Lives4Disney
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Hi, I have a 10 yr old 5th grade daughter that has low vision. She enjoys PE and has for years, but this year has had a decline in her vision and we have had to request that for certain activities (basketball & volleyball in particular)that she be excused. The PE teacher's solution is to have her read a book in the hallway. My DD is OK with that for those sports because she has been really hurt in the past several years by flying objects and kids bumping into her or she bumping them. She doesn't feel safe during these activities and is afraid.
Well, things have kind of come to a head now since we have asked for this. BTW, her report card of last week said WA (with accommodations, but is putting her in the hallway really an accommodation
) The PE teacher includes her in class games, but keeps her basically in a corner out of the way in an empty position. That's her solution which really hurts DD's feelings. She WANTS to be included if it's a safer game, but the PE teacher is thinking black and white and nothing in between. Even her classmates have pointed out to the PE teacher that **** has been in the same position for too long and the PE teacher says to everybody, "That's OK, **** is fine there". She comes home so sad and feels very left out and kind of humiliated.
Please don't flame me for whining. Maybe I just needed to vent to some people that may understand. It is tough getting used to living with her disability for everyone involved. As her vision declines we know she will be able to participate less and less, but it is hard to accept that there is nothing in between for the teacher to do for her other than exclude her.
Anybody else in this boat have any ideas?? The PE teacher is so creative and comes up with such fun, original games it is hard to believe she is this dull about any fun my DD can have in her class.
If you have any advice, that'd be great. My DD has an IEP and will be entering Jr. High next fall.....we have a Dr. that agrees to write a note to either limit her activities for next year or be excused from PE, but he also suggested she not be left out for everything as exercise is a good thing and we agree. Just looking for a compromise.
I wanted to add that the kids are having a quidditch (probably spelled wrong) in gym and the kids were willing to have my DD participate in a more active way, but the teacher nixed it. Two kids were actually "in charge" of team positions and the teacher had them change **** out of playing the fun position. Something just seems wrong with that.
Thanks for "listening" & maybe helping. I need to contact that PE teacher tomorrow and talk about this situation.
Lives4Disney
Well, things have kind of come to a head now since we have asked for this. BTW, her report card of last week said WA (with accommodations, but is putting her in the hallway really an accommodation

Please don't flame me for whining. Maybe I just needed to vent to some people that may understand. It is tough getting used to living with her disability for everyone involved. As her vision declines we know she will be able to participate less and less, but it is hard to accept that there is nothing in between for the teacher to do for her other than exclude her.

If you have any advice, that'd be great. My DD has an IEP and will be entering Jr. High next fall.....we have a Dr. that agrees to write a note to either limit her activities for next year or be excused from PE, but he also suggested she not be left out for everything as exercise is a good thing and we agree. Just looking for a compromise.
I wanted to add that the kids are having a quidditch (probably spelled wrong) in gym and the kids were willing to have my DD participate in a more active way, but the teacher nixed it. Two kids were actually "in charge" of team positions and the teacher had them change **** out of playing the fun position. Something just seems wrong with that.
Thanks for "listening" & maybe helping. I need to contact that PE teacher tomorrow and talk about this situation.
Lives4Disney
