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[4greatboys]

I dislike people who advocate their position in a loud voice claiming their way is the only way while saying anyone who thinks differently is stupid, uneducated or ignorant.

 

[chobie]

I love that people think a thread where every other word is hate should be considered sacrosanct.

 

[leighe]

This is going to feel so good!

I really, really dislike being pregnant. I'm thrilled we're having a baby - I'm just not enjoying the way it gets here. If I have to hear my mom or MIL tell me one more time that they never felt better in their lives than when they were pregnant I'm going to scream!

I think if all the money spent on putting technology in the classroom were spent on hiring more teachers instead the results would be much better.

I think tattoos and drinking straight out of a can are tacky.

I think ADHD is real but overdiagnosed.

I think some of the snobbiest people I have ever come into contact with have been on the Dis resorts board.

I think people depend on the governement way too much. Take care of yourself!

I think people who think religious people are small or close minded are being total hypocrites.

I think faith is one of the most beautiful and powerful forces in the world and that religion and science can co-exist perfectly.

 

[pixiedust23]

I think some of the snobbiest people I have ever come into contact with have been on the Dis resorts board.

hahahaha ITA!!!! And didnt that feel soooo goood?

 

[LuluLovesDisney]

I think most parents don't spend enough time with their children.

I think many spend too much money on their children.

I think children today grow up too fast. I was reading an article about a 12 year old who still wets the bed and I immediately thought of the 12 year old who gave birth in my local hospital- just proves that they're obviously still children at that age.

I think good and evil people come from all races and religions.

I think we need more plus size models! I love the new Dove campaign!

I think people should know simple grammar and spelling rules- like which version of "two", "to" or "too" to use or which tense of a verb.

I think people should not order the most expensive item if someone else is paying.

I think a little kindness in everyday life goes a long way.

I believe in reincarnation and karma and that people learn from all their mistakes and wrongdoings or else they just keep repeating them.

I think people should be taught many different religions and allowed to choose whichever they believe in, not try to assimilate their beliefs to whatever their parent happens to practice.

I think sex should be saved for after marriage/engagement and that it's a sacred act reserved for two people to share- no more.

I think there is too much sex and violence in the media AND in the world.

I think too many teenagers are having plastic surgery and eating disorders, which shows they feel a lack of self esteem.

I think profanity and obscene language is immature.

I think minimum wage should be raised to a living wage.

I think people could learn a lot from reading a thread like this- mainly how to accept other people's ideas, even if you strongly disagree with them.

 

[kasar]

I think people should not order the most expensive item if someone else is paying

OMG: I have to share: A very good friend and her husband just opened a restaurant. They risked everything they have for this - their house, their kids' futures, time, energy, their health, etc. They were so proud and invited their friends to a grand opening celebration and had appetizers and open bar. So nice. You can't believe the people at the bar ordering Gray Goose martinis and really expensive wines! I know it was offered and it was probably just a drop in the bucket compared to what they've already spent, but to me that was just really tacky.

Okay, sorry for the interruption. Continue on. (actually if you all would stop posting, I'd have time to get back to my life.....)

 

[greenyskp]

Im going again! Relationships!

I cant understand people who say you should wait to have sex before you're married. I have seen MANY realtionships and marriages, break up because their sex drives were very different, and it became a dealbreaker.

I think the people that say 'Wait till your married' Probably got married young, probably were forced that idea because of their faith, and some of them are now trapped in a marriage they hate because of they got married too young, and are trapped because of their faith.

I cant understand people that are strict with not living together before marriage. People are just different when you live together. I think practice runs are important.

Those two things right there are too old-fashioned for me. Those ideals were created in a time when women were expected to marry at 14, and start producing children and completley obey their husbands. Not to mention. What if I never get married? I dont know if I want to get married. The divorce rate is so high. So i should just die a virgin, dating someone who lives across town? I dont think so. Plus, you dont see any 35 year old single virgin women saying....Yep.. im waiting till im married. because its a sacred act. I say, wait till you're in a commited relationship, and you love the person.

