Caitlin'sMommy said:
I have checked the list a million times to make sure nothing will stop me thru the checkpoints, but after the news segments a month or so ago about them "feeling" around every part of a woman's bra, I am petrified to go thru this. Any tips from anyone on this?
I fly often- at least seven or eight flights a year, and I've never been invasively touched by airport security. "Feeling around" shouldn't really happen, although if you are picked for a random screening or are wearing something that keeps setting off the metal detectors that can't be removed you may have security need to do a physical wanding and pat down.
I've gotten the random screening only once since 9/11 and they did a quick patdown and used the hand held wand. The female screener did not touch me rudely or in any areas that I would consider intimate, i.e., no hardcore bra inspection. The screener did quickly and very lightly tap the back of her hand on the bottom band in front and in back of my bra (through my sweater- did not touch me under clothing or request that I lift my shirt or anything like that) but it was fast and not gratuitous. She also lightly tapped a hand across my shoulders, that was it for the underwear inspection.
She wasn't digging her hand up in there or anything like that- her hand was nowhere near anywhere I consider too personal. I think she was quickly trying to determine that I was wearing a bra (which may have been what set off the wand) and if the bra had an underwire (it did) and she moved on. They also fully unpacked, searched, and repacked my carryon, but there were no problems.
If, by some chance this should happen to you, the airport should assign you a female security screener for this, and remove you to a semi-private area- that's what those screens you see in the security areas of most airports are meant for. Also, if they should need to touch you in the chest area, the screener is supposed to use the back of her hand only, not fingers or palm, so it shouldn't really be invasive at all. They will not touch you anywhere inappropriate, don't worry. If by some odd chance you are picked, just be polite and friendly, and do exactly what they ask you to, and they'll speed you on your way as fast as they possibly can.
If you're really nervous about it, wear a sports bra or non-underwire bra (although frankly, I wear underwire all the time and it's never been a problem for me), don't carry a bunch of stuff in your pockets and don't wear anything metal, but really, I've walked through a metal detector with a wristwatch on by accident more than once and at worst they asked me to take it off and step through again.
You really shouldn't worry about it too much. The odds of the random screening aren't that high, from what I can tell. I've taken quite a few flights since 9/11, and I live in the NYC Metro area and fly out of Newark and Kennedy airports where understandably, the security is quite strict. Relax and enjoy your trip!