I admit that I fall into the category of holding a table while DH orders. As many others have stated it seems like the practical thing to do and helps keep the chaos at the registers a bit more ... manageable.
Having said that, we also tend to visit WDW during October and May when the crowds aren't as heavy so this isn't as much of an issue.
One thing I'd like to point out, just for the heck of it, is that none of us can judge the situation of another person / family just by what we see when we walk into a crowded CS establishment. I think all of us make a lot of assumptions and snap judgements (I include myself - I'm not pointing fingers!) and they're not always the right ones.
I'll use myself as an example. Last October we went to WDW about 6 weeks after I had surgery. I'd been cleared to return to work and all that good stuff, but I was still taking pain medication and still tired easily. One afternoon we stopped at a CS location in Epoct to grab a snack and I was actually feeling very unwell. I sat down at an empty table to wait for the hubby and by the time he came back with some food and drinks I was starting to feel much better. Would it have been better for me to stand in line with DH and risk fainting and creating a huge distraction and mess for everyone or was it better for me to just sit down and hold a table since we were planning on eating there anyway?
Now apply that same sort of scenario to... a pregnant woman, an elderly guest, someone with a terminal disease, someone with parkinsons, a diabetic, etc... Would you begrudge them a table while someone else in their party is ordering? Would your answer be the same if you couldn't tell just from looking that the person had an issue?
If we expect others to be considerate of us, we have to be considerate of them and sometimes that means we've got to give them the benefit of the doubt.
Anyhoo, do I save a table? Yep.
Would I be willing to share if someone asked? Sure, although we usually only sit at tables for two.
Do I get upset with other guests for saving tables? Nope.
Would I knock down an old lady with a walker and trample a toddler to get to an empty table?
Maybe.