I hate how confident and cocky I've become. To deal with the last year of my life, I have gained so much confidence in myself that i am cocky. And somewhat of a know-it-all. But I feel like, if I dont toot my horn, who is going to? I need to have faith in myself before I can ask someone else to have faith in me.

I hate that Im single. I like being so close to someone that you can call and tell them asinine things, and they can do the same.

I like and miss falling asleep in someones arms and feeling so very safe.

I hate that im a better friend and girlfriend then most of the ex-boyfriends and friends I have. Im just very caring and giving.

I hate that while my dad likes Disney, he makes fun of me for how obbsessed I am with it.

I hate that I'll probably never be able to afford to have a disney wedding.

I hate that i'll probably never be able to afford to stay at any deluxe resort concerige.

Im sad that, one of the only things Ive ever wanted to do, was kiss someone I love during a fireworks show at Disney, and all my exes havent liked Disney.

I hate feeling lonely

I hate that im moving out ALONE. As a single girl, into a one bedroom apartment. I know i'll be more lonely then I am now.

I hate money more than anything. It complicates every aspect of my life.

I think its funny that I cant HEAR Ariel singing or talking without crying.

I thinks its even funnier that I am articulate in life, but when I get around boys I think are cute, and Disney Princess's I have nothing to say, and im frozen in fear.

I wish my relationship with my father was good, and"Normal".

I hate when people tell me - 'dont worry, he's out there' What if hes not? What if there isnt someone for me? What if im doomed to roam the planet alone, like the incredible hulk? Its possible.

I hate hate hate when I tell people how old I am, and they tell me 'Ohhhh you're too young to think about marriage and settling down, enjoy your life!" People dont understand that i HATE dating, and would rather just already be with someone then have to go on dates and meet people, and play the 'does he like me'? game.

Im very picky when it comes to who I date. EXTREMELY picky. One time I left a date early because the guys glasses were horribly smudged, and I thought 'Ew. If he cant take care of his glasses, hows he gonna take care of me?'

Jeez. I have issues.... lol

 

[pixiedust23]

on the other side of previous post...

i hate it when people think you dont do something b/c of your boyfriend/girlfriend. Hi i'm a big girl now I can make my own decisions thank you!

I hate it that people think bc youre in a relationship you cant dress provacitively when you go to bars. I must have missed the clause that I was required to wear turtlenecks when I signed up to be in a relationship.

On that same note I hate it when people say i'm dressed like a slut when I'm not. Sorry I'm slim 5'2 and D cup but its not my fault. Do you want me to try and tape them down to my body?

OOO and I hate when people say so how is "bfs name here" doing. Yes I'm fine thank you for asking you moron!

 

[mickeyboat]

I am not offended, but I am not a big fan of this thread.

Denae

 

[debster812]

I am not offended, but I am not a big fan of this thread.

Denae

ITA with this. Makes me sad to read some of the stuff posted here.

 

[kasar]

A few more:

- I wish people would start making out their checks BEFORE the cashier is completely done ringing up their order (actually, I hate the whole check thing - it's time for people to get debit cards!). Also, if there's no bagger at the grocery store, don't just stand there while the cashier rings in your products and then has to bag the whole lot. You can put your Cheerios in a bag!

- I hate that we can't send in homebaked goodies to a school party

- I can't stand parents that stay home (yes, home - not out with other children or at work or something) when their children are playing in a game, or acting in a play, or driving some poor scout leader crazy, or.......

- I hate that stores like Hollister and Abercrombie make a fortune while making little girls hate their bodies

- I hate people who work the system for every little thing from asking neighbors for their workplace discounts to getting those chips that get you illegal cable to claiming on financial aid forms that they don't make enough to pay for college yet can drive a Mercedes.

- I think cheerleading should go by the way of the dinosaur (except for adults - they can do whatever they want)

- I don't care if people are gay and I think they should be able to get married and have all the legal rights they want. But I really don't like seeing gay people kiss - I don't know why - it's my own little thing and I'm working on getting over it (I think gay people SHOULD kiss each other if they want to, though).

