School absence letter for cruise

Hi Denise -

I guess you started a hot topic here, huh? When we took Danielle out last time we went to Disney with you, we were honest about the things she would experience that she would not have at home. On the cruise, our kids will be able to experience different countries which they have never been to before as well as their cultures. Instead of reading about different places in textbooks, they will get to see it first hand. What is better than that? I do not think that is lying about making a cruise "educational."

Trying to stay on topic here...........see you soon !

Crissi
 
Hi Denise -

I guess you started a hot topic here, huh? When we took Danielle out last time we went to Disney with you, we were honest about the things she would experience that she would not have at home. On the cruise, our kids will be able to experience different countries which they have never been to before as well as their cultures. Instead of reading about different places in textbooks, they will get to see it first hand. What is better than that? I do not think that is lying about making a cruise "educational."

Trying to stay on topic here...........see you soon !

Crissi

Yes, but just about any trip could be considered "educational" if you put the right spin on it.

I think for a trip to truly be educational, it would need to be to places like Washington D.C., Boston, Philadelphia.

Yes, of course they will be exposed to cultures that they otherwise wouldn't. They will travel to "historical" places. And, I, of all people, know that some of life's best lessons are learned outside the classroom.

But, ask yourself what your purpose for the cruise or vacation is. If it is, as most people in your position, to have a nice family vacation, and it's the best time of year for you to go, just tell them that. And if they excuse it, they excuse it. And if not, don't try to come up with 100 justifications.
 
Yes, but just about any trip could be considered "educational" if you put the right spin on it.

I think for a trip to truly be educational, it would need to be to places like Washington D.C., Boston, Philadelphia.

Yes, of course they will be exposed to cultures that they otherwise wouldn't. They will travel to "historical" places. And, I, of all people, know that some of life's best lessons are learned outside the classroom.

But, ask yourself what your purpose for the cruise or vacation is. If it is, as most people in your position, to have a nice family vacation, and it's the best time of year for you to go, just tell them that. And if they excuse it, they excuse it. And if not, don't try to come up with 100 justifications.

I am going to be honest, it really doesnt matter if its excused or not, I decided to take my kids out, they will make up the work.. THE END! My district does state that they WILL be excused if its education, so lying isnt the right thing to do, and while it is for a nice family vacation, if we can make it education we will, I figure I can explain the aspects that I think are educational and was JUST LOOKING FOR SOME IDEAS, and hope for it to be excused, if that doesnt work, that's fine.

I will continue to take my kids out until it starts to affect their grades, as they get older it will be harder to make up the work.

I want to thank everyone who gave some great advice~
 
Wow. I guess I'd better check out our school's policy for kids missing school, but last year we just spoke with the teacher, wrote a note that we were going on a family trip and asked for my son's work and it was no problem.

I would like to offer one thought though...and hope that this is not too off topic. While I certainly believe in the importance of education (DH has a masters and I have a doctorate), sometimes I feel that we get so caught up in it that we almost forget that there are some things that are equally if not more important...like what kind of PEOPLE our children will become, what kind of life experiences they have, what kind of family life we have together. I think that our culture is so driven and "noisy" that people often don't know how to take time out. I guess what I'm trying to say is that sometimes I think a school education is not all that matters in life and taking our family on vacation and spending that time making memories is just as important, at least to me.

My DH is a dairy farmer. He works EVERY SINGLE DAY from 4:30 am til 7:00pm and sometimes longer. When we go on vacation--that's the only time that we get to BE with him. It's precious time for us and I will fight for it. We only have a limited number of years before our children are gone and out of the house. What do I want them to remember about these years? :hug:
 

Wow. I guess I'd better check out our school's policy for kids missing school, but last year we just spoke with the teacher, wrote a note that we were going on a family trip and asked for my son's work and it was no problem.

I would like to offer one thought though...and hope that this is not too off topic. While I certainly believe in the importance of education (DH has a masters and I have a doctorate), sometimes I feel that we get so caught up in it that we almost forget that there are some things that are equally if not more important...like what kind of PEOPLE our children will become, what kind of life experiences they have, what kind of family life we have together. I think that our culture is so driven and "noisy" that people often don't know how to take time out. I guess what I'm trying to say is that sometimes I think a school education is not all that matters in life and taking our family on vacation and spending that time making memories is just as important, at least to me.

My DH is a dairy farmer. He works EVERY SINGLE DAY from 4:30 am til 7:00pm and sometimes longer. When we go on vacation--that's the only time that we get to BE with him. It's precious time for us and I will fight for it. We only have a limited number of years before our children are gone and out of the house. What do I want them to remember about these years? :hug:

Well said! :goodvibes
 
I think we are confusing the word "justify" with the word "excuse." I don't really know our schools policy and frankly don't care. I have never taken my kids out of school for a vacation, but they do frequently (2-3 days, sometime partial days a year) miss for dance competitions. I have never told how that is "educational" even though it is and could, if ever asked.

