your email tomorrow, It is cold and I am tired. Want my brain in better operating order.

SG,who is not wanting to break any records
 
Where did everyone go?

I got some good news yesterday. Jacob got his report and even though it wasn't what I wanted to see, he did go up in every class. :cheer2:

Hope everyone has a fantastic weekend and those of you in the cold weather, please try to stay warm. I can't imagine.
Melissa
 















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