- I think our schools are being sucked dry with practically every kid in the school having IEPs or needing extra help. Leave the resources for the kids that truly need them, not just so your kid gets more time taking MCAS or SAT tests.

- I hate when older people, after their kids have gone through a town's school system, complain that too much of their taxes go towards education.

- I hate when people throw lit cigarettes out their car windows and then I have to drive right over it. What if I have a gas leak or something?

 

[pixiedust23]

Thought of a few more

I dont like it when people dont agree with stem cell research. Mainly because a lot of them don't understand it.

Actually I'd like to elaborate I hate when people disagree with science and the many things it can for our future.

I dont like that Aber only hires attractive people.

I hate that people smoke cigarettes even when they know it is killing them.

I hate it when guys say they don't believe in abortion. You'll never have another life growing inside you and changing your body so dont tell me how to handle it when it happens to mine, thank you.

I hate it that no matter how hard I try to get past it every time I get close to someone the experience I had when I was cheated on always gets into my head and gets the best of me.

I hate it that although I like to think I have beaten anorexia, every now and then it rears its ugly head back in my life.

I hate it that I havent had a day off in 3 weeks (including weekends).

sigh...

 

[ashjohnson80]

I hate how our society has a certain version of what is "beautiful" and that it is shoved into our faces constantly.

 

[dcgrumpy]

There are some unbelievably greedy people on the Restaurant Board

 

[palmtreegirl]

~I can't take obnoxious, know it all, self righteous people who always feel the need to bring others down.

~Arm chair psychologists drive me nuts. It's one thing to offer advice it's another when they act like it's the word of God or something. Especially when they judge only knowing a small part of the story.

~People that come back from WDW and whine about other peoples outfits, whether or not people should use a scooter, wheel chair, stroller or that every child crying must be tired, need to get a life. I can't imagine spending my trip passing judgement on each person I passed.

~I find people that feel the need to tell others how to raise their children extremely annoying. Who cares if someone wants to breast or bottlefeed, take their kids out of school for a trip, to homeschool or send their kids to private or public school. Seriously get a life of your own already.

~I hate(yes hate) all stereo types!! Some of the ones that really bother me, in no particular order~ 1-All stay at home moms are lazy & stupid because they won't have a career to fall back on if they get divorced,. They're also fat and have let themselves go. Or on the flip side they're June Cleaver wannbes. 2- All working moms are letting other people raise their kids and just had them as trophy's.They're also cold business women who always put work before their own children 3- All homeschoolers are religious freaks and their parents just want to shelter their children from life. 4-Public schools are evil, nasty goverment institutions that are ruining your kids. 5-All Nascar fans are rednecks. And the biggie of course all Muslims are terrorists. There are many others, sadly too many to list, those were just a few examples. Once again that was list of stereo-types I hate, NOT my actual beliefs.

~People who brag about money crack me up, do they really think everyone else in awe of them? Why do they feel the need to brag constantly? Pathetic.

~I think Americans have become way too paranoid!!!

 

[polyfan]

A few more:

- I wish people would start making out their checks BEFORE the cashier is completely done ringing up their order (actually, I hate the whole check thing - it's time for people to get debit cards!). Also, if there's no bagger at the grocery store, don't just stand there while the cashier rings in your products and then has to bag the whole lot. You can put your Cheerios in a bag!

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I love this one! It drives me crazy.

 

[Tasha+Scott]

I think some of the things that have been said are sooo true!

I think some of the things that have been said are so judgemental and wrong!

I think some of the posters sound very sad and/or bitter about the direction their lives have gone! (((Hugs))) to you that feel that way!