However, we justify our taking our kids on vacation whether taking out of school or not every time...ie, where to go, how much money to spend, especially in a tightening economy, whose ideas to take into account and whose not, etc. But, by school standards, my understanding is that to be "excused" in some school systems, an absence has to be educational. That requires (IMHO) a list of ways it will be educational. If you assume that the principal/teacher will know how it's educational, they may not assume that you have thought through the educational aspects and may not present them to your child. I don't believe it is unreasonable for a parent, when asking for an absence to be excused, to explain that care will be taken to make the trip educaitonal. If it can be tied directly to class topics, all the better. For example, a trip to Boston, Washington, DC or Philadelphia might be more educational than a trip around the world, but only if the topic is US History not World History or World Economics. Last year, when we cruised on spring break, my son was studying the Mayan Ruins....wow, what a great opportunity for us to tie our trip to something he was studying.

In an aside, but hoping that this is still on topic as the topic was a letter that others are stating isn't a necessity and I am trying to make a case that it is....When my son was in 5th grade, a student in his class accompanied her college professor father on a tour of different countries. It had to do with his job, but I don't remember how. She was gone for a full month. :scared1: When they came back, she gave various reports to the class on her experiences, including a slide show of some of the countries they visited. What a great educational opportunity her trip gave not only to her, but to all of the students in the class!

Please think, when you take your kids on a trip, whether in the summer or during school year, how your children learn and grow from the trip. Take the opportunities as they present themselves to help your child learn about the world we live in and how to be a responsible, productive member of society. I hope your children are excused from school, are able to make up their work and bring back lots of experiences to share with their classmates, so that they, too, can share in the educational opportunities you afforded your child.

Some thoughts:

We bring back a newspaper and foreign currency from each port. Now that both kids are taking Spanish, they always get extra points for stuff from Mexican ports.

If there is something that ties to a recent lesson, we might pick up a post card, pamphlet or something to take in to show the teacher, possibly even share with the class.

If they meet people from different cultures, they are encouraged to ask for information regarding their culture. If they have a different alphabet (ie, Chinese and Arabic), and seem willing, we ask them to write something for us, often the kids' names.

Writing a report about the experiences or keeping a daily journal, helps not only with the historical/educational aspects of the trip, but it ties into writing as well. In this way, you are almost always able to tie in to English class. If your child's class does daily writing topics, maybe you can get those in advance.

You could have your child budget the entire trip to find out how much it costs and figure out some formula (ie, cost per day, cost per meal, compare it with a land vacation, compare with staying at home and eating out, etc.) that will tie it to math.

Social Studies seems to be a no brainer. But if your child is studying social groups (mine did that in 2nd grade, I think), then find out about how they work in the cities you are visiting. BTW, the ship has lots of social groups, find out how they work and tie it in, if you can.


While I haven't written the letter for you, I hope you can take some of my random offerings and put them in one of the letters you have already written.

Thanks for reading this far. HTH.:worship:
 
I am going to be honest, it really doesnt matter if its excused or not, I decided to take my kids out, they will make up the work.. THE END! My district does state that they WILL be excused if its education, so lying isnt the right thing to do, and while it is for a nice family vacation, if we can make it education we will, I figure I can explain the aspects that I think are educational and was JUST LOOKING FOR SOME IDEAS, and hope for it to be excused, if that doesnt work, that's fine.

I will continue to take my kids out until it starts to affect their grades, as they get older it will be harder to make up the work.

I want to thank everyone who gave some great advice~

:thumbsup2

It's going to be an educational trip, you children will be meeting people from ALL over the country and even the world and they are getting to travel to not one but two foreign countries. To me, that is educational in itself.
 
Wow. I guess I'd better check out our school's policy for kids missing school, but last year we just spoke with the teacher, wrote a note that we were going on a family trip and asked for my son's work and it was no problem.

I would like to offer one thought though...and hope that this is not too off topic. While I certainly believe in the importance of education (DH has a masters and I have a doctorate), sometimes I feel that we get so caught up in it that we almost forget that there are some things that are equally if not more important...like what kind of PEOPLE our children will become, what kind of life experiences they have, what kind of family life we have together. I think that our culture is so driven and "noisy" that people often don't know how to take time out. I guess what I'm trying to say is that sometimes I think a school education is not all that matters in life and taking our family on vacation and spending that time making memories is just as important, at least to me.

My DH is a dairy farmer. He works EVERY SINGLE DAY from 4:30 am til 7:00pm and sometimes longer. When we go on vacation--that's the only time that we get to BE with him. It's precious time for us and I will fight for it. We only have a limited number of years before our children are gone and out of the house. What do I want them to remember about these years? :hug:

I could not have said it better!!! I agree 100%!!
 
I will admit to stressing about this myself. My older son just started 6th grade and I don't know how it will go over. To imagine I bought this trip when he was in 4th grade - seems like a million years ago!

