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Hey ladies, in regard to what went on over at CC. I am so saddened by it. I have been a member there for at least 2.5 years. Myself and one other member could get quite playful, and leave lots of "FLUFF" posts all over the boards. That was what made it so fun. I could be myself and have fun and goof off. Like I said for 2.5 years. Then over the weekend I got an email from a mod that said some other members had complained about the number of fluff posts between me and my buddy?
***? Can you imagine? Complaining about too many posts on an INTERNET BULLETIN BOARD????? Especially since me her and about 2 other posters were the most frequent posters around. It hurt my feelings very badly. That would be like if I told you all to only talk about things related to our cruise, after a year of talking about anything and everything under the sun. What hurt was the complainers couldnt contact me in private and say something, they right away complained to the mods....Anyways here is a copy of my last post over there, tell me what you think, and Ill let you know how this thing has played out. DO you think I was ugly and accusatory in this note??
Good evening fellow CCers. I wanted to take a moment of your time if I may. I have debated on whether or not to post this, but have decided that I will and let the chips fall where they may. I am very hurt by the request from some on this board, that do not want me posting "fluff". This really hurts my feelings, and quite frankly it shocks me. No one, ever took the time to approach me,whether via PM's or email in regards to the "fluff" posts, and the fact that they were bothered by them. I am a very playful person, and that comes thru in my posting style. I have stuck with this board thru many troubles, and a few board moves, because I felt like I FINALLY found a place where I can be me, and everyone was ok with that. I have not hidden anything from you all, and have been myself 100%. To be told, in as much words or less, to hush up, well that hurts. The few days a month, that I get on a fluff kick, seems, in my opinion to drive up board interaction, as well as posts from other members. I was always raised that any time you could interact with another human being in a polite manner, that was a positive thing. Isn't that the purpose of an internet bulletin board? To interact with people who share your common interests, and hopefully form friendships? I thought I had formed friendships, and was in the process of forming more, but no I feel I have been told to "shut up talking", and well, no friendship is worth being treated like that. I am sure I am rambling on now, so I will close. Those of you who complained about the fluff, I hope this was enough sustenance for you. Mods, I apologize if you have to delete this, at least I got my feelings out somewhere, instead of keeping them bottled up inside.

Good evening fellow CCers. I wanted to take a moment of your time if I may. I have debated on whether or not to post this, but have decided that I will and let the chips fall where they may. I am very hurt by the request from some on this board, that do not want me posting "fluff". This really hurts my feelings, and quite frankly it shocks me. No one, ever took the time to approach me,whether via PM's or email in regards to the "fluff" posts, and the fact that they were bothered by them. I am a very playful person, and that comes thru in my posting style. I have stuck with this board thru many troubles, and a few board moves, because I felt like I FINALLY found a place where I can be me, and everyone was ok with that. I have not hidden anything from you all, and have been myself 100%. To be told, in as much words or less, to hush up, well that hurts. The few days a month, that I get on a fluff kick, seems, in my opinion to drive up board interaction, as well as posts from other members. I was always raised that any time you could interact with another human being in a polite manner, that was a positive thing. Isn't that the purpose of an internet bulletin board? To interact with people who share your common interests, and hopefully form friendships? I thought I had formed friendships, and was in the process of forming more, but no I feel I have been told to "shut up talking", and well, no friendship is worth being treated like that. I am sure I am rambling on now, so I will close. Those of you who complained about the fluff, I hope this was enough sustenance for you. Mods, I apologize if you have to delete this, at least I got my feelings out somewhere, instead of keeping them bottled up inside.