Now for my list:

Things I Love:

*My dh
*My dd
*My pets
*My family
*God
*My freedom of speech
*My right to make my own choices such as:
-being a SAHM which I love!
-not bfing...my breasts, my choice!
-not planning on homeschooling, but it's nice to know that option is available
-basically anything regarding my child. I am glad I get to raise her the way I see fit and not the way others see fit. I'm sure others are glad I can't raise their children as well.
*My country b/c we have freedom
*My state/town/and county b/c small town life is actually nice and I have lived in both big cities and small towns and therefore know which I prefer!
*WDW
*the beach, ocean, pool
*sunshine
*My dd's smile
*My dh's laugh
*Just being alive!

Things I don't like so much:

*That my friend's dh was killed in Iraq a couple of weeks ago when he was due to come home this month!
*The fact that his funeral was held on their 3rd year wedding anniversary!
*That we are still in a pointless war that I truly do not understand! (I do support our military though!)
*That someday soon the draft could come back causing me to lose those I care about who did not wish to go into the military and would be forced against their will!
*stereotypes
*closed-minded people/judgemental people
*those that are trolls or start threads to cause trouble...c'mon, get a life already!
*any type of abuse
*Those that judge me when they don't even know me!
*judging someone based on age...being young doesn't always equal less mature or less intelligent. And being young-at-heart does not always equal less strength or less hip! Again, w/the idiotic stereotypes!
*that dh's family still doesn't accept me after nearly 6 years of marriage and one child no matter what I do!
*I can't stand when my mom second-guesses every parental decision I make for dd...just b/c I am a new mom doesn't mean I am a stupid one. For example, she had to watch me a few days ago to see if I know how to properly change a diaper (um, been doing it for 3 months now! ) and asked if I knew not to leave dd unattended on her changing table, bed, etc. I had to bite my tongue to keep from saying, "I always leave her unattended w/a bottle of Rum in one hand and a cigarette in the other!" That being said, I absolutely love my mom! I just wish she had more faith in me and could just say she's proud of me!

Wow! Once I got started I couldn't stop! And I could keep going, but I won't! You get the drift!

 

[wednesday]

I don't usually post on these types of threads but after reading some of these I really feel compelled.

I dislike the ACLU and feel that they are against everything that is good.

I dislike people calling the President an idiot and a moron, especially celebrities who do it on foreign soil. I did not vote for Clinton but he was the President so I tried to show a little respect.

I dislike liberals making the assumption that if you voted for Bush, and continue to believe that you made the right decision then you are a moron. I never called people that voted for Clinton morons, even though I did not share their beliefs.

I think that the notion of conservatives being heartless, money hungry bigots to be the biggest joke EVER. I am a conservative and most people that I associate with are as well. None of us belong to the "country club" nor have the desire. I believe Republicans want to give people the tools to help themselves rather than put them on the wellfare line for the rest of their lives making them forever dependent on the Gov't.

I think that a liberal calling someone that voted for Bush a moron or calling most conservatives heartless, money hungry bigots, is showing their narrow
minded true colors.

I dislike that racism is alive and well and not just against minorities. I lived in Memphis for a few years where I was more or less in the minority. I tried my very best to treat everyone equally. I got sick and tired of not getting the same respect in return.

I dislike how it seems that more and more people seem to have very little respect for their fellow man. How hard is it to follow the rules and be a good neighbor or citizen?

I dislike the people who seem to take great satisfaction out of bashing America every chance they get, even when it doesn't pertain to the thread...sad thing is, said people are the first to defend the rights of our enemy.

I dislike people taking patriotism and the proud displaying the American flag, the symbol of freedom and democracy, and associating it with facism.

I love America! I also respect our military and our President, so if that makes me ignorant or makes you hate me then I have no use for you anyway and it's no big loss. Boy I feel better!

I did not quote and am hoping that no one considers this a flame directed towards them, that was not my intention.

 

[MinnieM21]

*judging someone based on age...being young doesn't always equal less mature or less intelligent. And being young-at-heart does not always equal less strength or less hip! Again, w/the idiotic stereotypes!

I completely agree with you!

 

[Goobergal99]

I completely agree with you!

i also agree with you