I guess I will notify the school and teachers early and be as agreeable as I can and he plans to work hard to make up the work. Hopefully he will not end up as a hobo because of it.:thumbsup2
 
Why don't you book a vow renewal and say you're taking your kids out for a significant family religious event.....totally excusable.......:cool1:

HEHE, Love it!!!!

I will admit to stressing about this myself. My older son just started 6th grade and I don't know how it will go over. To imagine I bought this trip when he was in 4th grade - seems like a million years ago!

I guess I will notify the school and teachers early and be as agreeable as I can and he plans to work hard to make up the work. Hopefully he will not end up as a hobo because of it.:thumbsup2

We are in Pa and on the same cruise, maybe our kids can be Hobo's together:) I remember booking this cruise when Matthew was 4 and telling him he had to wait until he was 6, when his bday hit in June we were both excited, closer to the cruise:thumbsup2
 
I will say that I have pretty much the same policy with absenses. I filled out my paper for the school for our trip next month to Myrtle Beach. Technically it should be unexcused. I was honest and just told them we were taking our family vacation because this was the most affordable and convienent for everyone going and they just sent me a copy of the paper back with it saying excused. So I am guessing if you just are honest and give them plenty of notice they will be willing to work with you.
Have a great trip :goodvibes
 
i always take 2 vacations during the school year 1 cruise and speedweeks at daytona now our township is saying if you have 10 unexcused absents you fail even though my son allways had a's and b's so im gonna just plain lie;) i will say we are going on a cruise so i dont have to call him out while im on the ship but for our days in disney afterwards he got sick when we got home i already told my dr i need a note just get n good with yr dr all i gotta do is buy him a drink:)
 
Oh for Pete's sake, just take your kids and go. Unless your in some kind of fierce custody battle, don't worry about attendance. I teach sixth grade and encourage families to take their children out and enjoy family time. Your kids are only little once, and life is waaaaay to short to sweat the little things! Just go and enjoy the cruise. Seriously, some of your school districts really need to lighten up!
 
Bottom line is YOU are the parent. YOU make the decisions. I have a high school student and realize now how easily work is made up in the lower years - so take them out now, rather than when they're in middle and/or high school, when they not only miss lots of work, but miss their friends as well. I don't see how a school can force you to write some letter, and so what if it's "unexcused"...it doesn't exactly affect your "permanent record" or anything!!!
 
Oh for Pete's sake, just take your kids and go. Unless your in some kind of fierce custody battle, don't worry about attendance. I teach sixth grade and encourage families to take their children out and enjoy family time. Your kids are only little once, and life is waaaaay to short to sweat the little things! Just go and enjoy the cruise. Seriously, some of your school districts really need to lighten up!

::yes:: From your lips to the big guy's ears! :rotfl: :banana:

... I don't see how a school can force you to write some letter, and so what if it's "unexcused"...it doesn't exactly affect your "permanent record" or anything!!!
Funny you should mention that. Our district recently changed it's policy and I've heard that they will no longer excuse vacations as they have in the past. My question is, then what are the consequences for unexcused absences? I have a good friend who's a school administrator, and she honestly could not answer me. I'd like to know what the repercussions are, yet I am unable to find out. Strange! :confused3
 
::yes:: From your lips to the big guy's ears! :rotfl: :banana:

Funny you should mention that. Our district recently changed it's policy and I've heard that they will no longer excuse vacations as they have in the past. My question is, then what are the consequences for unexcused absences? I have a good friend who's a school administrator, and she honestly could not answer me. I'd like to know what the repercussions are, yet I am unable to find out. Strange! :confused3

In our district an unexcused absence is ALSO being late for more than minutes in one day or leaving 30 minutes before the end of the day, except for dr. appoinment, funeral, religious service/holiday.

After three absences the repercussions are:
First offense:you will get a letter informing you that your child is considered a truant.

Second offense: Another letter, possible consequences and letter get's cc'd to the police department.

Third offense: Your child is now an "habitual" truant. Meeting with principal, superintendent, police department.

The letters DO go out. And I know of folks making it to the third offense procedures.
 
In our district an unexcused absence is ALSO being late for more than minutes in one day or leaving 30 minutes before the end of the day, except for dr. appoinment, funeral, religious service/holiday.

After three absences the repercussions are:
First offense:you will get a letter informing you that your child is considered a truant.

Second offense: Another letter, possible consequences and letter get's cc'd to the police department.

Third offense: Your child is now an "habitual" truant. Meeting with principal, superintendent, police department.

The letters DO go out. And I know of folks making it to the third offense procedures.

At least you know up front what the consequences are. It'd be nice if all school districts did that!
 
The main problem these days is the "No Child Left Behind" Act. All schools receive grades and part of that grade is the attendance of the students.

In our county, they have chosen to not allow excuses at all. No homework can be made up, no quizes can be made up, no reports and no tests. The students simply gets a zero for each and every missed assignment. Taking a child out of school for a week and having that child receive a week's worth of zeros especially in high school is devastating.

That said, the best thing for you to do is check with your child's school and see what they say.

Good Luck!
 

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